Asim Raza returns to his directorial roots with the highly anticipated romantic movie, “Parey Hut Love.†Haider Rifaat sat down with the A-list leads Maya Ali and Sheheryar Munawar to talk about their roles and more
How would you describe yourself?
I trust people easily. I’m a caring and loving person.
You have a Masters degree in Mass Communication. Has that helped you in your field?
Not really. I began my career as a host and eventually got into acting. However, my education did make me more confident. I always say it’s crucial to get a degree before pursuing a career.
Did you always want to be an actress?
Not at all. I could have never imagined I would end up where I am today. When I started out, I had no family support, especially from my father’s side. My journey started as an intern for a newspaper, after which offers snowballed for hosting. Up until that point, the idea of becoming an actor was unthinkable. Haissam Hussain took a chance on me with “Durr-e-Shahwar,†my first drama serial. After shooting the first scene, I realised I was born to act.
Despite all your professional accomplishments, do you feel you’re still struggling as an actor?
Obviously — the process of learning never ends. When people call me a star, I always correct them saying I’m only an actor.
In a recent interview of yours, you spoke at length about your relationship with your father. How has his absence impacted you?
I’m no longer the same Maya who was carefree and uninhibited. I’ve definitely become a more mature person after his passing. I’m more aware of my responsibilities now.
Tell us about the plot and your character in “Parey Hut Love.â€
“Parey Hut Love†is a classic romantic movie. I play Saniya, a strong-willed, confident, young woman who knows exactly what she wants from life. The best part about this project is that the characters are realistic and relatable. You’ll get to see many weddings in the film, from Parsi, Kashmiri, desi to destination.
What was the most enjoyable part about shooting the film?
The whole journey was a blast. From the first day till the last, we enjoyed the shoot as a family, especially in Bahawalpur. There were no tantrums or disagreements. The vibe on set was always very positive because of Asim Raza, the father of our little family.
What was it like working with Sheheryar Munawar?
I haven’t met anyone like him. He performed brilliantly, both as an actor and a producer. No matter how bad his day might have been, Sheheryar would always come on set with a smile. Being humble and patient are a few things I’ve learnt from him.
How did you prepare for your character in the movie?
After Asim explained my character to me, I worked hard to embody her. During rehearsals, I’d sit and talk like her. I became so absorbed by her that once the camera started rolling, it all came naturally.
What’s next for you?
I haven’t signed on to anything yet but there are a couple of scripts I’m considering.
Actors usually progress from television to film, however, there’s a new trend of moving in the opposite direction. Why do you think that is?
In our industry, television is a bigger medium than film. I ventured into films because of my performances in drama serials. We produce four to five movies a year. If I’m not in any one of them, what else would I be doing? I, for one, can never leave television behind.
Do you still get nervous before going on camera?
In my first scene for “Parey Hut Love,†I told Asim Raza that my heart was racing. He reminded me that it’s a good thing, as it’ll help me perform better. For me, every scene is like my first time.
Have you ever felt pressured to live up to people’s expectations?
Yes. I’m constantly worrying about what people will think if I let them down. But, sometimes we need to do things for ourselves.
Growing up, who did you idolise?
My mother, as she’s a very strong individual. Whenever I feel weak, I envision my mother and how she’d deal with the situation. What advice would you give to your younger self?
I had many dreams growing up, but had to give them up due to lack of support. My passion for sports was one of them. If I could, I’d tell my younger self to have more faith in her dreams.
How do you want people to remember you?
In good words. I try my best to make others feel happy.



What’s something that most people don’t know about you?
I learnt swimming late. I remember I was six or seven years old when I was about to drown, but my elder brother saved me. Within a month, I taught myself how to swim. That’s a random story, I know. I don’t know why I thought of it but it was the first thing that came to my mind when you asked me that question. That must be very undisclosed!

From production to acting, you seem to juggle both duties really well. Does it ever become hectic for you?
I’m a stubborn person. If I want something, I’ll do everything in my capacity to achieve it. I enjoy high stress situations and for some reason, I perform better under pressure.
Give people a reason why they should watch your film “Parey Hut Love.â€
There are many reasons. It’s a wholesome family film with multiple layers. You’d want to watch it more than once because it has so many intricacies, visually and story wise. More so, it’s a star cast of fourteen members and consists of director Asim Raza, Hina Dilpazeer and Ahmad Ali Butt. These are huge names. Musically, Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and Jimmy Khan are associated with this project. Each department had a big name working on this film. It’s a rare phenomenon when prestigious names come under one roof and produce something stellar.
How has Asim Raza’s creative vision impacted this project?
Asim’s creative process includes involving all the performers. Even a supporting character has a backstory under Asim’s supervision.
Describe Maya Ali in one word.
Resilient
The chemistry between you and Maya central to the film. How did you both kindle that spark on screen?
We’re both very competitive individuals. We became good friends during rehearsals and built a comfort level with each other. I’m surprised we never got the chance to work before.
Do you think the industry is emphasising more on comedies and compromising on effective storytelling?
Let’s first separate commercial and alternative cinemas. For commercial cinema, one has to factor in the interests of the audience; what their pulse is and what they respond best to. People frequently ask us why we only produce rom-com films. Sadly, that’s what you want to watch. Do you think that we as artists are hesitant to make films on important subjects? Of course not, but an investor is not going to greenlight any such projects.

You put television on hold and worked behind the camera for a while. Were there any personal reasons behind your decision?
When my elder brother passed away, my family and I went through a terrible experience. I decided to put television on hold and started to work behind the camera with Asim. It was a tricky year. There was a lot happening emotionally and professionally. My nerves were tested during that time in my life.
What rules do you live your life by?
I live my life based on that philosophy that life is short and every moment counts. My parents often get upset with me when I push myself too much, but I tell them that you only live once and what you do in this lifetime, echoes through eternity.
How do you unwind?
I don’t really get time to do so these days. The past year has been tough, but my family is amazing. When I’m not working, I like to travel. I enjoy outdoorsy activities such as trekking and cycling. I also love reading.
What does a day in your life look like?
I’m a very restless person. I can’t stay in one place, so I’m always on the go. You won’t find me at home doing nothing.
What attracts you in other people?
Confidence grabs my attention.
A spiritual conversion, a change of heart, a chance to look deep into your soul and see what it is that’s holding you back from your own true self
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Have you ever felt that you’re not good enough? It’s a creeping feeling that slowly tries to engulf you as you convince yourself that despite all your achievements, perhaps people can see through the cracks in the facade. This uncertainty with one’s own self gets amplified as soon as we factor in the digital interference in our lives. Given social media’s strong hold over our daily lives and the way we project them to the world, it’s no surprise that we fall further down the rabbit hole of self-deprecation and an almost nauseating sense of inadequacy.
You’re not alone in this though. This odd feeling has been given a name: the imposter syndrome.
The phenomenon of feeling like a fraud or an outsider, i.e. someone who’s faking their way through life, despite evidence to the contrary, has been under study for quite some time now. The term was first introduced as “imposter phenomenon†back in 1978 in an article by Dr. Pauline R. Clance and Dr. Suzanne A. Imes. However, at the time it was primarily used to study the feelings of phoniness that high-achieving women felt. Recent studies have shown that gender doesn’t seem to have any major effect on this feeling and that men are as susceptible to this syndrome as women.
It’s important to note that this isn’t a mental disorder per se, but more of a psychological pattern and informs behaviours such as anxiety, stress and even depression. Everyone who has undergone such a behavioural pattern obviously reacts differently. Now, I’ll leave the scientific nitty-gritty to more capable and informed minds (and I honestly suggest setting up a meeting with a therapist if you think you’re going through something along these lines).
Here, though, I’d like to discuss how this syndrome plays out in our daily lives and how I’ve seen it affect many of those around me.
“I’m not good enoughâ€
“I don’t think I’m doing enoughâ€
“I finally achieved my goal, but I don’t think I really deserve itâ€
“What more can I do?â€
“My own clock is ticking and I still haven’t accomplished all the things I wanted toâ€
These are phrases I’ve heard repeatedly around me and at times have been caught saying them out loud myself. If not out loud, then they’ve always been on the back of my mind for sure. Just a couple of weeks ago when I turned twenty-eight, I thought to myself, “I only have two more years till I hit the big thirty and there’s an entire list of things I still haven’t even embarked upon, let alone accomplish.â€
All the while, I keep completely ignoring everything that I have done so far. Any time someone brings up milestones in my life, it seems I take the route of minimising my wins and focusing more on the losses — because how can I actually be deserving of such triumphs. Similarly, those around me are plagued with this malcontent in various aspects of their lives. People I know to be really good writers have shied away from publishing anything because of their fear that no one will read their work and they’ll be caught for their fraudulent behaviour. The fraudulent behaviour being simply to pick up a pen and write. Interestingly enough, writers such as Maya Angelou and Neil Gaiman have reported feeling this way about their own work.
This feeling extends to denying your own self-worth. In Pakistan, I see this largely in women (perhaps it’s an effect of our deeply embedded patriarchal system). Women feel as if they’re inadequate wives, or not worthy of dating, or despite heading major organisations and being in leadership positions their achievements need to be belittled, else someone will uncover their (false) truth and expose them as frauds.
For me, it was heartening to read that people like Tom Hanks, Michelle Obama and even Emma Watson have reported feeling this way. Such people who are in the limelight and their accomplishments are there for the world to see shouldn’t feel this way, right? But they do.
The more I learnt about this concept and the more I dug into it, the easier it became to accept it. I began noticing how for some it’s visible discomfort if they’re publicly praised, while for others it’s avoiding compliments by turning the conversation towards goals that still need to be achieved.
As a millennial, I’m occupied with various projects at the same time, however, it feels awkward telling people about what I do. The creeping feeling comes back and I want to just avoid the spotlight and move on.
My research yielded some basic ways to avoid this feeling: don’t minimise your accomplishments, separate feelings from facts and accentuate the positives in your life. Obviously, this is just what works for me. It’s highly recommended that you see a professional to assuage your concerns and find out the route that’s optimal for you. Remember: imposter syndrome is something that isn’t restricted to age, gender and other factors. You might see it more in one group than the other given your personal surroundings, but everyone is susceptible. The purpose of this article was to highlight this issue so you don’t feel alone or as if you’re losing your mind feeling inadequate. Till then, be kind to those around you, as you don’t know what their struggle is.
From producing films, fighting online trolls and moving towards a healthier lifestyle, this superstar reveals it all
The trailer for your upcoming movie “Heer Maan Ja†has audiences excited. Tell us about your role and how the plot is different from a typical rom-com.
“Heer Maan Ja†is not just a rom-com, but a feel-good movie with an important social message. Heer is a happy-go-lucky, high-spirited girl with big dreams, but from a conservative family — a character many will able to relate to. She wants to keep everyone happy, but once she undergoes a transformation, the real story begins.
You mentioned in one of your interviews that your relationship with your father inspired the father-daughter dynamics in “Heer Maan Ja.†Please elaborate.
That’s my absolute favourite part of the movie. We’ve shown a very healthy and positive father-daughter relationship – one that’s similar to my own relationship with my father.
I’m also extremely grateful that the venerable Abid Ali agreed to play the role of my father. We previously worked together on “Diyar-e-Dil†and it was great to work again.
“Eid is a festive occasion and a big business window for Pakistani movies. It’s always good for the industry to have more than one release to the exhibitorsâ€
“Heer Maan Ja†is going to be released on Eid-ul-Azha, coinciding with the release of some other big budget movies. Does that make you feel any pressure?
Eid is a festive occasion and a big business window for Pakistani movies. It’s always good for the industry to have more than one release to the exhibitors. As a producer, I know we need more cinema screens in Pakistan for the industry to become sustainable, which we’re not. We’re dependent on foreign content when Pakistani films are not releasing.
As far as the other movies are concerned, I believe they are catering to an audience much different than “Heer Maan Ja,†which is a comedy. They’re all projects from incredibly talented people and I wish them all the best.
The majority of your work has been with either Ali Rehman Khan or Osman Khalid Butt. Does being old friends or being raised in the same city have a part to play in that?
It’s a simple equation — the more you enjoy your work, the better a job you end up doing. Having a good team and people we are comfortable with, is probably our strength as a production house. To be honest, Ali & I have worked on various projects together and we have a whole bunch of fans, but Heer & Kabeer’s relationship in “Heer Maan Ja†is very different from what our fans and audiences have seen us play before.
How has your journey from “Pawnay 14 August†to “Heer Maan Ja†changed you as a person?
It’s been a wonderful roller coaster ride. I feel, I’ve grown exponentially as an individual, realised I’m a workaholic and love my job, both as an actor and as a producer and have accepted that my strength lies in my family and close friends.
So while I’m calmer, more focused and working non-stop, I’m essentially the same Hareem.
“Actors are also humans and we have good and bad days — we have skin issues, weight issues and all other imperfections that any other human hasâ€
When answering why you ventured into production, you’ve spoken about the shelf life of an actress. Don’t you think a growing film industry demands female characters to be written differently?
Of course it does and there have been many projects in Pakistan that focus on women of all ages. However, that doesn’t mean that if the opportunity arises one shouldn’t broaden their horizons.
In order to grow professionally, you need to explore your options and keep on learning. Producing was just a natural next step, even if I keep the age and gender factor aside.
What’s the best and worst thing about being a woman in the public eye?
The best thing is that you represent Pakistan and can be a role model for Pakistani women.
The worst is always being under scrutiny in a judgemental society. Actors are also humans and we have good and bad days — we have skin issues, weight issues and all other imperfections that any other human has.
You’ve spoken very candidly about your weight loss journey, advocating fitness over an unrealistic obsession with being skinny. What motivated you to change your lifestyle?
As we grow older, I guess it’s natural to want to be healthy — and that’s what triggered my decision to start this journey. At some point I actually started enjoying it all, the exercise, eating healthy and just feeling fit — it just became a way of life for me.
At the same time, because it wasn’t an attempt at becoming skinny, the journey has left me feeling good about who I am, instead of being in a race to be a certain size or shape.
“I’m blessed that my family is super supportive and loving. Both my sister and I have been brought up with the mentality that we can achieve whatever we set our minds onâ€
How do you unwind?
By listening to music and exercising.
Everyone knows you as a skilled actress and credible producer, but what are you like at home? Tell us about your family and childhood.
I come from a small family. I have a younger sister who’s studying abroad and together we had a very normal childhood. Our parents always encouraged us to follow our dreams. I’m blessed that my family is super supportive and loving. Both my sister and I have been brought up with the mentality that we can achieve whatever we set our minds on.
Other than my family, I have a very small circle of friends that I’ve known since my school days. They’re not from the industry and keep me grounded.
Favourite co-stars?
Ali Rehman Khan and Osman Khalid Butt
A role of yours you think you could’ve performed better?
There’s always room for improvement in everything you do
Your default response to trolls?
I generally don’t bother responding
Biggest pet peeve?
Dirty fingernails
Do you have a hidden talent?
I can make you laugh on the worst of days
Wardrobe essentials you can’t live without?
PJs
If you could eat only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Flame-grilled chicken and biryani (I guess those are two)
Tell us your most embarrassing moment.
Postponing the filming of a scene because of a gazillion retakes, thanks to my fits of laughter
Three things on your bucket list for 2019?
1-Make “Heer Maan Ja†a success
2-Start working on my next film
3-Go on a vacation with my close friends (without my phone)
What traits of yours do you credit your success to?
The will to give my all to anything I set out to achieve
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This Independence Day we celebrate the little delights that make up the quintessence of Pakistan, whether it’s enjoying a plate of gol gappas or spotting our famous truck art among heavy traffic
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What’s the one thing about Lahore that makes it your favourite city?
The atmosphere created by Lahore’s lush greenery, coupled with the monsoon rain in the summer is the epitome of home for me. The beautiful red brick layout of Lahori architecture, combined with the petrichor of rich Punjabi soil is like no other.
What’s your favourite historic place in Pakistan?
It’s unfair to choose just one, as we have such a rich history — ranging from the 800-year-old Baltit Fort in Hunza to Jehangir’s Tomb in Lahore, to the ancient ruins of Mohenjo-Daro in Sindh. For me the most significant is The Lahore Fort though: whenever I go there I like to visualise how life must have been back in the days of the Mughal grandeur — the river running by it, the hustle and bustle of the walled city — it represents a magical era to me.
How important do you think it is to look after our national treasures?
I think it’s imperative that we look after our national treasures. It breaks my heart to see what’s become of places like Tollinton Market. However, I’m glad that they’ve started to conserve older landmarks and bring back the essence of old Lahore through restaurant experiences that also highlight other significant landmarks like the Badshahi Mosque and the Fort.
The historic quintessence of Lahore always has captivated me. Being one of the oldest cities, it has held ancient civilizations for over 7000 years old. Previously, Lahore was called Kachi Sehr, preceding the Mughal empire and carries meaningful antiquity. So it’s highly important to protect these cities, because they carry the last link to our former heritage. There’s more to Pakistan than being a country that got separated from India. What we have is absolutely precious and it should be a top priority of the government to preserve it.
Describe your perfect day out in Lahore.
It’ll have to be a winter day, where I leave early in the morning to visit Badshahi Mosque, Wazir Khan Mosque and the rest of the inner city. I’ll then have a picnic in Lawrence Garden, followed by a nice dinner at Cooco’s Den. Soaking up old Lahore in all its glory is the perfect day and thankfully I make it a point to do that almost every year.
What is that one eastern dish that you cannot go long without?
My mother’s biryani, which she makes without potatoes mind you. I love halwa puri and chicken karahi also, but the biryani for sure, because it’s super spicy.
What’s that one place that you think holds the most amount of cultural heritage in Lahore?
Lahori culture has varied so much from the Sikh to the British and the Mughal reigns, so I don’t think there is one place that I can pinpoint. Anarkali’s Tomb, which was a Mughal building, later turned into a church and taken over the by the Sikhs definitely holds a lot of culture and is very significant because it represents different eras of rule.
The lushness of Punjab or the beauty of Sindh?
The lushness of Punjab. I have a bias since my roots are from Lahore. I was lucky enough to explore a bit of central Punjab (Pak-Pattan) and the Sufi heritage there was mesmerising. I’d love to go deeper and explore Malika Hans as well.
How important do you think it is to understand the ethnicity that comes along with every culture?
Recognising and appreciating our diversity is vital. The traditions, clothes, food and cultures that have trickled down from the pre-Islamic pagan era, to now of people from Hunza, Kailash and Naran are so distinct. The splendour of the Sindhi culture and the simplicity of the Pakhtoon culture have so much beauty that it completely consumes you. The folk tale shrines of Punjab carry so much multiplicity that it is a tragedy if we don’t appreciate the elements that make Pakistan what it is.
What is your favourite tradition since childhood?
I haven’t gotten to see this particular tradition in recent years, but our home in Lahore was near one of the signature canals and I remember on 12 Rabbi-ul-Awal the canals would be decked out with decorative floats and people would make really nice colorful decorations outside their houses. The festivity wasn’t dissimilar to what I grew up with in Canada around Christmas. Neighborhoods, especially the inner city ones were lit up with candles and oil lamps and I would always insist to help around.
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