By Laaleen Khan
Regardless of vast differences in time and place, there are certain parallels that can be drawn from Jane austen’s Regency england and contemporary pakistani society. There are also universalities that have made austen’s work resonate through the ages and transcend the confinement of her society. A leading authority of all things Austen,  and the founder of the Jane Austen Society of Islamabad, Laaleen Khan has written a thesis on the subject, literally. she chats with fellow janeites caroline jane knight, moni mohsin and jane odiwe about their mutual love for the author’s enduring legacyÂ
Jane Austen is the perennial rock star of the literary world—two centuries later, she refuses to go out of style. This past December marked Emma’s bicentennial publishing anniversary, along with Ms Austen’s 240th birthday. Next year, she’ll replace Charles Darwin on a new £10 note to mark her 200th death anniversary. BBC Culture’s list of 100 greatest British novels of all time named four of Austen’s titles (only six were published in completion)— Pride and Prejudice at #11, Emma at #19, Persuasion at #20 and Sense and Sensibility at #66. Austen is even related to the future Queen of the United Kingdom—she is 11th cousin, six times removed, to the Duchess of Cambridge via Kate’s paternal ancestor Henry Percy, 2nd Earl of Northumberland. Austen transcended fashionable readership circles of her lifetime by earning the respect of scholars and academia long after her death, dipping in popularity during the Bronte-led Victorian era and resurging during the 1940s (also a popular choice in the war trenches for home-sick soldiers). Her novels have long held international acclaim beyond the English-speaking world, translated into various languages (including an Urdu version of Pride and Prejudice, Takabbur aur Taassub by Prof. Shahid Hameed).
Over the preceding two decades, Jane Austen has been a part of mainstream popular culture and quite a force to be reckoned with in Hollywood. In 2013, British viewers voted Mr Darcy’s lake scene as the top dramatic moment in British television history—Darcy emerging drenched from the lake at Pemberley to greet Elizabeth Bennet in Andrew Davies’ adaptation of the BBC’s celebrated 1995 Pride and Prejudice series. This catapulted actor Colin Firth and an outbreak of ‘Darcy Fever’ broke out. Henceforth, a relentless stream of postmodern homage to Austen ensued, including Clueless, Bridget Jones’s Diary, Aisha, Lost In Austen, Austenland, Death Comes To Pemberley and Pride and Prejudice and Zombies. Austen has since inspired multigenre tribute fiction, stage, musical, film, TV and digital adaptations; entire merchandise collections from tea and porcelain to jewellery and gowns; cultural festivals including balls, picnics and promenades; and travel and tours to settings depicted in her novels and adaptations and within her lifetime. Annual Jane Austen Festivals in Bath, England and Kentucky, U.S. rival one another in sheer size. Enthusiasts don custom-made apparel and authentic accessories as they attend picnics and assembly balls, indulging in historic recreation in the guise as Regency-era ladies and gentlemen.
The British Raj ensured that the subcontinent’s influence upon Regency England was felt, so fashions at the time included Indian muslin, kundan and polki jewellery and Kashmiri shawlsÂ
Global Jane Austen fans from Brazil to South Korea enjoy her work and often celebrate her legacy through ‘Jane Austen Societies.’ One such literary group, the Jane Austen Society of Islamabad (JASI), founded in 2014, is the first known Austen group in Pakistan. The group’s first themed Regency Tea took place last autumn. Members dressed in empire-waist gowns with whimsical touches, enjoying afternoon tea inspired by Georgette Heyer’s London references as they discussed pertinent literary topics and played a game of Jane Austen Matchmaker.      Dressing up as a Regency lady in Pakistan is a little easier than one might imagine; the British Raj ensured that the subcontinent’s influence upon Regency England was felt, so fashions at the time included Indian muslin, kundan and polki jewellery and Kashmiri shawls.
In December, JASI celebrated Jane’s 240th birthday with a Pride and Prejudice-centric literary session that included members Skype-ing in from Paris and Lahore to take part in the discussion. It’s certainly not all bonnets and scones for the members, who explore topics such as gender disparity and social mores in Austen’s work within the context of contemporary Pakistan.
As JASI’s founder, I’d say that our community is a haven for like-minded literary buffs and Regency aficionados. Like many of my contemporaries in South Asia, I grew up in a literary household in Lahore with a wealth of books, mostly by classic British authors. My English aunt gave me a box set of Jane Austen novels on my twelfth birthday—and there was no looking back. At university, prior to working on my honours thesis on postmodern Austen screen adaptations, I wrote a paper comparing social elements between contemporary Pakistani ‘drawing room society’ with the Regency era, referencing the marriage mart, eligibility, reputation, feudal families and class-consciousness. For not only do we grow up with classic literature as part of our postcolonial heritage, we relate to it as well. Filmmaker Mira Nair (of Monsoon Wedding fame) once joked in an interview with AboutFilm during the promotion of her adaptation of Thackeray’s Vanity Fair (replete with Indian touches such as Reese Witherspoon in Banarasi with Bollywood dance moves), “If there’s anyone who understands class better than the English, it’s the Indians!†She continued, “We are real colonial hangovers…Really steeped in Dickens, and Shakespeare, and Blake, and Dylan Thomas. I can recite—my father used to make me memorize Portia every summer—crazy things like that…I’ve not shot in England before, but I love England, and in many ways I’m very familiar with it. So it was a great joy.â€
Calling in at the BBC World Book Club’s 200th celebration of Pride and Prejudice, Karachi-raised British novelist Kamila Shamsi described Pakistani and Regency social similarities, “Your relatives play a role in your wedding, the economic side of it, where it’s not assumed in any way that a woman will earn a living, and, therefore, her income is tied to who she marries.†Sahar Habib Ghazi of Global Voices made an astute gender observation in a critique of a viral video depicting shopping-frenzied possibly middle class Pakistani women—which, in retrospect may well describe Austen’s Regency ladies, who were similarly judged by appearances and lived in a status-conscious, restrictive era: “Pakistan’s social system systematically rewards women and girls dressed in privilege and shuns those who don’t. That (Sapphire) sale offered some families a short-cut to privilege that they normally couldn’t afford for their daughters. They weren’t fighting for an outfit, they were fighting for perceived privilege. Perhaps some of these women are seemingly ‘privileged women from wealthy families’ made to live on tight budgets…an outcome of the massive imbalance of power and privilege between genders within families. Some men control all the money…some women are discouraged from working by their families…For many women, their outings and socialization is limited to family or social gatherings, where they are expected to look their best.â€
JASI’s online community is 94% female and 55% are aged between 25 and 44. 40% are from Pakistan (approximately a third are from Islamabad, Lahore and Karachi respectively). 23% are from the USA, with 9% from Britain and 7% from Brazil. Remaining members come from the Americas (Argentina, Canada, Mexico, Peru), Europe (Albania, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Ireland Italy, Malta, the Netherlands, Romania, Slovenia, Spain, Turkey), Africa (Algeria, Egypt, Uganda), the Middle East (Iran, Israel, Palestine, the UAE), Asia (Bangladesh, Hong Kong, India) and Australia.
Islamabad-based members are an eclectic yet compatible group of journalists, academics and professionals in the arts and sciences. Architect Zarminae ‘Nini’ Ansari lived in Islamabad before moving to Paris. “This group is everything I love about Islamabad: a group of smart, qualified people getting together because of their common interests, rather than the fact that their grandfathers were business partners or mothers were committee or coffee-party friends!†she reveals. “My favourite city in Pakistan is Islamabad. It’s where I found ‘my tribe’…The transient social nature of Islamabad and its high turnover of residents—diplomats, expats, multinational HQ—people are more open and less cliquish than in places with entrenched social groups and ‘acceptable’ social practices and activities.â€
It’s certainly not all bonnets and scones for the members, who explore topics such as gender disparity and social mores in Austen’s work within the context of contemporary Pakistan
Basia Heath is a PR executive who relocated from London. “Knowing Islamabad now, it comes as no surprise (for JASI to exist here),†she confides. “There is a real depth of interest in art, music and literature. There are vibrant cafes and an artisan culture, and there are all sorts of activities catering to special interests with a real sense of community. If a person bases their perception of Pakistan on episodes of Homeland and the (popularized) image of Pakistan, then I suspect this would come as quite a shock!†A qualified dentist, Shirin Saifullah Khan shares, “Pride and Prejudice was the first Austen novel I read, and naturally, there was no looking back. Austen makes the characters evolve in such a way that one becomes uncertain about their own feelings towards them. The happy endings are the cherry on top!â€
Social practices in Austen’s time that seem quaint or outdated in western societies today are still flourishing in Pakistan. “There is still so much focus on what makes people ‘eligible’ here when people consider marriage that was also done in Jane Austen’s day,†comments broadcast journalist Sophia Sultana Saifi. Gayathri Warnasuriya, a health scientist from Sri Lanka, remarks, “When I first really immersed myself in Pride and Prejudice I was 15 years old and it was of course with Elizabeth and her sisters that I most identified. Now, more than 25 years later, I am quite possibly older than Mrs Bennet yet I find myself unable to walk in her shoes!Maybe it’s because I am an older mum and my daughter is only four years old. I am out of sync with Regency and indeed Pakistani society, where I sometimes meet mothers my age whose daughters are already ‘out in society’.†Remarks barrister Saniyya Gauhar, “Miss Bingley was unanimously voted by our group as most disliked,†referring to an opinion poll that JASI created for its members. “Most of us know or have known a Miss Bingley—that sugary sweet friend who subtly puts you down without you being aware of it until much later! Pure old-fashioned jealousy is usually the motive. It doesn’t necessarily have to be competition over a man!â€
The Jane Austen Society of Islamabad has plans for future meets and themed occasions. The group is to be featured in the spring issue of Jane Austen’s Regency World Magazine, the official publication of the Jane Austen Centre, Bath. It also has plans to work with the Jane Austen Literacy Foundation, a registered not-for-profit charity, to raise funds towards worthy causes including UNICEF’s school-in-a-box program for Syrian refugee children.
Enthusiasts of Austen, classic literature and period drama are invited to view the JASI facebook page at: Facebook.com/Janeites
Founder of the Jane Austen Literacy Foundation (JALF) and Ms Austen’s fifth great-niece (a descendent of Jane’s brother, Edward Austen Knight, Squire of Chawton), the Melbourne-based marketing executive grew up at Chawton House, which is now a library—The Centre for The Study of Early Women’s Writing, 1600-1830. Incidentally, Chawton village in Hampshire is where Jane lived and wrote for the last eight years of her life. The cottage has been preserved as Jane Austen’s House Museum. The JALF is a charitable organization that hopes to tap into Austen’s global popularity for the benefit of literacy programs, such as UNICEF’s school-in-a-box programs as part of Jane’s legacy. Current ambassadors include Simon Langton, Director of the BBC’s acclaimed 1995 Pride and Prejudice TV series that Caroline credits for Austen’s continued cultural and commercial popularity: “As well as talent and determination, there has also been a healthy dose of luck—the casting of Colin Firth, for example. Rarely have two people born 185 years apart had such a profound and lasting effect on each other’s careers!â€
Caroline Jane Knight
Laaleen: In what way do you plan to work with the Jane Austen Society of Islamabad and other Austen societies around the world on literacy projects?
Caroline: “JALF is all about harnessing the passion for Jane Austen to raise
money for literacy. We will work with JASI and other societies to raise funds and select the right communities to support with literacy resources. We are a registered not-for-profit organisation run by volunteers with no wages or commission paid to anyone, created to extend Great Aunt Jane’s legacy. Janeites are united in their love of Austen, books and literacy and together we have the power to really make a difference.â€
Jane Odiwe
The Bathonian/Londoner author of tributes (i.e. prequels and sequels to Austen’s original novels) speculates how Austen’s characters’ lives might have continued after the last page of the novels. “Jane’s voice is very strong, speaking through her characters to tell us what she thinks about men, society, and women’s position within its confines, but sweetening her outrage with a little romance,†she says. “We all enjoy glimpsing back into the past, becoming absorbed in and inhabiting Jane Austen’s worlds, which were created with genius.†Her latest novel is Jane Austen Lives Again (literally; Ms Austen winds up in 1925).
Laaleen: What is it about the Jane Austen Society of Islamabad that interests you as a member?
Jane: “Jane Austen’s work seems to be able to connect us on many levels, and meeting like-minded people who share a love of her work is always wonderful. I think it’s fantastic that an author who lived 200 years ago still has the power to unite us through her novels, and to know that her books are loved on the other side of the world is amazing. I love meeting people from other countries who feel the same way as I do about Jane Austen, and I am fascinated by the life and culture in Pakistan…I only wish that Jane could have known how much her work was to be loved by so many people worldwide, and can only imagine she’d have been thrilled to learn her work is still read by millions of people and translated into so many languages.â€
Moni MohsinÂ
London-based author, satirist and columnist (the ‘Social Butterfly’ series, The End Of Innocence and various periodicals) is a Janeite herself and participated in the BBC World Service’s broadcast celebrating Pride and Prejudice’s bicentennial.
Laaleen: What’s your personal interest in Austen? Has she ever inspired you in your work?
Moni: As a writer, I have learnt on so many different levels from Austen. Stylistically, she’s in a class of her own. The elegance of her language, the crispness of her sentences, the sharpness of her dialogue and the acuity of her observations hit me anew every time I read her. She’s an extraordinary early (perhaps the earliest) practitioner of the now much talked about ‘free indirect style’ whereby the story is neither in the voice of the first person nor is it an omniscient third person’s narration. Instead, it is told entirely from the point of view of the protagonist. As such we inhabit the very consciousness of her heroines. It is a delicate and nuanced form of story telling, fiendishly difficult to pull off convincingly. Yet she does it flawlessly, time and time again.
I also love her sly, irreverent humour. She doesn’t have the broad comedy of, say, Dickens but she has wit in abundance and she uses it to great satirical effect. Austen is a stickler for manners and tact and yet she is not in the least sanctimonious, or heaven forbid, sentimental. In fact, she’s quite the opposite. She pinpoints the vanities, hypocrisies and snobberies of her characters with devastating accuracy. As Mr Bennet says, ‘For what do we live if not to make sport for our neighbours, and to laugh at them in our turn?’ For me, Austen’s the undisputed queen of social satire.
Lastly, her heroines are perfectly realized characters. They possess a lively, independent intelligence and, like their creator, they are not afraid to speak their minds. Yet, they are by no means saintly. In fact, they frequently make gross errors of judgement. But they learn from their mistakes and it is through their struggles to better understand themselves and others that they eventually find happiness. Austen, then, is a believer in second chances. There is something inspiring about an author who holds that hope out to you.
Laaleen: Why do you think so many Pakistani women are fond of Jane Austen and her legacy?
Moni: “I can’t answer for all Pakistani women who are fond of Jane Austen but I can tell you why she resonated with me as a reader. Though written in Georgian (Regency) England, many of the themes she raises are still pertinent to present day Pakistani society. So the importance of family; the significance of social rank; the need for a secure marriage and the preoccupation with appearances and reputations were familiar territory for me. So too was the smallness of the canvas. In each of her books, Austen writes about small groups of people, all intensely interested and involved in each other’s personal lives—just like Lahori society! And, finally, all her books have the deep satisfactions of a morality tale. The good are rewarded and the bad punished. The hero and heroine face their trials but finally get to marry and live happily ever after. What’s not to love?â€
Laaleen: At the BBC World Service’s World Book Club broadcast, you’d said that you sympathized most with Mrs Bennet. Can you elaborate?
Moni: “Mrs Bennet is a crass, foolish, tactless woman. With her loud, vulgar manners and blatant attempts to ensnare wealthy suitors for her daughters, she is a truly cringe-making mother. That said, her fears for her daughters are grounded in real concerns. Mr Bennet is not well off. His estate, such as it is, is entailed and will be inherited not by his daughters but by Mr Collins, his unctuous male cousin. Should Mr Bennet die before his daughters are married, they will be destitute. The girls have no inheritance, no brothers who will protect them and no wealthy relatives to bail them out. When Lizzie rejects Mr Collins’ marriage proposal, Mrs Bennet fears—quite rightly—that Mr Collins will turf them out of their home on Mr Bennet’s death.
In Georgian England penniless, single genteel women did not have many options: they either became companions to wealthy difficult old women or they became governesses to spoilt, rich young girls. In both cases, they were little better than servants, forced to endure a life of genteel poverty and petty humiliations. The only other option was prostitution. There really wasn’t much else by way of career choices. Mrs Bennet, for all her foolishness, is acutely aware of the threat of real impoverishment and disgrace that hangs over her daughters and herself. Yes, her attempts to throw her girls at rich young suitors are blatantly vulgar but what choice does she have? She can’t count on her educated, erudite husband’s input. Spending all his time closeted in his study among his precious books, he seems totally unaware of her concerns. When he does emerge, it is only to mock her opinions and undermine her authority in front of her daughters. So it falls on the shoulders of this stupid, vulgar woman to protect her girls. That she rises to the challenge is in no doubt. Which is why I can’t help but sympathize with her.â€
By Mahlia Lone
What makes a Bollywood power couple? It takes talent, good looks, connections, lineage, box office success, awards, and an ability for self promotion and marketing to become a star. When both partners possess these ingredients then the sum is greater than the parts, as in the case of Saif+Kareena=Saifeena. Let’s take a look at these savvy stars and what they want to achieve together
“If you are in love and you are happy, then that’s all that matters. I believe in the institution of marriage. It’s like a tag to cement the relationship for your friends, family and public. And it is a celebration of the fact that Saif and I are in love and we want to spend our life together,†said Kareena Kapoor Khan speaking about her marriage to fellow actor Saif Ali Khan.
Eleven years his junior, one of the most popular and highest paid Bollywood actresses at the time of their 2012 wedding, what made Kareena Kapoor go for Saif Ali Khan, a short squeaky-voiced supporting actor and divorced father of two children, albeit a nawab? Unlike other Indian actresses who are photogenic and less attractive in real life, apparently Kareena (named by her mother Babita after Leo Toltstoy’s epic novel Anna Karenina) is tall and extremely pretty in person, just as she appears on screen. She is also Bollywood royalty, theater and film actor Prithvi Raj Kapoor’s great granddaughter and film maker/studio owner/actor Raj Kapoor’s granddaughter. Nearly all the Kapoors are or have been working actors, including in her immediate family her father Randhir Kapoor, her mother Babita, who is of Anglo-Indian descent, and even her elder sister Karisma. In fact, her parents split up because Babita wanted her daughters to become actresses, but the more conservative Randhir did not think it suitable for the women of the family. Though many of the male members of the family married actresses, they were all made to retire from their careers and become housewives, which they willingly did.


Saif Ali Khan, named Sajid at birth, comes from an entirely different stock from his father’s side. He is the tenth Nawab of Pataudi, (honorary) titular head of 52 villages, who studied at prestigious Winchester College in England and grew up in Ibrahim Palace, 26 km from Gurgaon, a New Delhi suburb. Ibrahim Palace is a vast fairytale palace that looks straight out of Disney’s Aladdin and has recently been renovated and converted to a hotel. His father Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi, the ninth Nawab, also known as Tiger Pataudi, captained the Indian national cricket team, as did his paternal grandfather the eighth Nawab Iftikhar Ali Hussain who played first class cricket for both the British and Indian cricket teams. Saif’s paternal grandmother Begum Sajida Sultan was the daughter of the last ruling Nawab of Bhopal, while his mother is former B’wood actress Sharmila Tagore (renamed Begum Ayesha Sultana after converting to Islam uon her marriage), herself the granddaughter of Rabrindranath Tagore, the Nobel Prize winning Bengali poet. She currently serves as the head of the Indian censorship board. Saif’s youngest sister Soha Ali Khan and her husband Kunal Khemu are also actors, as was his first wife Amrita Singh, who hails from a Sikh landed family.
Amrita is not only 12 years older than her ex-husband, but physically taller and broader as well with a husky voice. Though the marriage lasted for some 13 years and produced two children Sara and Ibrahim, Saif cheated on her for a considerably portion of the time, finally leaving her for a Swiss model Rosa Catalano. Rosa herself contemplated moving to India and also becoming an actress at which point the by now divorced Saif broke up with her and started reinventing himself in an effort to revamp his image and career.


Saif Ali Khan is the tenth Nawab of Pataudi, (honorary) titular head of 52 villages, who studied at prestigious Winchester College in England and grew up in Ibrahim Palace, outside New Delhi, which has recently been renovated and converted to a hotel. His father Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi, also known as Tiger Pataudi, captained the Indian national cricket team, as did his paternal grandfather the eighth Nawab Iftikhar Ali Hussain, who played first class cricket for both the British and Indian national cricket teams. Saif’s paternal grandmother Begum Sajida Sultan was the daughter of the last ruling Nawab of Bhopal
Kareena, as younger sister of Karisma, a mildly successful lead heroine, had a highly anticipated film entry, though unluckily she opted out of a debut film with Hritihik Roshan’s Kaho Na Pyaar Hai (2000) that went on to be a big hit. Struggling to find her niche with initial box office duds, she finally had a massive hit with Karan Johar’s Kabhie Khushi Kabhie Ghum opposite Hritihik, with whom she reportedly also had an under the radar fling. Though the movie was a multi-starrer, Kareena gained a fan following after portraying an Indian version of Alicia Silverstone’s character in the hit Hollywood teen comedy Clueless. An intuitive and spontaneous actress, Kareena continued with fluff roles till she played the role of a prostitute in the film Chameli, for which she won a Filmfare Award. She started a relationship with newcomer Shahid Kapoor, a diminutive trained dancer, which lasted for three to four years and a mobile video of them French kissing went viral during this time. It was after their hit movie together Jab We Met that she broke up with him. Though she had starred with Saif Ali Khan in two movies up to this point, including the Othello inspired Omkara, they had not had many scenes together. To get over her breakup, Kareena decided to focus on exercise, weights and yoga (she can do 50 sun salutes at a time holding eacho position for 30 seconds), and diet regimen by becoming a vegetarian to get her body in tip top shape. Her size 0, 48 kg figure was then duly reported in the press and a noticeably trimmer Kareena appeared in tiny hot pants and bikini tops in the 2007 Yash Raj movie Tashaan, opposite a buffed up and goateed Saif Ali Khan. According to Kareena, it was during an outdoor shoot for this movie that she saw Saif lying bare-chested in just his jeans, sunning himself at the hotel pool that she checked him out and thought he was hot. However, according to what Shahid Kapoor alluded to in his interviews, there was some overlapping, during which time Kareena decided to dump the young actor for his older, vastly more eligible rival.
The phenomenon of Saifeena, as they were dubbed by the Indian press, was born. They announced their relationship at the Lakme Fashion Week that year. A source reported to the press, “Bebo (Kareena’s childhood nickname) and Saif behave like teenagers in love. They constantly send each other lovey-dovey messages and even have photos of one another on their phones.â€

The couple garnered much publicity that has translated into many lucrative endorsements and modeling contracts together as a couple. Kareena, who has not been averse to plastic surgery to fine tune her looks though she has never publicly accepted this, introduced her boyfriend to botox and collagen fillers to rejuvenate his middle aged looks. Saif, henceforth, started appearing in films creaseless and with a taut forehead and an expressionless face. The publicity also helped his career and he ventured into film production making moderately successful films. Not only did Kareena help him out by starring in some of these, like his 2012 movie Agent Vinod, but she has also said she helps him market his films. “Saif just doesn’t take himself seriously enough. After his performance in Love Aaj Kal (2009 movie produced by Saif’s production company Illuminati Films that he stars in opposite Deepika Padukone and that has been directed by Imtiaz Ali), I’m convinced Saif’s best time begins now. But he doesn’t know how to market himself….This is Saif’s best performance after Omkara. I’m so proud of him. Love Aaj Kal is as much my baby as Saif’s. I’m going to be completely involved in the publicity, marketing, everything. This is our first production and we’re going to make it rock.â€Not content with just taking vacations together, Saif told Babita that he was committed to her daughter and wanted her to move in with him. “Kareena is my woman and we know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together.†Babita gave them her blessing and they started living together like a modern Indian couple.
  Actresses that Saif formerly had flings with, such as Priyanka Chopra, Bipasha Basu (during the fliming of Race) and Yana Gupta, Kareena is openly hostile and bitchy to, calling Bipasha, a “kaali billi†(black cat) for her dusky complexion. She said she knows that Saif has sown his wild oats, but now he has become grounded and if he ever cheats on her she threatened, “I will slaughter him.â€
But Saif proved his faithfulness to her and five years of dating later, they decided that their hectic careers allowed them a short time in which to tie the knot. “Of course, I want to be with her as much as I can,†Saif said in an interview. “My regret is we can’t be together more often. We are uncannily similar people and I’ve only now begun to understand why I need to be with her constantly. She complements me, as I hope I complement her. So of course, I try to be where she is.â€
During this time, Kareena’s career went from strength to strength. She’s the only heroine who can boast of starring in four hits that have grossed over Rs.1 billion each and has starred in films with all the top Khan triumvirate: Salman, Aamir and Shah Rukh. The highest paid Indian actress in 2012 for Heroine, receiving Indian Rs. 80 million (PKR 127 m) and with 16 brand endorsements, Kareena stints herself no indulgence. In 2010, Kareena bought herself a seven-carat diamond solitaire. She said in an interview that the ring was bought based on the advice of an astrologer who said it would bring her stability and happiness in her life. She also owns a fleet of luxury cars including a Mercedes S class sedan, an SUV and a Lexus LX 470. Kareena never misses an opportunity to head to Europe to unwind with London and Swiss skiing destination Gstaad being her top favourite vacation spots. She believes that two actresses in the same league can never be best friends, so her pal is struggling actress Amrita Arora. On October 27, 2011, Kareena’s wax statue was unveiled at Madame Tussauds in Blackpool in the UK. Quite the entrepreneur, Kareena also has a clothing brand and has co-written a few diet books.
At the age of thirty, Kareena became Mrs. Khan in a lavish wedding with five main functions spanning two cities. Unlike prior Pataudi Begums, she refused to covert from Hinduism to Islam or give up her lucrative film career. With his father already deceased, Saif did not demur and indulged his bride in all her wishes. The starry Mumbai functions, a Sangeet, a Mehndi and a Reception were hosted by Kareena’s parents. It was reported, “The Sangeet evening was marked with music, dance and masti. The terrace party was held at Kareena’s Bandra residence. Buddies Malaika Arora Khan, Amrita Arora, and Tusshar Kapoor shimmied to well-choreographed moves by Karan Johar. There was an array of dance performances to popular Bollywood numbers dedicated to the lovely couple. The terrace venue was covered to prevent media getting a snoop….Kareena in a pretty sari set the tone and note for the mehndi ceremony, where Saif looked dapper in a tuxedo. The mehndi ceremony was coupled with a private dinner for family and friends, which took place in Mumbai’s Taj Mahal Palace Hotel. The bride chose to wear ensembles made for her by her favourite fashion designer, Manisha Malhotra and especially created diamond and gem encrusted jewellery. A simple Nikkah and signing of the marriage registry was held at Saif’s residence in Mumbai. This was a personal affair to which they donned shalwar kameezes and waved to the press from the balcony. Kareena had refreshingly minimal makeup on. It was reported, “The after-marriage bash was a vibrant affair. Around 150 selected guests attended the celebration. B-town celebs like Shah Rukh Khan with wife Gauri, Sonam Kapoor with dad Anil Kapoor, Amrita Arora with husband Shakeel Ladak, Priety Zinta, Karan Johar, Tusshar Kapoor, and many more upped the starry quotient of the evening. Family members including Randhir Kapoor, Babita, Karisma, Rishi Kapoor with wife Neetu Singh and son Ranbir, Soha Ali Khan, along with Saif’s daughter Sara and son Ibrahim were seen in a joyous mood.â€
“After marriage, love becomes bigger, better. There’s greater understanding and respect. Saif admires me for being a working woman. A partner should help you fly. Saif’s perfect!…I can’t breathe without love. It gives me energy, a feeling of belonging, the need to GO out and conquer the world,†said Kareena
Then, the wedding moved to New Delhi where Sharmila hosted a grand Dawat-e-Valima in true Nawabi style at the Ibrahim Palace. All the top politicians and remaining royal families of the land attended. The Pataudi relatives from Lahore flew in as well. Kareena wore traditional gold jewellery that complemented a gharara, replicated by ace Delhi fashion designer Ritu Kumar from a vintage one worn by Begum Sajida Sultan at her wedding to the eighth Nawab Pataudi. Then, the Begum passed it to her daughter in law Sharmila, who wore it at her own wedding. Saif wore a Benarasi brocade achkan that had been copied by menswear designer Raghavendra Rathore from achkans worn by Saif’s father Mansoor Ali Khan in his lifetime. Saif carried the ceremonial family sword and wore a traditional pagri on his head. Even the paans served at the valima were special crafted according to an age old recipe. Sharmila wanted to impress the Kapoors with the Pataudi family’s pedigree, royal traditions and aristocratic connections, which she did so, sparing no expense or effort. “Celebrities from the world of cricket, Bollywood and politics graced the Mughal-themed reception. The cream and gold décor with antique props, jasmine floral arrangements and traditional brass hanging diyas added a delicate spice and romance to the wedding ambiance,†it was reported. Against the glittery, B’wood wedding, the regal Delhi wedding festivities made quite an impact. No glitzy hotel or palatial bungalow could compete with the newly renovated splendor of the Old World and regal Ibrahim Palace. Upon attendance to their new step mother at the wedding were teenage Sara and Ibrahim. Saba and Soha Ali Khan, Saif’s younger sisters, also fittingly played prominent roles at the wedding.
The couple returned to their respective film sets after the wedding and it was a little before they could take off for their honeymoon.

Kareena has maintained that she will continue to act and may not have children till the age of 39. Kareena likes to cook for her husband, while he plays the guitar for his ladylove. She has also carefully cultivated a close relationship with his daughter Sara. Kareena said in an interview. “They are the most well brought up children. I always remember Sara standing up and doing adab (greeting). Both Sara and Ibrahim are like that. I am like a friend for them…. In fact, we’re like best friends. Saif refuses to come out with us. Sara’s my bar hopping partner. I enjoy my equation with her…. At times Sara and I chat over a glass of champagne. That’s the way Saif wanted it and that’s the way I wanted it. Whenever she wants to call me she does at time when Saif isn’t around and she doesn’t want to talk to him. She talks to me.’’
In another interview, Kareena said, “’After marriage, love becomes bigger, better. There’s greater understanding and respect. Saif admires me for being a working woman. A partner should help you fly. Saif’s perfect!’ She pointed out that she’s given a lot of time to the marriage, in fact to every relationship. ‘I can’t breathe without love. It gives me energy, a feeling of belonging, the need to go out and conquer the world,’ she stressed.â€
“I understand people want to put our relationship under a microscope. They want to know about our relationship,†said Saif thoughtfully in an interview. “But there’s only so much that they can know or perceive. What Kareena and I feel for each other, only the two of us know.â€















































































