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Islamabad based bridal designer, Shazia Kiyani feels strongly that only if her clients look good, does she look good. Keeping that in mind, she advises women on flattering cuts that suit their specific body type. Shazia talks about the dos and don’ts of fashion and her upcoming Fall/Winter Wedding Collection to Haider Rifaat

By Haider Rifaat

What drew you to fashion design? Were you always passionate about it?

From the very start, I had decided that if I were to work professionally, it would only be as a designer. I was very certain about it.

You are perhaps the pioneer designer with a bridal studio in Islamabad. What made you take this initiative?

I was into fashion and I loved wearing clothes. I was a painter as well so I had that creative element. When I designed a dress, my friends would request me to create the same dress for them. When more people began to approach me, I decided not to work from home but take designing on as a proper profession. I eventually designed my own collection and had a grand opening for my studio.

How have customers responded to your label in Islamabad?

The response is very positive. The concept of a design atelier did not exist in the capital city. People really appreciated one to one personal appointments and the studio’s comfortable ambiance.

What does fashion mean to you?

Fashion is the way you carry a dress. A short top is not suitable for every body type. If you carry something regular extraordinarily well, it is fashion.

As a designer, what is your input in the creation of a dress?

I try to give my 110 per cent. I start from scratch and complete the finished products on my own. I am not the only one involved. It is a team effort. My team is quite helpful but I never compromise on creativity. If I am producing something, I try to look at it from all the angles. I receive daily images so my involvement is crucial in almost everything.

Tell me about your upcoming  collection.

It comprises of flattering, traditional dresses with long silhouettes and vibrant as well as subtle colours that work well in the Fall season. The collection is inspired by detailed work and 3-D motifs. I hope we receive a positive response.

What is the colour palette of this collection?

We have kept a very interesting palette consisting of shades of deep red, gold, burgundy and green amongst others. We have blended these three vibrant colours with golds.

Which fashion weeks is your label a part of this Fall?

There is Bridal Couture Week scheduled in December, followed by London Fashion Week. I’ve been invited many times to Milan Fashion Week, but it falls during the peak time for our business and we already have two very important shows to do. If I find time for it, I will definitely go.

Affordable fashion is the way to go now. Does your brand fulfill this requirement without compromising on quality?

We try our level best. Islamabad is not a market with business communities. We try to provide products at different price points.

A majority of Pakistani women fall in the UK size 14 bracket. Are there any flexible size options available to women?

We custom make dresses, take detailed measurements and schedule fittings. Not every cut suits everyone, so we suggest flattering cuts to our customers. There are some designs that have short lengths that I lengthen because short dresses just don’t flatter shorter, plumper bodies. I provide my clients the same feel and texture with longer dresses.

Of all seasons, which collection is sells the most

Our Winter collection sells the most. There are holidays in different parts of the world and people are eager to visit Pakistan for the wedding season. That is perhaps the best time for us and our sales are quite high.

Where else in the world is your label operative?

We launched in London last year. Our next target is Birmingham and New Jersey. I need a big team for this kind of work. It is complete handwork and you need skilled workers for it. It’s a gradual process but we will be starting soon. Either Birmingham or Manchester is definitely our target this year and we will later branch out to the U.S.

What do you look for in models for your professional shoots?

I look at their expressions and the way they give meaning to a dress while carrying it. There is an element of royalty involved when models wear my outfits.

What typical component in womenswear should change?

That’s a very important question. I find overdone work very typical. Everyone is excessively adding to the dresses, including myself. We are not conceptualizing a design that is in line with international trends.

Does your brand offer men’s fashion?

There are kurtas and sherwanis for men but they are custom made. We are planning a menswear line and luxury pret. Although I have a team, it is a one-woman show for now (laughs). If you have someone to support you in your family, things can work out. Recently, my son has started helping me so I can expand on the idea.

Has your family helped you establish a successful career or did you have to put up with struggles?

There are always hurdles when you start something but my family has been supportive. My children have helped me a lot. I must thank my youngest one, Afaan. He was only four years old when I began working. If I am under pressure, my son encourages me and counsels me. He has been very helpful.

Does pressure ever get to you when you are leading the front and creating gowns and diverse wardrobe options from start to finish?

When you reach a certain level in your career, your personality becomes stronger and you overcome pressure. Our bridal season December through February is an incredibly tough time. The customers panic and we have orders to produce in a timely fashion while also juggling bridal weeks.

Who inspires you in the field of fashion design?

I would say Nilofer Shahid. Internationally, I really like Zuhair Murad and Elie Saab. They are doing great work!

Are there any style no-nos we should know about?

I never consider something outdated. Some designs are timeless and if carried well, they look good on people. For me, a big no-no is not following your bodyline. Say there’s a healthy woman who requests me to make a lehnga or a gharara for her son’s wedding that would be a no for me. I give suggestions to my clients and help them with different options.

Filmstar Sana has starred in 300 projects since making her debut in Syed Noor’s Sangam back in 1997. Her most recent release has been the comedy Jackpot. The down to earth actress surprises Sana Zehra with her no nonsense attitude

Pakistani cinema has been unfortunate in that quite a few films have flopped in the last couple of months. When people write honest reviews, actors get defensive. What’s your response to film critics?

Our cinema is still immature (Editor’s Note: Still?) and it will take time to reach the heights that we all want to see. We should be optimistic, willing to experiment and appreciate instead of always criticising.

Using only one word per person, what was your first impression for the following people?

Mahira Khan:

Very talented

Shaan:

Legend! He isn’t working but he’s still a legend for everyone. I mean he’s worked for many years in this industry.

Your thoughts on the Pakistani film industry?

The Pakistani film industry is now divided between the cities: Lahore, Karachi, Islamabad, etc.  We should not be divisive but work as a unit.

What was your experience working on the small screen?

It is always a pleasure and a great learning experience.

We absolutely love your six pack abs. What’s your preference—exercising your mind or exercising your body?

I think it’s a package. Exercise works for your mind and body both at the same time. I exercise for my health, which is much more important than anything else.

Would you rather have people be more straight forward with you or have them carefully choose their words?

That’s a difficult question. They have to be problematic for me to back off.

If you get a chance would you be part of Big Brother?

No, I would not want to be part of Big Brother because I don’t like the vibes given in the show. The people who participate are known to be infamous and I never want to be that.

Is there any regret in life that you still have and want to fix?

I don’t have any regrets. I am confident with whatever I do and my choices.

What annoys you most about women in general?

When women talk about brands all the time and pretend to be something they aren’t. I don’t like being around pretentious people.

Are there any compliments that you think are actually insults?

Interesting question. I love working out and when people say your body has started to look like a man’s, I get peeved. I mean, like really?! That’s all you can see? They don’t understand about body types but feel the necessity to criticize without even giving it a second thought.

Is there anything that your mind encourages you to do but your willpower always holds you back?

Willpower always holds you back or else your mind always says to do things you shouldn’t be doing.

How would you give someone constructive criticism?

I criticize people less because I focus on myself more. I need to improve myself a lot more before judging others. I can only suggest if asked.

One word on the following:

The competition in the industry?

Nonsense and useless. The industry isn’t even fully established yet, so what’s the competition about? You can’t call this an industry right now. People are more worried about their self-image than their quality of work.

Lip fillers?

If you need it, go do it.

Love?

Love is very important for the body, mind and soul.

Marriage?

Respect

In the industry, who is your closest friend?

I have a very professional attitude. I’m on good terms with everyone and don’t really have many fights or bad blood. I’m not really close to anyone as such, but I am on close terms with Resham and Meera. We actually started our careers together so we enjoy a good friendship.

What’s your favourite novel?

Many

Favourite movie in the past five years?

I recently watched one and I completely forgot its name.

Favourite horror movie?

I actually watch more cartoons because of my kids.

Favourite solo artist?

Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and Atif Aslam

If you were stuck in the elevator with the following people, what song would you sing?

Salman Khan?

Tere Mast Mast Do Nain

Javaid Sheikh?

Yeh Dil Aap Ka Hua

What’s the one thing you would never wear, even if you were paid to do so?

A net burqa

What’s the first thing you notice about someone when you meet them?

The way he/she sits and talks.

Who is the ultimate social media queen right now?

Aiman and Minal

Who is the ultimate fashion queen right now?

Ayesha Omar. I like her style

Lahore or Karachi?

Both. Lahore, Karachi, Islamabad, Multan, etc. I think all cities have different things to offer.

If you got the chance to make a documentary, what would you make it on?

Sufism. I belong to Multan and have many wonderful childhood memories. If I ever get the chance, I would definitely revisit and take pictures of those places.

Who is that one celebrity in the film industry that really needs a stylist?

So many. Some people might say that about me. We all need a stylist because we might like something but the stylist help us to put it all together.

What is the one word in the film industry that everyone needs to stop using?

Everyone says, “Okay, no problem” to everything but in reality there are a lot of issues. People need to acknowledge that and try to resolve it instead of saying, “No problem!”

What one piece of advice would you give actors if you got the chance?

I don’t think upcoming stars need advice. They need more exposure and a platform to exhibit their talent. Whenever they get a proper platform, they know how to present themselves.

I just love Sajal Aly’s acting and work. She’s no less than any international actor.

If someone sent you as a judge on a morning show, would you accept it?

Yeah sure.

What is your biggest phobia in life?

To gain weight

Any message for your fans and any upcoming films?

I just want to add that people who watch Pakistani cinema should stop criticizing and need to start overlooking the flaws. Show some respect to people who are working in the industry. We need positivity in our daily life. Keep in mind that we don’t have any academies or learning institutes for the cinematic arts.

I have noticed that you aren’t that old, but most people call you baji,  how do you feel about that?

I’ve been working for almost a decade it really does not bother me. It’s okay, as long as I am getting respect.

Why did you choose to do Jackpot?

I’ve always supported Pakistani cinema. The character I portray is different and a new one for me. Earlier films didn’t have so much depth and shades to characters as they do now. This character has a comedic element to it.

Additionally, the team was extremely helpful, professional, dedicated and passionate. This is the first film Shoaib Khan is producing/directing. I’ve enjoyed doing his dramas before. I was also excited to work with Sadie Khan, the stylist. I hope everyone’s hard work pays off.

Tell us about your character?

I’m playing Maliki. She is a woman who’s married and is a bit forgetful and not too smart. Everyone else is very smart in the film except her but fortunately the film’s climax is centered on her. Everyone is stuck and has to follow this goofy lady.

It was fun to do, and I am so excited to see how it’ll all come together at the end. We haven’t seen the whole film together, so I think that will be entertaining.

Why should people go watch Jackpot?

It’s thoroughly entertaining and people will enjoy all aspects of it.

Shoot coordination & styling

Umer Mushtaq

Hair & makeup

Eric Send

Photography

Raza Jaffri

After appearing in hit films, Karachi Se Lahore, and Lahore Se Aagey, Yasir Hussain is back with the web series Kaala Bichu, music video Hello Ji and playing the villain  in the new drama serial Baandi. Yasir candidly answers Sana Zehra’s rapid fire questions

If you had a production company who would you never ever hire in your project: Mathira, Amar Khan or Meera Ji?

Meera Ji

Out of the following, which movie would like to see reenacted on the stage: Raaz, Bhabi Diyaan Chooriyan, or Punjab Nahin Jaongi?

Punjab Nahi Jaongi

True or False: Pretty girls have it easier?

False

10 years into your relationship there is only way to go, downward spiral, people who go upward literally go upwards? Thoughts?

Can’t really comment on that. The longest relationship I ever had was with my family.

Who’d you rather save your life if you were drowning: Mahira, Mehwish or Sadaf Kanwal?

Mahira Khan

What do men really need these days?

Brains

What’s the most important life lesson you’ve learned?

That I should have saved money

Describe work in a line.

Work is great, but a six month vacation is even better.

Is it ok to lose your mind when in love?

I don’t think so you should lose your mind in anything. Period.

If you could ask God one question, what would you ask?

How are Mom and Dad?

If you were to describe Trump in one word…

Evil

What is that one thing that you have and Ahad Raza Mir does not?

My pug Mogambo and my comics!

What is that one thing that your family asked you to change about your acting?

Nothing. They like it.

If you have a chance to sign a script without reading it, who would you sign up with: Hania Amir or Mehwish Hayat?

Hania Amir

 

If you had a chance to portray Mrs. Doubtfire, who would like to work with? Bilal Abbas or Ali Rehman?

Bilal Abbas.

Who would you go out with coffee with: Sadaf Kanwal or Iqra Aziz?

Iqra Aziz

Out of these actress who would you feed paan, shaved ice and icecream: Sana Javed, Ayesha Omer or Maya Ali?

Sana Javed—paan

“Let’s be honest, everyone remembers birthdays because of Facebook”

Ayesha Omer—shaved ice

Maya Ali—icecream

Who annoys more? Girlfriend or producers?

Producers

What do you forget more birthdays or anniversaries?

Let’s be honest, everyone remembers birthdays because of Facebook and I am not on Facebook.

One word for on screen romance, judge and awards?

On screen romance is the hardest thing to do.

I’ll be good at being a judge.

“I think I’m overrated”

Awards are simply useless.

What would your ex think after reading this: Thank God he is out of my life, My loss or Wish he was mine?

I think she will be thinking about her children.

Who is the maestro of acting in Pakistan: Humayun Saeed or Nauman Ejaz?

Humayun Saeed

Who do you think is the most overrated actor of Pakistan?

I think I’m overrated.

If you had a lot of money what would you buy: Jumbo jet or foreign passport?

Jet!

Does anyone know your telephone password?

654321 is my password. Now everyone knows it!

If you were to be reincarnated, what profession would you choose: Salesman or fitness instructor?

Neither. I’d be a doctor.

If you get a chance to be the bodyguard of an actress who would it be: Mahira Khan or Mawra?

Neither. Angelina Jolie!

One difference between girlfriend and wife?

Nikkah

Heart breaker or rule breaker?

Rule breaker

Finish this sentence, I wish I had known earlier that…

This interview would take that long! (Lol)

After ten successful years as Pakistan’s most popular and enduring music program, Coke Studio will be returning to the air waves in August. Musicians Zohaib Kazi and Ali Hamza take on the mantle of production in the eleventh season of the series. Passionate, determined and talented, the duo is working hard to produce a season that highlights the people, history and culture of Pakistan, in addition to its music and musicians. In an exclusive interview for GT, the two young men talk to Ally Adnan about the upcoming season of Coke Studio, the challenges and pleasures of producing the program, and the dimensions that they plan to add to the music franchise

Coke Studio is one of the most popular – if not the most popular – Pakistani music programs of all time. How did you feel after landing the opportunity of producing Season 11 of the series?

We were thrilled, absolutely thrilled! The initial excitement, albeit great, was short lived because the work came with a tremendous amount of responsibility. Coke Studio is enormously popular all over the world and the program’s fans have high hopes of the show. The responsibility of living up to the expectations is huge. It feels good but is sobering at the same time.

Umber and Rohail Hyatt produced the first six seasons of Coke Studio whereas the last four were made by the Strings duo of Bilal Maqsood and Faisal Kapadia. What do you think of the different production styles of the two producer teams?

The two teams were masters in the field. Each had its own unique style and did excellent work for Coke Studio. The Hyatt duo had a great vision for the program and, along with its team, turned it into a marvelous reality.  Maqsood and Kapadia inherited a wildly popular program and carried it forward with great style and success.

“Coke Studio has a way of connecting with people using a language that is understandable, honest and refreshing”

Coke Studio Explorer takes Coke Studio to different parts of Pakistan

What has been your favorite season of Coke Studio thus far?

We do not have any one favorite season but have favorite songs instead. Each season has produced songs that are wonderful and have hijacked our playlists for years.

What is the reason for the immense popularity of Coke Studio?

Coke Studio has a way of connecting with people using a language that is understandable, honest and refreshing. People relate to it. The elements of hope, optimism, empathy, thoughtfulness, unity, and pluralism are hallmarks of the program. They speak to the viewers on an aesthetic level, individually and collectively. The music, of course, is very good.  And it is presented in an effective and interesting manner. The program allows the Pakistani nation to express itself in a uniquely powerful manner. That, perhaps, is the single biggest reason for the phenomenal popularity of the series.

How has Coke Studio contributed to the music of Pakistan?

Coke Studio has successfully brought the diverse, vibrant and inimitable music idiom of the nation to a single platform and helped develop a concordance between traditions that have varied sensibilities, ideas and subjectivities. It has helped blend folk, classical and contemporary music into songs that resonate with the public at large.  Most importantly, it has allowed us to discover, examine, study, and reconstruct our cultural and musical heritage.

The series has been accused of cultural appropriation for the personal gain of money, prestige and fame. Is the accusation fair?

No, it is not. Coke Studio is truly a platform for musicians of different ethnicities, backgrounds and styles to come together and collaborate in an atmosphere that is simultaneously creative, invigorating and harmonious. This, in no way, can be deemed to be cultural appropriation. In fact, it is the exact opposite of cultural appropriation.

How are musicians selected for participation in Coke Studio?

It is a three-step process.

We start by defining an overarching theme for the season. Once that has been done, we explore ways of introducing, exploring and presenting the theme. Finally, we look for musicians who embody the notions of the theme and meet the requirements of the musical pieces that we have in mind.

Do you know, or feel, that nepotism has ever played a part in the selection process?

No. We have been associated with Coke Studio, in one way or another, for a very long time. The people associated with the program treat the program with great reverence and respect. It is far too important to them to allow the ills of nepotism and favouritism affect its merit. The exceptional quality of the program is sufficient testimony to the fact that it has always been produced with integrity, honesty and professionalism.

How can a talented musician – one who does not have money, influence, clout, or social connections – apply to audition for Coke Studio?

Coke Studio has an active email address – demos@frontfoot.media – that is meant to receive demo videos and audio files. We listen to all submissions very carefully and conscientiously, in order to be fair and because we genuinely like discovering new talent.

We have expanded the selection process in Season 11, where we have ventured out of the studios to go to the field and actively find musicians to feature in a new module that we have named Coke Studio Explorer.

What is the new module, Coke Studio Explorer, that is being introduced with Season 11 of the show about?

Coke Studio Explorer takes Coke Studio to different parts of Pakistan. It uses music to explore the diverse cultures, locales, traditions, and values of the country and celebrates the spirit, strength and resilience of its people. The program is centered around a few amazingly talented and driven musicians whose songs will do Pakistan proud and help put the unique music of the country out on the international landscape. The musicians represent all provinces of Pakistan. We hope that the module will spark a vibrant conversation about diversity, pluralism and understanding amongst viewers.

How is Season 11 of Coke Studio going to be different from the programs produced by Strings and the Hyatt husband and wife team?

It will be different from the seasons produced by Strings and the Hyatt husband and wife team in the same manner that we are different from Bilal, Faisal, Umber, and Rohail. Each person is unique and brings his own personality, intellect and vision to the table. Viewers of the program will notice the difference in the way we approach the program.

The tagline of Coke Studio has been changed from “Sound of the Nation” to “Spirit of the Nation” in Season 11. What does the change signify?

The change is not final and still being discussed. If it happens, it will be a consequence of the evolution of Coke Studio. The program no longer represents just the music of Pakistan and is a veritable celebration of its culture, ethos and character, today. The new tagline – Spirit of the Nation – will, therefore, be more apropos given the expanded influence, popularity and scope of the program.

Coke Studio has an active email address — demos@frontfoot.media — that is meant to receive demo videos and audio files. We listen to all submissions very carefully and conscientiously

What challenges did you face while producing Season 11?

The two of us had worked with Coke Studio in the past and had an idea of the work that producers needed to do to produce the series. Nevertheless, the scope of the work was immense and far greater than what we had imagined. The program asks for a lot, but we found its demanding nature to be a source of strength, energy and motivation. We were happy to give Coke Studio all that it wanted plus some more.

What pleasures did producing the season afford you?

The greatest pleasure, without a doubt, was the act of putting all the diverse, disparate and different elements of the program together and seeing them come together as a single, unique and meaningful entity.

A lot of time, energy and effort has been put into producing Season 11 of Coke Studio. What would constitute success for the program?

The appreciation of its viewers. We are looking for nothing else.

Photographs by Insiya Syed

Ally Adnan lives in Dallas and writes about culture, history and the arts. He tweets @allyadnan and can be reached at allyadnan@outlook.com.

Saeeda Imtiaz grew up in Long Island, New York where she got a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Stony Brook University. Though a confident, outgoing girl, never imagined she’d get a chance in the Pakistani film industry. Saeeda got her break portraying no less than Jemima Khan in Kaptaan (2012), the yet to be released film based on Imran Khan’s life. Mostly recently, she stars in the Jawed Sheikh directed and produced revenge thriller Wajood. Saeeda’s latest ambition is to start an NGO and join politics, which she divulges to Sana Zehra

For the movie Kaptaan you spent some time with Imran Khan. What did you learn about him?

He is very health conscious. When we went to Bani Gala, I still remember we had been sitting, conversing for a while; he suddenly stood up and started exercising. That’s great because he is aged 65+. It’s good to stay active.

What is that one thing that you think will fail social media?

I think for it to really fail, it needs to be banned. Just like how it happened with YouTube when it got banned and no one could use it. Unless that happens, social media will stay powerful and nothing will fail it.

Which charity is very close to your heart and why?

I admire two personalities in my life Shaheed Benazir Bhutto and Mother Teresa.

Recently I did a social campaign with a political party that I plan to join. I feel like there is no empathy left in us. I’m a very sensitive soul and it’s hard for me to see someone struggle. If we all start caring, we will be a very successful nation.

Celebrities nowadays are openly discussing serious issues. Stars like yourself are a role model for their younger fans who look up to them. What real change do you plan on making in people’s lives?

I hope that my work can give people courage. I’ve been doing social work lately and plan on joining politics. My hope is to hear people out and help them as much as I can.

Saeeda said at Bani Gala during their conversation, Imran Khan suddenly stood up and started exercising

Who have you taken the most retakes with?

Oh gosh! (Haha)

It was with Danish Taimoor while filming Wajood. And it happened twice that we had to do retakes repeatedly. I was injured at that time and had a muscle pull so I had to do a dance sequence 16-17 times. Danish was extremely patient about it and Jawed Sheikh as well was very calm and understanding.

How can one get your attention?

I’m a very friendly person. If anyone comes up to me, I would like them to talk to me. I like mingling a lot so I’ve never had an issue to converse freely. Most of the time I am in a good mood.

You were a Psychology major at SUNY Stony Brook. What is that one thing you learned studying the subject?

Empathy. Putting yourself in others shoes and thinking before speaking can make a huge difference.

Have you ever felt like you were taken for granted?

Many times. People who are sensitive to others are always taken for granted. I’m a very caring person like I said before and I see innocence in everyone. I actually don’t like that because you see goodness in others and you forget to see who they really are.

Most embarrassing comment ever made?

How my parents have disowned me. I just heard this from someone and it’s not at all even true. It’s more shocking than embarrassing.

What is that one role you feel like you will never ever take?

Actresses that have to do a lot of cheap titillation and overacting. I can never do that.

One actor you’d really like to work with?

Oh, there are lots of actors I would like to work with. I think Salman Khan in Bollywood. In Pakistan, I would love to work with Humayun Saeed and Fahad Mustafa.

Out of these three which role would you like to play?

Reema in Munda Bigra Jaye, Mahira in Raees or Mehwish Hayat in Punjab Nahin Jaungi?

Honestly, I haven’t seen any of these three movies, but if I were to pick one I would like to play Mehwish Hayat’s role. The reason for this is that I love traditional outfits and so far I haven’t done any projects that have a traditional Punjabi touch to them.

The actress is coy about which political party she is joining

Rapid Fire

Your career in one word?

I’m passionate about it.

One word for fillers?

I don’t know; I guess it’s a good thing to get them.

What gives your life meaning?

A smile on my mother’s face

Who do you stalk on social media?

So many people!

Texting or talking?

Calling because I hate texting, I hate Watsapping. I’m not the sort to sit and chitchat.

Fill in the blank

Danish Taimoor is so kind.

Jawed Sheikh is down-to-earth.

Who has it easier men or women?

Women

If you were to give a vote for best actress who’d you give it to?

I like Zeba Bakhtiar. I think she’s a very natural actor so I think her.

Favourite actor?

I recently watched Bilal Ashraf’s movie Janaan and I think he did a really good job. Definitely him!

If you were to give your co-star a piece of advice what would it be?

To Danish Taimoor: How come I’ve never met your children?

Define love in three words?

Caring

Empathy

Romance

Most googled questions about Saeeda?

Saeeda Imtiaz’s husband is?

Oh lord, this is the first time I’m actually hearing this! This is the funniest thing I’ve ever heard. I don’t have a husband. I was never married and when I will everyone will know.

Saeeda Imtiaz’s age?

That’s another question that people are very curious and keen to know but you should never ask a girl her age.

Is Saeeda Imtiaz related to Imran Khan?

I’m not related to him, but I’ve done a film based on Jemima Khan so we’ve met. We’re not related, I’m a Kashmiri-Punjabi and he’s a Pathan.

Saeeda really wants to work with Bollywood star Salman Khan

Ms. Imtiaz swears never to do cheap titillation or  overact

The newest resort wear label on the block, W by Whyte has us enthralled. Chic and minimalist, these ensembles will sort out your holiday needs

Location: Four Seasons Jumeirah Dubai

Model: Vinisha Vaswani

Photographer: Gabriela Bell


By Eman Bandey

Straw Bags

Straw bags are the ultimate summer accessory for 2018 and not just for the beach! Just take a look at your favourite street style icons who can’t help but sport these.

Skinny Glasses

If Instagram is your style bible, you would have already seen this trend exploded everywhere. During fashion week last September, Prada and Miu Miu were the best to embody these cat-eye and square skinny glasses but now other designers have caught up.

Square Neckline

A subtle throwback to the Renaissance? Maybe. Featured at Carolina Herrara, Christian Dior, and Rodarte’s first collection shown in Paris, you can wear this flattering style as it appears on cotton tops and dresses. Perfect for the summer!

Square Neckline

Puffed Shoulders

High end designers to high street stores have all adopted this silhouette. Don’t worry, it’s not quite 80s dramatic oversized sleeves but it’s been reimagined for the Instagram generation. Perfect for those vintage lovers.

Christian Siriano RTW Spring 2018

Co-ord Sets

Because good things come in twos… Sets look effortless chic. Now a cool top looks great on it’s own but it would look even better with matching bottoms.

Pastel Colors

Ice cream shades have been everywhere this season from VB to Chanel and in different styles too like sheer, which if you style, you can tick off another trend box. Textures are your best friend when it comes to these tonal colours.

Having spent the better part of a day informally with the cast of the summer blockbuster 7 Din Mohabbat In, Mahlia Lone gets to see what Mahira Khan, Shehryar Munawar, Amna Ilyas and Mira Sethi are really like to work and interact with. Their natural camaraderie shows through and, feeling comfortable, they their let their guard down

At this interview, seeing up close your insane schedules, I didn’t realize how hard actors really work to achieve stardom. Tell us about the unglamorous side of showbiz?

Amna: One of the hardest part is during a hectic film promotion schedule you hardly get to sleep.  We all reported for an interview at 6:30 A.M., but Mahira hardly slept last night.

Mahira: I was at a dubbing session for Maula Jutt till 2:00 A.M. last night. Since I don’t speak Punjabi I have to really concentrate on getting my Punjabi accent right. Then I was up at the crack of dawn for a televised interview, the hosts for which were two hours late on set.  I haven’t slept for two nights. Right now I’m pretty sure my eyes are shut but hopefully they are not. I’m zoning out and super tired but you know you are feeling so tired from inside but you have to put up this face and you are smiling all the time.

“It’s the love that I get from my fans that keeps me going”

Mira: It looks like a charmed life but really the love you get from your fans makes up for all of this (the punishing schedule).

Mahira: Yes, it’s the love that I get from my fans that keeps me going.

Sheheryar: Reminds me of that song by Bob Seger Turn The Page, that’s what it is right now.

(He hums the chorus)

Here I am

On the road again

There I am

Up on the stage

Here I go

Playin’ star again

There I go

Turn the page

“I’m lucky to have worked with these three women”

Tell us what the others are really like in person.

Sheheryar: I’m lucky to have worked with these three women. Mira is extremely polite. Aamna is very honest to herself and because she is honest to herself she is open about what she says. And Mahira, I’ve said it before, is the kindest person I’ve ever known.

Mira: I’ve known Sherry over the course of 9 month intermittently and what I have shared with him is what I’d share with my best friend.

Amna: The way Sherry and Mahira were looking out for us was very touching. Mira and Mahira were always calling out for us, while Sherry would always search for me with his eyes in the crowd in an extremely gentlemen like way.

Amna also starred in Meenu Farjad’s critically acclaimed film Zinda Bhaag opposite Naseeurddin Shah

Mahira: Sherry and I have been friends for at least four years now since Ho Mann Jahan and we are completely comfortable with each other (she says punching him playfully on the arm). I can call him anytime if I want to talk or hang out and we really get along well with each other.

Mira earlier you told me that you were looking for a strong script to make your film debut, is that why you chose 7DMI as your film debut vehicle?

Mira: Yes, it’s been written by Fasih Bari Khan. When you write something from the heart that’s when it’s actually funny. (As opposed to) When you sit down to write with preconceived pretty cooked notions of what it is you want, it often doesn’t work out like that in my experience.

Shehryar: These characters have a little bit of us in them.

The directors of the film Meenu Gaur and Farjad Nabi directed Zinda Bhaag (2013), Pakistan’s entry for the Best Foreign Language Film at the Academy Awards that year. How was it working with them?

Amna: I worked with them (the directing duo) on Zinda Bhaag as well. They are great to work with—professional, but relaxed and very considerate. (The others all chorused yes in unison.)

Shehryar, you yourself are a successful film producer (Ho Mann Jahan-2016), was it hard not to want to take over?

“When you write something from the heart that’s when it’s actually funny”

Shehryar: No, if you trust the team and they are doing a good job, I focus on the job at hand, acting.

Shehryar you were speaking a regional language that I’m not familiar with on the phone. Which one is that?

Shehryar: I speak several regional languages of Pakistan. Brahui is my mother tongue since my mom is from Kalash. We speak it at home. It’s a Dravidian language, spoken by the original inhabitants of the Subcontinent.

I also speak Sindhi fluently. My father is from Sehwan Sharif, where the shrine of Lal Shahbaz Qalandar is located. It’s a city like no other; it’s so religiously tolerant and atmospheric. People of all religions and backgrounds come to perform Urs (pilgrimage) there. I really like going back.

What are you wearing to the film premier?

Mira: A designer is custom making an outfit for me.

Mahira: I’ve had no time to think about this. My stylist will pick something out.

Amna: (With a brain wave) We should wear the same colour like a team.

Mahira: (Excitedly) Let’s all wear black.

Amna: Not black again! We’ll blend into the background.

Shehryar: (Looking at the ladies) Are we discussing this now? (Sportingly) I can wear green; I like green.

Coordination by Sana Zehra

By Haider Rifaat

One stylish star, Ayesha Omar is incomparable in all respects. Not only did she impress us with her acting on the big screen in Karachi Se Lahore, but she also represented Pakistan at New York Fashion Week this spring. In an exclusive interview, she dishes about Karachi Se Lahore 3, Rehbra, partying in New York with Gigi Hadid and much more! Let’s hear it from Ayesha herself

How did you get into acting?

I went to an art college where I did a lot of theater and acting. I had many family friends in the business so I was cast in children roles when I was young. One thing led to another but I never thought that I would take up acting as a career.

You are often regarded as a style icon in Pakistan. How do you feel about that?

Yes, I have been hearing this for the past year (giggles). It’s hard for me to believe that I am considered a style icon as I am very laid back and casual (in my personal life). Though I mostly dress down, I do like to play with aesthetics and experiment with fashion.  It’s a huge honour that people think of me as such.

I still have trouble believing it (laughs) because I was a complete tomboy growing up. I never really cared about what I wore and my friends thought that I was a crazily dressed kid. I wore different colours and mixed them up but I had some stylish friends so I learned from them and the people I was surrounded by.

You attended New York Fashion Week earlier this year. What was it like representing Pakistan’s fashion industry? Share one interesting story that no one knows of yet.

It was amazing! It felt great to be given an opportunity to represent not just the fashion industry but the face of Pakistan. Maybelline sends their representatives to New York Fashion Week just like L’Oreal does to Cannes Film Festival.

I didn’t think I deserved it but people received me with so much love. It was quite a rollercoaster ride because we were attending events all day long and there was so much happening. Everything was meticulously planned and it was just a lot of fun. I am looking forward to going again in January to represent Pakistan.

“It’s so tough to put yourself out there for speculation, judgement and criticism”

It was just me, the brand manager and marketing head managing everything ourselves. The brand manager took my pictures and did crazy things in chilling weather. At times, I took off my shoes and ran around in the cold. It was freezing in February! As for an interesting story, I remember seeing a crowd of people as Gigi walked in to the press party. That was a memorable moment.

Who were you most excited to meet at New York Fashion Week, 2018?

I was definitely most excited to meet Gigi!

How was it like partying with Gigi Hadid?

We met briefly and hung out at a press event for Maybelline and it was a quick in and out for her, but it was lovely meeting her regardless. Her entire presence and aura was unreal.

Who is your style icon?

I have many style crushes; of course, Gigi is one of them. I like Blake Lively, Victoria Bekham and Kendall Jenner. In Pakistan, I would say Meesha Shafi, Zara Peerzada and Feeha Jamshed. Across the border, it’s Sonam Kapoor. If we look back, Audrey Hepburn and Coco Chanel are my style icons. I also like Dua Lipa and Gwen Stefani.

Is it tough being on your toes 24/7, belonging to an industry that demands perfection?

How do you battle it?

Yes, it is – it’s so tough to put yourself out there for speculation, judgement and criticism. It’s a constant battle since I’m someone who loves my privacy. When I travel, I get to live anonymously. I like being on my own without anyone watching me, without looking my best all the time and being constantly scrutinized.

It’s tough to maintain a balance for anyone who is in the public eye. It takes a toll on your sanity and mental health because you always have to pretend to be someone that you are not. It is a relief being yourself sometimes.

What future projects can we expect from you?

I am currently working on two films; one is almost finished and the other is somewhere in the   middle. I will start working on a third film, which is Karachi Se Lahore 3. The entire cast will return for it and we will be announcing it soon. Rehbra is a sad story right now. We started working on it two years ago.

I worked extremely hard on this project, more than any other. We shot this film in extreme weather conditions, for up to 20 hours a day without access to food and other resources. The producer of the film was relatively new and she disappeared on us because she ran out of budget. I guess she was new to the business. Our shoot has not finished yet and there is no law protecting actors from this. It’s heartbreaking.

Do you think Pakistan’s film industry has regressed in recent years given the lack of quality and content of movies?

This is a very tough question to answer.

Yes, recently the quality and content of films has been uninspiring. It is sad to see that people do not realize that content is key to success.  Our dramas have always been of the highest quality and widely appreciated around the world. I don’t know why we want other things to take precedence in films.

There should be production, dance, songs and masala but if the story doesn’t grip you, the film is not headed anywhere. Any amount of songs and dance will not help the movie. We have had some amazing hits like JPNA (Jawani Phir Nahi Ani) and NMA 2 (Na Maloom Afraad 2) in the near past but it is sad that each time a film comes out and is not as good as you expect it to be, it affects us all.

Have you received any international offers for films/television shows? Do you see yourself established in a different industry altogether?

Yes, I have received many offers for films and a couple television shows abroad. They didn’t really work out because I couldn’t understand the character and there were some scheduling issues. I think I still have a long way to go and I would love to dabble with different industries altogether because everything is a learning experience and there are no boundaries for artists.

An artist is an artist all over the world, be it in your country or any other. It would be a huge learning experience for me to work in a different industry, come back, and apply the same knowledge here in Pakistan. I believe when you travel, you learn, and I do travel a lot because of my work. Each time I tour, I learn about a country’s culture, their people and their behaviour.

What would you like to explore beyond performing arts?

I would love to explore health, food, nutrition and holistic ways of living and farming.

You are vocal about harassment and have experienced it beforehand. What can youngsters especially girls take away from this?

Youngsters should not be okay with certain things that make them uncomfortable. There is a lot of shame and stigma attached to speaking out about anything that makes you feel awkward. We need to break the culture of silence.

We have grown up in a society where it is taught to hide and cover up a crime, which often attracts unwanted attention. As a society, we need to place the blame where it rightly belongs; the shame is not for the victim but the perpetrator. This is what needs to change and it is only possible if we talk about such issues and instil a mentality in youngsters that it’s not okay if something bothers you; you should not cover it up as you will feel guilty or responsible for it.

Ayesha is headed back to NYFW next January

Maybe you can stop a person in their tracks by reporting the crime and making the person realize that they cannot get away with it easily. I hope to create some space for people around me who are struggling to get somewhere in life or have no confidence.

What are your thoughts on the water shortage and climate change in Pakistan?

My thoughts are intense about our environment. I feel very stressed and concerned about our future.

We choose to live in our bubble but when there is talk about resources needed to survive, it is something very alarming. The world will be running out of water very soon, so is Pakistan and some parts of Africa. Everyone is taking measures to control it but we aren’t doing anything.

I’m taking small steps on an individual level; I take the slogan “take baths, not showers” very seriously. I try to use buckets of water instead of running water. When I brush my teeth, I choose to keep the tap closed.  As for climate change, I have started to limit the use of plastics, such as using straws and so on. We need to campaign and implement such things on a personal level.

As you may know, Khadija Siddiqui’s murder case took place in 2016 but it is being given attention this year. As a celebrity, how would you respond to such a tragedy?

It is deeply scarring to think that Khadija Siddiqui’s murderer is unpunished for his crime. It’s a constant source of anger, frustration and resentment towards the legal system, judicial system and the government. It leaves you feeling so helpless. I have come to realize that my reactions to tiny incidents and people are based on a collective conscience and state of existence.

It is incredibly alarming that people can openly commit unimaginable crimes and get away with it, fostering a feeling of insecurity and fear. I love my country but I do feel fearful and insecure living here. I don’t feel protected and safe as a woman.

Who do you owe your life to for your success?

I owe my life to Allah because my creator is the only one I owe anything to. If He does not allow it, nothing is possible, and my mum of course for all the sacrifices and struggles she has been through. She’s a single parent as my father passed away when I was two years old; she raised me alone without any help from friends and family; she may not the perfect parent because she was going through her own trials and tribulations, but my mother sacrificed her entire life for us. I will always be eternally grateful to her. What I am today, it is because of her.

Even the people who have been a source of frustration for me have propelled me to work harder.

One of Pakistan’s most successful male models, Usman Butt has been graced fashions shows, print advertisements and television commercials for more than four years and will soon debut as an actor in the upcoming television serial, Dilaara. The handsome young man tells Ally Adnan why he is more than just a pretty face 

Your first television serial, Bol Entertainment’’s Dilaara, will be on air soon. Are you excited?

I’m excited and truthfully also a little anxious.

Why are you anxious?

Dilaara marks my debut as an actor. I have seen success as a model and hope to find it as an actor as well but sometimes worry that viewers may not like me on television. I have seen rushes of the play and am satisfied with my work. But it still feels just like waiting for the results of an exam that I think I’ve done well in, hence, the anxiety.

What’s Dilaara about?

Dilaara deals with the subject of loveless marriages. A large number of marriages in our country are the result of coercion, deception and blackmail, both emotional and physical, and not of love. Dilaara tells the story of one such marriage and its devastating consequences.

Do you feel that Dilaara will be a hit amongst television viewers? 

Yes, I absolutely do. The topic of Dilaara is important and relevant. Forced marriages, though common in Pakistan, have rarely been explored on television as a subject in a serial. Bee Gul’s phenomenal script delves into the subject with great intelligence and sensitivity. The serial tells a poignant and social relevant story. I believe that Dilaara will strike a chord with audiences and become a huge hit. The serial has many strengths.

What are these strengths of Dilaara?

Dilaara tells a very good story and tells it well. The characters are rich, real and nuanced.  Khalid Ahmed has directed the serial with great skill and elicited some truly remarkable performances from the actors. Abid Ali and Kinza Razak are brilliant in the serial. I believe I have done well as an actor too. The production design is good. It has been shot well and the score is excellent. A lot of good poetry has been used judiciously in the serial.  Dilaara will be one for the ages, in my opinion.

Tell us about the character you play.

I play the role of a kind and sensitive young man named Shuja who finds himself drawn into a forbidden relationship and has to make a choice between following his heart and behaving in an honourable manner. His decision is not an easy one; it is made difficult by the social, cultural and religion norms of Pakistani society, his own sense of right and wrong, and the thinly-veiled mendacity that pervades the world he lives in.

How did you land the role of Shuja?

Khalid Ahmed auditioned me for the role.

You started your career in show business with modeling. Was it difficult to make the transition to acting?

Yes, it was. Acting and modeling are vastly different. I had to work hard to learn acting and get comfortable in front of the television camera. Three people: Actor/director Khalid Ahmed, and writers Bee Gul and Faseeh Bari Khan, gave me invaluable advice, guidance and encouragement during the process. They are my mentors in the world of show business.

How are modeling and acting different?

The business of modeling is very different from that of acting. The duration of projects, payment structures, industry economics, and career management – virtually everything – is different in the two fields.

The primary requirement for a model is good looks whereas that for an actor is histrionic ability. A model’s thought process, while performing, is generally outward. He opens himself up for the camera. An actor’s thinking is inward. He largely ignores the camera. A model conducts himself with confidence and assurance whereas an actor needs to have both humility and vulnerability. A model has to play a part for a short period of time and does not need to immerse himself in the character that he plays. An actor, on the other hand, has to play a character for extended periods of time, learn lines, and have an understanding of the whole story.

Does it help to have both acting and modeling skills?

Yes, my acting ability helps me a great deal in modeling, especially when I work in commercials. As an actor, I benefit from the confidence, sense of style and poise that I have cultivated in my years of modeling.

Which do you like more, acting or modeling?

Acting, without a doubt.

Why?

Modeling is mostly about having good looks. If one has the right genes, a sense of style and no fondness for food, little else is required to do well as a model. I believe there is more to me than my good looks. I have acting talent. I am hardworking, disciplined and driven. I understand cinema and television. And I have a natural flair for acting. I cannot be content with just modeling.

Additionally, I am more comfortable in the world of acting. Modeling is intensely competitive. People in the fashion business tend to be unfriendly and cold. I guess the short duration of modeling gigs does not allow one to forge meaningful relationships and friendships. I find people in television to be warm and friendly. They work together as a family and offer each other a lot of support, help and guidance. I like the congenial and friendly atmosphere of the world of television.

Do you plan to give up modeling if and when your acting career takes off?

No, as much as I prefer acting, I could never give up modeling. Frankly, it’s very lucrative, relatively easy and a lot of fun. I love the energy, excitement and exhilaration of walking the ramp. I relish wearing good, fashionable clothes. I enjoy seeing myself on billboards, in publications and on television. And I like the perks – gifts of clothes, luxury travel, and many others – that come with modeling.

What do you like to do when not working?

I am a fitness freak and believe in eating well and staying fit. I spend a lot of my time in the gym. Not only does working out keep me healthy, happy and energetic, but essentially in my line of work, it also helps me manage my weight and keep fit. I cannot imagine a day in my life when I would not spend a few hours in the gym.

I enjoy travelling alone as it clears my head; I process my thoughts and find peace. I like places that are off the beaten path and tend to avoid tourist destinations. I love the sights and sounds of new places and foreign lands.  Adventure and discovery are exhilarating, educational and enjoyable.

In a recent interview, you spoke very candidly about the prevalence of sexual harassment and abuse in the world of show business. Did you experience any backlash because of your comments?

No, not really. A couple of people who had hit on me, in the past, called and asked me if I was going to name them as predators in future interviews.

Are you going to name and shame them?

No, I am not. The people that I mentioned had backed off when I refused. They never offered to help me in exchange for favours received and did not threaten to hurt my career after I refused. They have not propositioned me since and have remained nice and friendly towards me. They had a right to ask me as did I to say no; we exercised our rights as adults and moved on. No harm was done. I don’t think it would be right to out and publicly shame them. They don’t deserve it.

Now that the shooting of Dilaara is complete, are you looking at other acting projects?

I want to take a month long break before taking on a new acting project. Working in Dilaara was great fun but it wore me out nonetheless. I need to spend time with my family, rest, relax, and recoup my energy before I resume work.

Have you been offered any acting work recently?

Yes, I received an offer to work in a soap from a major television channel a few weeks ago but turned it down because I am not sure that I want to do soaps. I find the quality and content of regular television serials to be generally higher than that of soaps. I’m also in the early stages of a discussion about working in a film about the fashion industry. It has a promising story and script. And, I just received a call about working as the lead in a telefilm that will be made in Islamabad. I believe that I will get more – and better – offers once Dilaara starts airing. I put my heart and soul into the serial and hope that it will open many doors for me.  Fingers crossed.

Photographs by Mohsin Khawar

Ally Adnan lives in Dallas and writes about culture, history and the arts. He tweets @allyadnan and can be reached at allyadnan@outlook.com.

Reesham landed her first commercial at the age of 8 and Her father protectively accompanied her to the shoot. By age 15, she was a radio jockey at FM 100. Throughout her college years, the young actress was actively involved in theatre and bagged the award for Best Actor at the Pakistan Theatre Festival 2005. since then, her performances in Khoat Muntazir, Ghareeb Zaadi and Dil-e-Nadan have also been praised by drama critcs. Recently, her work in Sajjad Ali’s Lagaya Dil has been making waves. Reesham lets Sana Zehra get to know her on a personal level

If you weren’t in the industry, what would you be doing right now?

I would love to host corporate events; I’d also love to interview people from politics and such.

How did you enter this field?

I entered this field at the age of 8. My teacher saw my dramatic and introduced me to her husband who was at the time running PR company, Publicis. I did my first TV commercial for Maggi Noodles and after that, there was no looking back. I thoroughly enjoyed most of the work that came my way.

What is your most loved work to date?

Muntazir

Piece of advice you received 10 years ago that is coming true now?

You need to be very persistent and need to work hard each day in order to achieve your goals.

How does your husband handle your success?

He’s been my strength. We need more men like him who takes pride in his woman’s success. 🙂

Nickname that really annoys you?

Reshma

Weirdest habit you have?

I boss people around.

One film you’ve watched more than 5 times?

Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge

A character you wished you would have played?

Rani Mukherjee in Black

Lipstick shade you wear most often?

Nude

Early or late?

Early

One thing you would like to change about yourself?

I think I am pretty happy the way I am.

One thing you just won’t eat?

Indian squash

Reesham admits she’s bossy

React in one word to the following:

Marriage

Blessing

Being human

Sallu bhai

Awards

Motivating

On screen romance

Chemistry

If you wake up as the following actresses what would you do?

Kareena Kapoor

I would kiss baby Taimur he is so adorable!

Sarwat Gillani

Not too sure (Laughs)

Funniest thing that happened to you recently?

After the song Lagaya Dil became a hit, people started sending me all these weird messages. I was a little taken aback from them. Some of the messages were super creepy.

Hair & makeup:

Studio Z Salon and Spa

Photography:

Arsalan Bilgrami of a.bilgrami studio

By SFK Bridals

By Afshan Shafi

Fawad Khan and Mahira Khan indulge our senses with their sizzling chemistry for couturier Sadaf Khan’s creations!

Photography: Faiza Murad

Makeup (Fawad): Shamal Qureshi

Makeup (Mahira): Biancahartkopf

Location: Bab-ul-shams resort Dubai

Brand: SFKbridal

 

Ahsan Khan began his career in show business as a teenager and, in a span of two decades, emerged as one of Pakistan’s biggest stars, making a huge name for himself in the world of cinema, theater and television. In an exclusive interview for Good Times, the popular actor, host, model and occasional writer talks to Ally Adnan about his past and upcoming projects, his newfound love for Urdu literature, minority rights in Pakistan, Ramzan television programming, his fondness of qawwali, and a lot else.

Your last television serial – the phenomenally successful Udaari – aired in 2016. Why have you not appeared in a television play since Udaari?

Udaari, as you say, was phenomenally successful. It propelled me to the upper echelon of actors with superior acting.  I could no longer turn in performances that were less than competent without disappointing my fans, people in the industry, and, most importantly, myself.

I, therefore, had to put a lot of thought and consideration into selecting acting projects for myself after Udaari. It took a while but I am now working in two serials – Miriam Pereira and Aangan – that will be aired soon. I believe that my performances in both are as good, if not better than, the one in Udaari.

What attracted you to Miriam Pereira?

Miriam Pereira deals with the issue of minority rights in Pakistan. The subject is very near and dear to my heart. Our country is home to people of many faiths but, as a nation, we have yet to learn how to treat them with love, respect and equality. It is important that all citizens of Pakistan be given the same rights.

“People of all religions and faiths need to be shown in the media in a responsible, positive and fair manner”

The country’s founding father, Mohammad Ali Jinnah, had envisioned a secular, tolerant country in which everyone would enjoy religious freedom. Sadly, his vision has been hijacked and not been allowed to become a reality.

I am not an expert on religion and don’t pretend to be one on my show, Ramzan Pakistan.

Who hijacked Jinnah’s vision of Pakistan?

Political, religious and business leaders, each for their own nefarious purposes, have laid waste to Jinnah’s vision. They have all helped create a corrosive sense of nationalism that allows the systematic and widespread mistreatment of people who are not Muslims. This is sad and totally against the fundamental beliefs of Islam.

In an Islamic society, Muslims are accorded no special privileges and have the same rights as people of other faiths. Religion is not allowed to become the basis of discrimination of any sort. That is the society that all of us need to help create in Pakistan.

What is your view of Pakistan’s anti-blasphemy and anti-Ahmedi laws?

I believe that though it’s necessary to have laws that protect the honor of the Prophet (may peace be upon him) and the sanctity of Islamic beliefs. At the same time, it is important to make sure that the laws are not used for harassment, murder, intimidation, abuse, and censorship. The interpretation, implementation and execution of the laws should be reviewed regularly to make sure that they are being used to protect the honor of the Prophet (may peace be upon him) and Islamic beliefs and not for other purposes.

The key to the success of sections 295, 296, 297, and 298 of the Pakistan Penal Code lies in the correct, just and fair implementation of the laws.

Do you feel that Miriam Pereira  will help the cause of Christians in Pakistan?

Yes, I do. It is little steps like making this serial that will help mainstream Christians in our society. People of all religions and faiths need to be shown in the media in a responsible, positive and fair manner.

I feel that viewers will enjoy Miriam Pereira because of its authentic and accurate representation of our society. Emmad Irfani, Sadia Khan, Rasheed Naz, Seemi Raheel, and Laila Zuberi have acted really well in the serial.

And you?

I think I have done well too but, to be honest, mine is only one of the several good performances in Miriam Pereira.

Aangan  is currently being shown on ARY Digital  but you are not a part of the cast. Will your character appear in the serial at a later stage?

The play that is being aired on ARY Digital is not the one that I am working in. Mine has the same name and is being made by Momina Duraid Productions for Hum TV. It is based on Khadija Mastoor’s 1962 novel Aangan. I think its title may be changed to Khadija Mastoor’s Aangan for purposes of disambiguation.

Ahsan’s upcoming serial Aangan is set at the time
of Partition and deals with the lives of ordinary people who made immense sacrifices
to gain independence from the British

Khadija Mastoor’s novel deals with a lot of themes – culture, morality, politics, feminism, and religion, to name a few – in addition to romantic love, which is at the center of its story. What aspects of the novel are highlighted in the television serial?

In my opinion, Mohammed Ehteshamuddin has made Aangan less as a romance, and more as a chronicle of our political, moral and cultural history. It is a poignant – and heart-wrenching – portrayal of the Partition of the Indian Subcontinent. Instead of focusing on the lives of political leaders and freedom fighters, the serial deals with the lives of people who were affected, in more ways than one, by the partition and who made immense sacrifices to gain independence from the British.

What do you like about Aangan?

I like the manner in which women have been depicted in Aangan. The female characters of the novel are complex and real, written with a lot of insight, understanding and intelligence. Aangan’s story is a highly intelligent account of feminism in South Asia. It pits a woman’s desire to be independent against her need to love and nurture and highlights the strengths and weaknesses of feminist ideology; it also shows how women deal with adversity, pain and failure in a way that men cannot. I am fascinated by Khaidija Mastoor’s intelligent exploration of the female psyche in Aangan.

Were you familiar with Khadija Mastoor’s work before starting work on Aangan?

I was not, but became a huge fan of her writing after reading Aangan. She is an incredible writer. I learnt a lot about history and culture by reading her novel, which is is a literary tour deforce. I am not surprised that it has been translated into13 languages.

“Aangan’s story is a highly intelligent account of feminism in South Asia”

I am now reading Zameen and have already purchased Bochaar, Chand Roz Aur, Khail, Thakay Haaray, and Thanda Meetha Paani to read once I am done with Zameen. Khadija Mastoor has introduced me to the wonderful world of Urdu literature. A few Urdu books will now always be on my bedside.  There is no going back for me.

Do you play the role of Safdar in Aangan?

Yes, I do. It is a double role that gave me a lot of room to explore as an actor. I am satisfied with my performance. Sonya Hussain and Mawra Hocane play the roles of Salma and Aaliya. The cast also includes Sajal Aly, Ahad Raza Mir, Omair Rana, Abid Ali, Uzma Hassan, and Zeb Rehman.

Child sexual abuse, sexual harassment, transgenderism, and minority rights – Pakistani television seems to have come of age and become comfortable with tackling, heretofore, taboo subjects.

Yes, the number of topics being explored in television dramas has expanded.

You seem tentative in your praise. Are you not happy that television channels are now addressing issues that have historically been swept under the rug?

I am happy but concerned that a lot the “taboo subjects” are being explored with a desire to shock and not to break new ground.

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What kept you busy between Udaari and the two upcoming serials?

A whole lot. I started work on a book about child sexual abuse. I expect it to be published in the fall. It’s a collection of my feelings, thoughts and experiences while working on Udaari.

I made my stage debut with Serendip’s production of Ishq – the Legend of Heer Ranjha, at the prestigious Saddler’s Wells Theater in London, in 2017. The musical was a collaboration between Pakistani and British artists. It afforded me an opportunity to sing, dance and act – the three things that I enjoy more than anything else in life. Ishq – the Legend of Heer Ranjha was received very well.

I hosted Knorr Noodles Boriyat Busters on GEO Television. It was a game show for children that allowed contestants to compete for prizes by participating in a number of physical activities. I believe that it was the first time a game show had been made solely for kids. I had a lot of fun hosting the show.

I starred in Mohsin Ali’s feature film Chupan Chupai, which was both a critical and a commercial success and earned more than PKR Seventy million  in its first week. I enjoyed working in the light-hearted fun comedy and am glad that it was a success.

I wrote and produced a short documentary about Zainab Ansari, the six-year-old Pakistani girl who was raped and murdered in Qasur. It is now complete and will be shown at festivals all over the world. The documentary, titled Candle in the Wind, took a lot of time, emotion and energy. I felt connected to the project at multiple levels, as a father, a Muslim, a Pakistani and a human being.

And, as in previous years, I hosted the Ramzan Pakistan show on Pakistan Television in 2017 and 2018. It is a very demanding show but I like doing it. It does very well in ratings.

Is the show Ramzan Pakistan or Ramadan Pakistan?

The show is conducted in Urdu and not in Arabic. It is, therefore, Ramzan Pakistan.

The Ramzan  transmissions of Pakistani television channels recently came under the heavy criticism of Islamabad High Court (IHC) Justice Shaukat Aziz Siddiqui. Was the criticism justified?

I don’t get to watch the Ramzan transmissions of other television channels because my show on PTV keeps me very busy but have seen bits and pieces on YouTube and social media. I have liked some of what I have seen but am mostly dismayed by the activities that are a part of most of the shows. I think they are inappropriate for Ramzan. I find the criticism of the court largely justified.

Justice Siddiqui was unhappy that, while foreign experts were hired to provide detailed analyses during cricket matches, artists and cricketers were asked to speak on matters of religion in Ramzan television shows.

Yes, I am aware of his feelings.

Do you share his feelings?

I don’t think that religious clerics and scholars should be the only ones allowed to talk to about religion. People of faith, who study Islam with responsibility, have a right to discuss and talk about religion. That being said, I will add that competent religious clerics and scholars do a lot of research and study religion in great depth and with a lot of intelligence. It is best that they lead discussions about serious religious matters.

Ahsan made his stage debut with the musical Ishq – the Legend of Heer Ranjha, at the prestigious Saddler’s Wells Theater in London, in 2017

A lot of the “show business” hosts of Ramzan programs act with a lot of arrogance and take it upon themselves to guide, educate and lead viewers in matters of religion. Do you find their didacticism annoying?

Yes, I do but the problem is not limited to people hosting shows in Ramzan. Everyone in Pakistan acts like an expert – and not just in matters of religion – irrespective of his education, knowledge and scholarship. I host Ramzan Pakistan with a lot of humility using a different approach. My role in the program is that of a student and a facilitator. I facilitate religious discussions in my program, participate only when confident, and learn whenever possible. I am not an expert on religion and do not pretend to be one in my show, Ramzan Pakistan.

You have hosted Ramzan Pakistan on PTV for six straight years. Do you enjoy hosting the show?

I enjoy hosting the show a great deal even though it is very demanding and draining physically. It is not easy to talk, almost non-stop, for, a full six hours, while fasting.

What do you enjoy about the show?

I like four things:

One, I am paid very well to host the show. It is great to be able to make a living by doing something one likes to do.

Two, I learn a lot about religion in the show and find the learning to be truly invaluable.

Three, I receive a lot of blessings and prayers from the audience and from viewers. The duas (prayers) make me very happy.

Four, I love the qawwalis that are performed during the show. It is one of my favourite segments of the show.

Are you a qawwali aficionado?

Yes, absolutely. It brings together music, poetry, Sufism, mysticism, and Islamic thought in the most remarkable manner. I can listen to qawwali all day and all night.

Who are your favourite qawwals?

Without a doubt, Fareed Ayaz – Abu Muhammad Qawwal and Brothers. They are direct descendants of the very first qawwal in the world – the thirteenth century Miyan Samat Bin Ibrahim – and, in my opinion, the best qawwals in the world today. I love their sons, Ghayoor – Moiz – Mustafa Qawwal and Brothers as well. The two are, however, not the only qawwal parties that I like. Pakistan and India are home to a very large number of highly talented qawwals. I listen to all of them.

“It’s not easy to talk, almost non-stop, for, a full six hours, while fasting”

Now that Ramzan  is over and the shooting for both Aangan and Miriam Pereira is almost complete, what are you doing?

I am recovering from the grueling schedule of Ramzan and spending quality time with my family. I am in the final stages of talks for two projects – one for cinema and the other for television – that will hit the floor soon. I will announce them as soon as I sign the contracts. I am also planning to work in a stage play named Rang E Rihaii which follows the structure established by A. R. Gurney in his play, Love Letters. The play unfolds in a series of letters, written by two friends, over the course of several years and deals with the emotional, physical and sexual abuse of women in a novel and interesting way.

Photographs by Haseeb Siddiqui

Ally Adnan lives in Dallas and writes about culture, history and the arts. He tweets @allyadnan and can be reached at allyadnan@outlook.com.

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You can’t be a South Asian and have missed the massive coverage of Sonam Kapoor’s glitzy wedding held recently in Mumbai that trended on social media as #Sonamkishaadi. You may have already seen the photos and dance clips, but here is a detailed account fo her love story with her husband Anand Ahuja

By Mahlia Lone

It seems the last name of Kapoor is a lucky one to have for Bollywood acting families; it opens studio doors, ensuring success and longevity of career. During Partition, Surinder Kapoor who belonged to a Punjabi Hindu family from Pre Partition Peshawar was invited by his distant cousin the actor Prithviraj Kapoor to migrate to Bombay and join the burgeoning Hindi film industry. Using his family connections, in 1950 Surinder became secretary to film star Geeta Bali who subsequently married Prithviraj’s middle born son Shammi Kapoor in 1955. Geeta kept acting after her marriage unlike most Kapoor bahus (daughters in law) and in her gratitude to her secretary she helped Surinder become a film producer. He got his big break as a producer when Rajesh Khanna who was a superstar of the 70s consented to do his film as a favour. He said, “Rajesh Khanna who played the title-role in Shehzada (which became a hit) was truly of a princely disposition. He started shooting for me without ever discussing the price, saying that we could settle that once the film is made, he said and made the banner S. K. International Films become an acknowledged company.”

In the’80s Surinder produced a string of successful films with his middle son Anil in the lead, such as Hum Paanch, Woh Saat Din, Loafer, Judaai, Sirf Tum, Hamara Dil Aapke Paas Hai, Pukar, and No Entry. His eldest son Boney learnt the ropes alongside his father and carried on his legacy as a film producer. Boney was famously married to the late South Indian born superstar Sridevi (see Memorable Romance GT March 16th 2018) and has two budding actress daughters, Jhanvi and Khushi and son Arjun Kapoor from a previous marriage. Arjun’s mother and Boney’s first wife, the late Mona Shourie, who died of cancer, was CEO of Future Studios, the largest ready-to-shoot, fully furnished, indoor shooting studio in Mumbai. The youngest of the three brothers, Sanjay is also an actor but never made it big as a lead.

This is the illustrious Bollywood film family that Sonam was born into in 1985 in the refugee neighbourhood of Chembur, Mumbai to Anil and his wife Sunita, a former model, and the daughter of a well off State Bank of India executive. Anil moved his family to the upmarket suburb of Juhu when Sonam was just a month old where the couple had their younger daughter Rhea, now a film producer, and actor son, Harshvardhan. The kids were educated at the Arya Vidya Mandir school in Juhu. This chain of English medium schools was attended by many Bollywood stars such as Aishwarya Rai Bachchan, Sonakshi Sinha, etc.

Sonam was a “naughty” and “carefree” girl who would pick on the boys, was sporty, playing rugby and basketball, as well as being a good dancer, training in Kathak, classical music and Latin dance. At 15, she took up a waitressing job that only lasted a week. A heavy teenager, she recalled, “I had every issue related to weight that I could have. I was unhealthy, I had bad skin, and I had hair growing on my face!” Then it was discovered that she is diabetic (she started taking an insulin injection everyday) plus has polycystic ovaries that causes hormonal imbalance because of which pregnancies are recommended at an earlier age.

Raj & Krishan Kapoor With Surinder, His Wife & 4 Year Old Boney Kapoor At A Studio Film Mahurat (auspicious Inauguration Ceremony)

Sonam was sent to Singapore to the United World College of South East Asia to help her get into a Western college. After which she got admission at the average University of East London in Stratford, but dropped out soon after. So it’s safe to assume that Sonam was not at all academically inclined.

In Singapore Sonam met with family friend Rani Mukherji who at the time was working on the film Black (2005) opposite Amitabh Bachchan, a casting coup. Sonam decided she wanted to work as a crew member on the set as she had aspirations to become a writer/director. Anil asked the film’s director Sanjay Leela Bhansali to mentor his daughter so Sonam became his assistant director.

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Sunita Sunit Star kids are a saleable commodity in the Indian film industry drawing crowds to cinemas out of curiosity. Bhansali offered Sonam the lead in his next film, Saawariya (2007) opposite another star kid,  Ranbir Kapoor, son of Rishi Kapoor and Neetu Singh, on the condition that she lose a lot of weight. At the time, Sonam at 5’ 96” weighed 180 lb. She spent the next two years overhauling her diet and fitness regime and lost a total of 77 lb. by jogging, doing yoga and playing squash. In addition, she studied acting with renowned coaches.

The debut movie of two star kids was hyped up but, despite being the first Bollywood movie to receive a North American release by a Hollywood studio, and having established stars Rani Mukherjee and Salman Khan in supporting roles, the movie, loosely based on Russian literary giant Fyodor Dostoevsky’s short story White Nights, fared badly at the box office. Sonam and Ranbir who were distant cousins had been hanging out during during filming drifted apart. The young hot shot actor started dating another statuesque beauty Deepika, also a new entry in the film world.

On a side note, two more young actors also part of Sonam’s family are: paternal cousin  Mohit Marwah, and last but certainly not least her maternal second cousin, Ranveer Singh who is now engaged to Deepika. As they say, it’s all in the family.

Next, Sonam chose the role of an aspiring singer opposite her idol veteran actress Waheeda Rehman and Abhishek Bachchan in the drama Delhi-6 (2009), another commercial failure. Though she received some positive reviews with critic Rajeev Masand stating that Sonam was “a firecracker, instinctive and uninhibited in what isn’t even a conventional female lead.”

Finally the next year, she had her first hit with I Hate Luv Storys. During filming the actress was briefly dating the movie’s director Punit Malhotra, who is the nephew of famous Indian designer, Manish Malhotra. Despite her limited success as a box office draw, that year, Sonam became the first Indian actress to appear on The Hollywood Reporter’s “Next Generation: Asia Class”, a list of newcomers in film.

Now Sonam is a huge Jane Austen fan. With her younger sister Rhea at the helm as producer, the two sisters decided to remake the Hollywood romcom Clueless in Hindi, a cinematic adaptation of Jane Austen’s comedy of errors novel Emma set in modern day. But the resulting movie Aisha (2010) made under the Anil Kapoor Films Company banner failed to leave much of an impact and couldn’t draw in the masala crowd.

Sonam, however, had quickly emerged as a style icon for younger women and got several ad endorsements, including the lucrative and high profile L’Oreal campaigns. She represented the global brand for the first time at the prestigious Cannes International Film Festival in 2011 and became an instant internationally recognized Bollywood style queen.

After a few more misses, the romantic drama Raanjhanaa (2013) marked a turning point in Sonam’s career. She played the role of a Muslim student pulled into politics after the murder of her Sikh boyfriend. Determined to make her role work, she prepared intensely for her part, by spending time with students, and practising with the Jawaharlal Nehru University theatre club. At this time in her personal life, Sonam was set up with entrepreneur/model Sahir Berry by Rhea on a social media network. The two dated for a few months before breaking up. It seemed she wasn’t clicking with anyone.

Rhea and Anil produced the dramedy Khoobsurat, (2014) in which Sonam, who played a physiotherapist, starred opposite Fawad Khan, who played an Indian prince. The movie was a modest success in India, and did especially well in the international market.

That same year, Sonam was introduced by her stylist Pernia Qureshi to fellow Delhi-ite Anand Ahuja. Pernia became friends with Sonam when she designed costumes for Aisha. Incidentally, Pernia’s mother, Nasreen was born and bred in Lahore and worked as an actress here before moving to New Delhi when she married wealthy Indian Muslim meat exporter, Moin Qureshi.

Back to Anand Ahuja. Anand belongs to a merchant class Khatri Punjabi Sikh family and is third generation wealthy. His grandfather Harish Ahuja is the owner of the country’s largest export house Shahi Exports that exports garment and has an annual turnover of over $450 million or INR3,000 crores. Shahi Exports supplies garments to Abercrombie & Fitch, Gap, Esprit, Wal-Mart, Ralph Lauren and Tommy Hilfiger among others. In 2015, Harish Ahuja bought a 9,000 square feet sprawling bungalow built on a 3,170 square yard plot on Prithviraj Road in central Delhi–where a lot of the top industrialists live–for Rs. 173 crore, which is now worth Rs. 300 crores according to India Times.

Anand was born to Sunil and Beena Ahuja in 1983 in New Delhi and grew up in the family house in the posh Jor Bagh locality of Delhi with his younger brothers, Anant and Amit but since then the family has moved to the exclusive Golf Links gated community.

After doing his high school from the American Embassy School in New Delhi, Anand graduated in economics and international relations from the University of Pennsylvania. In 2010, he went to Wharton to pursue MBA, but did not complete his degree. After interning in Duetsch Bank, he worked as an assistant buyer at a Macy’s Inc. store owned by his uncle, and then as a product manager at Last Sportswear and Amazon.com in Seattle. Getting a good knowledge of the business, he decided to return to India and set up his own clothing brand, backed by his family of course. He set up clothing brand Bhane with a showroom in New Delhi’s upscale Meherchand Market. After he started dating Sonam, the actress and her siblings were spotted wearing the brand at a number of events to help bring it publicity.

Sonam and Anand hit it off almost immediately. Just a month into their relationship, he popped the question to her, which took her a few months’ consideration to answer. But the two lovebirds were not ready to settle down quite as yet. Though she remained tightlipped about her relationship, photos floated about of Anand and Sonam together at public as well as family events and holidays abroad.

The 5’ 9” tall weighing 143 lbs. muscular basketball playing and gym honed guy with the well-built chest and dark brown eyes was well dressed to boot. Escorting her to events, he was content to stay discreetly in the background. Rather than living off her reflected star wattage, he focused on starting India’s first multi-brand sneaker boutique, VegNonVeg that retails international footwear brands, like Nike and Adidas, and lesser known but cult labels like the Japanese Visvim. Meanwhile Sonam was hard at work solidifying her career.

Her next movie Prem Ratan Dhan Payo (2015) with Salman Khan became one of the highest-grossing Bollywood films of all time. Though she was praised by film critic Rachit Gupta for her credible performance as a royal, she got the dubious honour of winning a Golden Kela Award for Worst Actress. She followed this up by appearing in the British band Coldplay’s music video for Hymn for the Weekend featuring Beyoncé. Her regular Cannes appearances as a fashion forward Indian star were sure making her internationally famous. Top designers the world over started vying to dress the Bollywood actress.

Next Sonam starred in the biographical thriller Neerja (2016) as the eponymous air hostess Neerja Bhanot who died while saving the passengers of the hijacked Pan Am Flight 73 in 1986. Again Sonam got into her role by researching the real life events, and met Bhanot’s family. The film became one of the highest-grossing Bollywood films featuring a female protagonist and was critically well received with Sonam’s performance noted to be her best to date. Hindustan Times critic Rohit Vats wrote that “she carries the film entirely on her shoulder. She looks earnest, scared, benevolent and bold, all at the same time. Sonam won the Filmfare Critics Award for Best Actress and National Film Award – Special Mention. Anand was seated next to Sonam and stood up to applaud and cheer his “partner in crime” when she received the award on stage and Instagrammed: “my fave! #everydayphenomenal.”

Soon after, Sonam was asked about her relationship with the entrepreneur by a reporter. She replied cryptically, “There are a lot of other things which make you a whole person besides who you’re dating. My personal life is out there because I’ve always been myself but if you’re talking about personal life as in (context of) boyfriend, then I’ll never talk about it.”

Rhea regularly helps style Sonam at high profile events like the Cannes Film Festival and both sisters are considered stylish and modern. Inspired in part by Anand, they launched their clothing line Rheson in 2017.

“Sonam and Rhea Kapoor have, for years now been considered style icons for young India,” said their brand consultant Anya Rangaswami. “Rheson (RHEa + SONam; pronounced ‘reason’) was conceptualised to be a brand for fashionable young Indian women…at an affordable price…through Shoppers Stop (department store chain and online retailer)…. The first of its kind, the brand aimed to position Indian retail on the global fashion map, building a homegrown brand at a scale never seen before.”

Certainly the Ahuja business acumen and garment industry knowhow was rubbing off.

After a two-year hiatus from films, Sonam came back in a film that addresses important social issues Pad Man (2018) playing a social worker in Arunachalam Muruganantham, who campaigned for menstrual hygiene in rural India. Pad Man is based on a short story in Twinkle Khanna’s book The Legend of Lakshmi Prasad and co-stars Twinkle’s husband starring Akshay Kumar. Sonam said she wants to make films with a social message and not just provide entertainment. She, in fact, publicly criticised fellow actress Katrina Kaif for doing “over the top films.”

Most recently, Rhea has produced the romcom Veere Di Wedding, playing in cinemas now, about four girls who embark on a road trip with an ensemble cast co-starring Sonam and her best friends, Kareena Kapoor and Swara Bhasker. When a reporter asked her if it was true that real friends can’t be made in Bollywood, Sonam disagreed, “Completely untrue. Jacqueline, Bebo (Kareena) and Swara are my closest friends.”

A month before their wedding took place, Sonam and Anand decided they had waited long enough and they were ready to formalize their commitment. Within a month, all the preparations were made hastily but expertly.

Mr. and Mrs. Anil Kapoor put up a grand show, hosting a pre-Mehndi party, followed by a Sangeet, the wedding and a grand reception. Sonam’s cousins: Arjun Kapoor, Ranveer Singh and Jahnvi Kapoor prepared dance performances for the Sangeet. All the top Indian actors like Amitabh Bachchan, Madhuri Dixit, Shah Rukh Khan, Salman Khan, Alia Bhatt, Ranbir Kapoor, Kareena Kapoor, etc. fully participated with fervor. Anand and Sonam tied the knot on 8th May in the 55,000-sq ft. mansion of Sonam’s maternal aunt interior designer Kavita Singh, married to pharmaceutical magnate Jasjit Singh, in Bandra, Mumbai in a traditional Sikh Anand Karaj ceremony.

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Actress Sonam Kapoor poses for photographers upon arrival at the premiere of the film ‘BlacKkKlansman’ at the 71st international film festival, Cannes, southern France, Monday, May 14, 2018. (Photo by Joel C Ryan/Invision/AP)

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‘Mal de Pierres’ premiere, 69th Cannes Film Festival, France – 15 May 2016

After the wedding, Sonam jetted off to Cannes to fulfill her responsibilities to L’Oreal as one of its Indian ambassadors where she cut a wedding cake and Instagrammed, “Anand Ahuja this was for us!”

The couple will not leave for honeymoon right away but have decided to postpone it till October-November due to work commitments. Neither will they be moving to the Ahujas London house as was reported earlier. Instead Sonam will go back and forth between Mumbai and Delhi for the time being. Bollywood Hungama quoted a close friend of the Kapoors saying that the couple have been hunting for residential properties in Mumbai prior to their wedding, “It is true that the couple was seen checking out some property in Mumbai close to her parents’ home. But they didn’t zero in on anything they like. Honestly Anil Kapoor wants Sonam and her husband to stay in the Kapoor bungalow. Anand’s business and family are in Delhi. Sonam’s home and career are in Mumbai. For some time at least she will be shuttling between the two cities.”

Next up, Sonam will feature in a biopic of the actor Sanjay Dutt, entitled Sanju, plus is filming the romance Ek Ladki Ko Dekha Toh Aisa Laga, co-starring her father and Juhi Chawla, releasing later this year. In addition, she has signed on to play the title role in a film adaptation of Anuja Chauhan’s novel The Zoya Factor.

Looks like the actress has no intention of slowing down and Anand has no mind to hold her back. They must have an extremely trusting, supportive and secure relationship. Sonam said, “I need to be thankful for so much.” Sounds like she found her true match.

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Once upon a time, when King Arthur reigned in Camelot, there lived a Cornish knight, Sir Tristan, who fell hopelessly in love with his Uncle King Mark’s bride-to-be the Irish Princess Isolde. The beautiful princess too loved her handsome knight who had valiantly slain a dragon and saved her people. Because they had unknowingly ingested a strong love potion, they had a passionate love that could not be denied…

By Mahlia Lone

The popular Celtic legend of Tristan and Isolde was retold by generations of wandering minstrels who sang of the tragic lovers harkening to the 6th century. Celtic mythology scholars believe that the legend originated in Brittany, western France, which had been settled by Britons. The oral legend, known as the “vulgar” version, a representative of story-telling belonging to the Dark Ages, gave the lovers more choice in carrying out their affair.  In the refined High Middle Ages, the 12th century oAnwards the legend stressed the lovers’ honour in keeping with the chivalric and courtly Anglo-Norman literature.

The Story

King Mark of Cornwall ruled in the early 6th century with his seat at Castle Dor, near Fowey. He was the son of King Felix who died after an Irish raid on his castle at Tintagel. According to Arthurian legend, King Mark was violent, treacherous and cowardly by nature. His nephew Sir Tristan, on the other hand, stood for all the virtues of chivalry and was noble, brave and honourable. He also had a poetic soul and was a talented harp player.

King Anguish of Ireland, one of King Arthur’s earlier enemies, was defeated by Arthur in battle and the Irish ruler was forced to accept his supremacy. However, in his later battle with King Mark of Cornwall, King Anguish emerged victorious. When King Mark refused to pay King Anguish seven years back pay for his vassalage, the Irish ruler sent his champion knight Sir Morholt to forcibly extract the payment of tribute.

Sir Tristan and Sir Morholt fought in single combat in a fight to the death. Tristan killed Morholt and a broken piece of his sword remained in the latter’s fatal wound for all to see in the body when it was taken back to Ireland. Tristan too was wounded in the desperate fight. When his wound did not heal, he journeyed to Ireland in disguise so he could be healed by the Irish Princess Isolde, famed for her skill in healing. Isolde was the daughter of King Anguish and Queen Iseult the Elder.

Upon arrival, Tristan discovered that Ireland was being terrorized by a fearsome dragon. A brave and skilled knight, Sir Tristan succeeded in killing the ferocious fire-breathing dragon. In gratitude, Princess Isolde nursed him back to health after the fight. But when she found his broken sword, putting two and two together, she realized that he was the warrior who had killed Morholt, her uncle.

At first she wanted to avenge her uncle’s death, but seeing how grateful her people were to Tristan for killing the dragon that was terrorizing them and destroying their property, Isolde forgave him. Enjoying her company, Tristan lingered on at the Irish court. During his convalescence Tristan played his harp for  Isolde and gave her lessons in the instrument as a pretext to spend more time with her.

On his return to Cornwall, all he could talk about was the Irish princess. Hearing his nephew’s high praises, King Mark decided to marry Isolde himself. Loyal and obedient as a knight is duty bound to his king, Tristan had no choice but to agree to return to Ireland and seek Isolde’s hand in marriage for his uncle the king. Back in Ireland, the matrimonial proposal was accepted as an offering of alliance and Isolde was sent to Cornwall under Tristan’s care.

Tristan and Isolde had already developed feelings for each other but their well-established sense of honour prevented them from expressing themselves freely. To ensure her daughter’s marital happiness, Queen Iseult gave the princess a drink to share with her future husband Mark. It was a magic eternal love potion. During the sea voyage from Ireland to  Cornwall, Isolde and Tristan inadvertently drank the potion, not knowing what it was, and fell deeply in love.

Upon arriving in Cornwall, the royal marriage took place. But the young couple couldn’t help but still love each other. Their passionate love affair continued in secret. Since the noble Arthurian principles didn’t condone adultery, according to the story, the love potion freed Tristan and Iseult from responsibility. Mirroring the dynamics of the Arthur-Guinevere-Lancelot love triangle, Mark-Iseult-Tristan also all loved each other. Tristan honoured, respected, and loved King Mark as his king, mentor and father figure; Isolde owed her husband loyalty, devotion and gratitude (for his kindness to her); and Mark loved his nephew as well as his wife and felt that they were the closest to him.

A series of intrigues, plots and suspense followed. The King’s advisers warned him that Tristan and Isolde were not as innocent as they seemed. But Mark didn’t want to jeopardise the fragile truce between Ireland and Cornwall and endanger his fragile kingdom till he was sure. So King Mark, his advisers and his knights made various attempts to trap the lovers and obtain proof of their guilt.

Every night, each of the three main characters had nightmares about the future. When King Mark finally got his proof positive of the affair, he resolved to punish them as cuckolding a king was grounds for treason. Tristan was sentenced to death by hanging, while  Isolde was to be burnt at the stake. Taking pity on his young and beautiful wife, the king reduced her sentence to being sent to live in a leper colony where she could heal patients.

The dashing blade, Sir Tristan made a daring and exciting escape on his way to the gallows. He made a giant leap from the top of a chapel steeple and rescued Isolde. The lovers managed to escape into the forest of Morrois and took shelter there until they were discovered by Mark’s troops. Left with no choice, Tristan gave up Isolde, and went into exile. The King forgave Isolde.

A depressed and despairing, Tristan left Cornwall by ship for Brittany, sailing across the English Channel. There he met and married  Iseult of the White Hands because she reminded him of his Isolde. His wife was the daughter of King Hoel of Brittany, a late 5th- and early 6th-century member of the ruling dynasty of Cornouaille in northwest Brittany, and a relative and loyal ally of Arthur, who had helped him conquer Gaul (northern France). Her brother was Kahedin, also mentioned in Arthurian legend. Kahedin was also to have a love affair with Brangaine, the handmaiden of Isolde of Ireland.

Tristan did not consummate his marriage to Iseult despite her beauty as he couldn’t bear the thought of betraying his one true love.

Pining, he recklessly endangered his life riding to the aid of Kahedin his brother in arms, fell into ambush and was wounded by a poisoned lance.

There were alternating versions of how Tristan got wounded. In the Prose Tristan and works derived from it, Tristan was mortally wounded by Mark who treacherously stuck him with a poisoned lance while the latter was playing a harp for Isolde before he left for Brittany.   According to Thomas’s poetic version,  Tristan was wounded by a poisoned lance while attempting to rescue a young woman from six knights.

No one could heal Tristan’s festering wound. Much weakened and pale with loss of blood, Tristan sent Kahedin to Cornwall for Isolde as a last resort in hopes that she would be able to cure him. If she agreed to come and was on board, Kahedin would unfurl white sails on his ship, and if she did not agree the sails would be black.

In music

German composer Richard Wagner’s phenomenal opera Tristan und Isolde (1859) by German composer Richard Wagner is considered “a treatise on life rather than a musical experience” and was vastly influential, groundbreaking and revelatory. In 1924, Thomas Hardy collaborated with the British composer Rutland Boughton to adapt Hardy’s play into the opera The Queen of Cornwall (1924).

Upon Kahedin’s voyage back, Iseult, seeing the white sails, got jealous and lied to Tristan, telling him falsely that the sails were black.

Hopeless, Tristan died in misery before Isolde could reach him. Grief stricken, Isolde, swooning over her lover’s corpse, died soon after of a broken heart. Wrenched apart in life, the lovers were reunited in death.

Tristan and Isolde

in Literature

In the second half of the twelfth century, two French speaking Norman poets penned courtly lyrical romances of the popular legend of oral tradition. Thomas of Britain wrote his poem Tristan the earlier part between 11

and 1170 and latter part between 1181 and 1190 in Old French, while the Norman poet wrote his poem also called Tristan, in the Norman French dialect in 1173.

In 1227,  Tristan by Thomas  was translated by Brother Robert at the request of King Haakon Haakonson of Norway who wanted to promote the dominant Angevin-Norman (French)  culture at his court. The Nordic King commissioned the cleric to produce translations of several French Arthurian works into Old Norse, which became very popular.

Another contemporary of Béroul and Thomas, the famous French poetess Marie de France, who lived at the Medieval Norman court of Henry II, wrote a Tristan episode called Chevrefoil in one of her lais (lyrical, narrative poetry) that told the story of Tristan’s clandestine return to Cornwall in which he signaled his presence to his lady love through an inscription on a hazelnut tree branch placed on the road she would travel. The intertwined honeysuckle and hazelnut tree dies when separated, as did the two lovers. Marie’s lais were so widely read that they influenced the subsequent development of the whole romance and heroic literature genre.

Two 12th century poems in the Folies Tristan in Old French related Tristan’s return to Marc’s court disguised as a madman.  But the most important development in French Tristaniana was the Prose Tristan of the 13th and 14th century, shortly after the completion of the Vulgate Cycle (Lancelot-Grail Cycle) in the first quarter of the 13th century.

The twelve volumes long Prose Tristan included the episode of Tristan’s participation in the Quest for the Holy Grail. This had a great influence on later medieval literature, and tied the legend of Tristan and Isolde securely into Arthurian legend.

An abridged translation of the French Prose Tristan in English was Sir Thomas Malory’s The Book of Sir Tristram de Lyones, in Le Morte d’Arthur  (circa 1469), which became a basis for all subsequent retellings of King Arthur and his Knights of the Round Table stories.

In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, a renaissance or revival of Arthurian literature, mostly written in narrative verse occurred, which included the following: Lord Alfred Tennyson’s poem The Last Tournament from Idylls of the King. The poem, set in Camelot, presented an the account of a tournament with the characters of King Arthur, his fool Dragonet and Sir Tristan. Matthew Arnold’s narrative poem Tristram and Iseult was based on romantic and tragic themes. Algernon Charles Swinburne’s long epic poem Tristram of Lyonesse retold the story in a grand style. Thomas Hardy’s one-act play The Famous Tragedy of the Queen of Cornwall at Tintagel in Lyonnesse was published posthumously in 1923. Even all the way in America, poet Edward Arlington Robinson based his Pulitzer Prize winning poem Tristram on the legend.

French writer and scholar and historian of medieval France, Joseph Bédier in his edition  The Romance of Tristan and Iseult (1900) used several medieval sources to weave seamlessly a retelling of the story eloquently and with dignity. The story of the tragic lovers was also referenced in avant garde Irish writer James Joyce’s literary novel Finnegans Wake (1935).

Reunion In Death Tristan And Isolde (1881) By August Spiess
Reunion In Death Tristan And Isolde (1881) By August Spiess

Best-selling novelist Daphne du Maurier, who is from Fowey in Cornwall, finished Cornish writer Arthur Thomas Quiller-Couch’s Castle Dor (1962), set in modern times but based on the original story. Prolific British author Rosalind Miles wrote a trilogy about Tristan and Isolde: The Maid of the White Hands, The Queen of the Western Isle, and The Lady of the Sea. Bengali author Sunil Gangopadhyay also based his novel Sonali Dukkho on the story.

There are many other retellings of the story written by authors in recent times.

In film

Not one, but three French silent films from the early 20th century were based on the story. A controversial Tristan film L’Éternel Retour or The Eternal Return (1943), directed by Jean Delannoy and screenplay written by Jean Cocteau, made in France during the Vichy regime, reflected Nazi ideology. Renowned French director François Truffaut adapted it to modern times in his film La Femme d’à côté or The Woman Next Door (1981). In the Shadow of the Raven (1988) was set in Viking Age Iceland. There is even an animated film version  the Tristan et Iseult (2002).

Bollywood director Subhash Ghai set the story in modern India and the United States in his musical big budget movie Pardes (1997), starring Shahrukh Khan, Mahima Chaudhary and Amrish Puri, which had the hit song I Love My India.

The most recent Tristan film was Tony Scott and Ridley Scott’s Tristan & Isolde (2006) starring James Franco and Sophia Myles.

Tristan & Isolde (c. 1845) By Rogello Egusquiza

The Tristan Stone

A Cornish granite menhir (long stone) called the The Tristan Stone still stands tall at 2.7 m and proud near the site of Castle Dor, in Fowey, Cornwall. The stone has a mid-6th century two line inscription “Here lies Drustanus, the son of Cunomorus.” A now missing third line was transcribed by the 16th century antiquarian John Leland as reading “with the lady Ousilla.” The menhir marks the story of their eternal love for times to come.

Heavenly Bodies: Fashion and the Catholic Imagination

By Mahlia lone

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NEW YORK, NY – MAY 07: Met Gala co-host Amal Clooney and George Clooney attend the Heavenly Bodies: Fashion & The Catholic Imagination Costume Institute Gala at The Metropolitan Museum of Art on May 7, 2018 in New York City. (Photo by Frazer Harrison/FilmMagic)

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Queens

Princesses

Vatican Yellow

Scarlet Cardinal

Gothic Halo

Hoods

Veils

Papal Gold

Artsy

Crosses

 

Armour

Coupling

Jesus Christ Superstar

holy orders

Mohsin Abbas’s Coke Studio debut single Uddi Ja made him an overnight sensation. Next, he made his mark on both the small and big screen with his work in projects, like Lashkara, Ishq for Sale, BNN, Na Maalom Afraad, etc. and the on-going talk show Mazaaq Raat. Nominated for his work in Na Maalom Afraad 1 & 2, the actor/singer/TV host has won many hearts with his killer physique and equally killer voice. Sana Zehra sits down for a heart to heart with Mohsin

How many relationships were you in before you got married? How has that affected your marriage?

(Laughs) Luckily my wife knows everything. I was in two relationships before I got married. I’ve learned it’s best to focus on myself and my career. Yes, if you hit it off with someone then that may be destiny at play but otherwise refrain from purposely seeking a relationship out just for the sake of being in one.

You have stated that you are a very dark person in person. What does that mean?

I was brought up in a house with two older sisters but I remember playing alone. My mother always used to tell me that I have an old soul. My darkness comes out in my poetry and the songs I write for various movies.

It’s funny how I always end up doing projects that have a comedic element, for example BNN, Na Maloom Afraad and now Mazaaq Raat. But The theatre actor in me comes out in serious projects like those I’ve recently taken up, such as Lashkaara and Muqaabil.

Actor Nabeel who is a really good friend of mine says that I write sad songs way more than I should. However, for my new movie, I’ve written some really fun songs.

I do have both sides but my dark side is more dominant. When people meet me for the first time they say you are so funny on screen but in reality you seem so quiet. I don’t know how to meet and greet them. Should I be rapping? (Laughs). I guess people expect me to be funny but get disappointed when they meet me.

What’s the worst experience you had while hosting your show?

This lady was supposed to be on the set but she hadn’t arrived. Ayub Khawar who heads our production was extremely upset as we had all been waiting. The show was cancelled and most of the people had left. Finally, Ayub Khawar was told that the lady had shown up and was waiting in the makeup room. She started crying and told us she had been stuck in traffic and the designer hadn’t given her the outfits on time. She then asked for a 3 kg. cooked fish to be ordered, which she took home. (Laughs)

Ok Mohsin, we really need to know now who it was!

I will mimic her, “Rahnaaay day naaa. Puhleeeze atsss vary baaad”.

Ok we got it!

Love in three words…

Mahween Abbas Haider. When I held my daughter for the first time that is the only time I felt real love. (Mahween tragically passed away when she was a month old.)

Any social issue you deeply care about?

Yes. I really feel that sexual harassment and rape must end now. Our children should be safe. I feel these men must be hanged and our army and institutions must do something.

If you were to be made Pakistan’s Central Board of Film Censors chairman, what changes will you make?

I abhor crass jokes made at the expense of women. I don’t like the fact that women always are at the center of such cheap jokes. Our wives, sisters and mothers are to be respected at all times regardless of age, body shape and background.

Do you believe in a soulmate?

(Long pause) I feel like we all have different ideas about soulmates. I believe a soulmate is one who understands your gestures, your body language, etc. In all honesty, who can be a better soulmate than your own mother? She understands you better than anyone. In terms of a life partner, there are very rare combos, one who understands your struggles and meets your needs before they even arise. Please do not conclude from this that I am talking about my wife. My wife and I agree on a lot of things and we disagree on a lot of things. And that’s the beauty of our relationship. We are two completely different people, which makes our marriage more interesting. But I won’t call it a soulmate scenario. It’s hard to find someone who is an exact match of exactly what you need.

Which Bollywood and or Hollywood actors you can most relate yourself to?

Jim Carey and Will Smith from Hollywood and Shahrukh Khan from Bollywood. Jim and Will did quite a few comedic roles in the beginning and then they branched out. I used to read a lot about how these actors achieved their success during my own struggling period.

Tell us something we don’t know about you.

I suffered from depression after I lost my mother and daughter.

Which misconception about you do want to correct?

I do not take steroids please! I also don’t hang out, drink, party or smoke.

Crazy fan moment?

Let’s make it psycho fan moment. A lady from Columbia claimed she wanted to work with me on a project. She got a hold of my manager’s number and was adamant that she needed to talk personally with me to explain it better. Then, she started calling at all odd hours.

One day my wife picked up my phone and gave her a piece of her mind. She got all flustered and said, “Mohsin is like my brother.” (Laughs)

I kept blocking her number but she kept calling me from different numbers. Finally, I switched my number. Again she got my number, I don’t know from where, and started calling and harassing me.

My request to everyone is that to please respect others privacy. We have a personal life as well and are not our onscreen persona in real life.

If there was a super hero movie to be shot and made in Pakistan who should star in it?

Anyone can be Batman but I must play the Joker. Fawad Khan should be cast as Superman for sure.

During recording what is one thing that you must have?

My lip balm. I have lots of different kinds of lip balms.

Go-to comfort food?

I’m such a foodie; I love food. Genetically, I’ve always been skinny but have always worked out. Currently, I’m on a diet and have stopped eating any refined carbs. Right now my favourite food has to be daal roti, black chickpea pulao, and our good ole fashioned curry. But my all-time favourite food has to be pizza and okra.

Any messages for upcoming new talent?

Stay focused and work with all your might and dedication. I’ve seen quite a few newcomers nowadays come on set and the first thing they ask is when they can leave. My suggestion is that the parties can wait. Focus on your work and success will follow.

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By Mahlia Lone

The song Remember is the gist of John Winston Lennon’s childhood. He was born in 1940, at a time when World War II raged on in full force, to an Irish merchant seaman named Alfred who was away at sea for his duties much of the time, including at the birth of his son to his Liverpudlian wife Julia. Both of John’s parents were naturally musical though none of them took it up as a profession. Alf supported his wife and child by regularly sending them his steward’s salary while Julia lived at her father’s house. Things went awry when Alf deserted his post towards the end of the war and became absent without leave for six months.

“Just remember when you were small

How people seemed so tall

Always had their way

Do you remember, your ma and pa

Just wishing for movie stardom

Always, always playing a part

If you ever feel so sad

And the whole world is driving you mad

Remember, remember today”

—John Lennon

John Lennon As A Child

Lennon’s high school reports stated bleakly: “Certainly on the road to failure … hopeless … rather a clown in class … wasting other pupils’ time”

Giving up on him, Julia started to have an affair with a Welsh soldier and got pregnant by him. Her childless older sister Mimi repeatedly complained to Social Services about Julia “living in sin” and she and her dairyman husband George Smith were awarded custody of John. When Alf got back home, he offered to take his wife Julia back but she refused.  She gave up her baby girl for adoption and took up with John Bobby Dykins. The Lennons never divorced and Julia became Bobby’s common law wife, having two daughters with him. Meanwhile, Alf tried to whisk off five year old John to New Zealand but Julia and Bobby followed them to Blackpool.  The Lennons fought over their little boy and Alf asked his son to choose between his father and mother. Conflicted John chose his father twice, but also started crying when his mother walked away and started to follow her. Imagine the little boy’s anguish!

Singer, songwriter and musician John Lennon of the Beatles as a child, with his mother Julia Lennon (1914 – 1958), 1949. To date, this is the only known photograph of John with his mother. It was taken by John’s cousin, Stanley Parkes. (Photo by Mark and Colleen Hayward/Getty Images)

According to Mark Lewisohn, one of the world’s leading authorities on the Beatles, who has penned many books on the band, Alf decided to leave John with Julia and took himself off. Father and son were not to meet again for 20 years. But it was Aunty Mimi and Uncle George who took John in when Julia handed him over to them after only a few weeks. The poor little boy ended up blaming himself saying later, “My mother … couldn’t cope with me.”

The strict childless couple was kind to John, and Mimi was determined to give him a “proper upbringing.” John attended Dovedale Primary School and then Quarry Bank High School (renamed Calderstones School) and was described by his cousin Leila Harvey as a “happy-go-lucky, good-humoured, easy going, lively lad.” His aunt would buy him books of short stories, while his uncle got him a mouth organ and solved crossword puzzles with him. Both instilled the love of words and storytelling in him, which would later help him in his songwriting. Herself musical, Julia taught her son to play the banjo, ukulele and piano accordion. Because Mimi didn’t allow records in her house, so 11 year old John would go over to his mother’s house where they would listen to Elvis Presley records together. Naturally creative and with a sense of humour, he also drew cartoons for his magazine The Daily Howl. However, his school reports stated bleakly: “Certainly on the road to failure … hopeless … rather a clown in class … wasting other pupils’ time.”

Insecure, being a child of a broken home, John would become violently jealousy, slapping, hitting and pushing Cynthia around

At 15, John got into skiffle music (a genre combing jazz, blues and folk music linking it to American popular music). After being pestered by son, Julia bought him his first guitar, an inexpensive Gallotone Champion acoustic on the condition that he keep it in her house, knowing well that her sister would disapprove. When John bragged that he would one day become a famous musician, Aunt Mimi would reply: “The guitar’s all very well, John, but you’ll never make a living out of it.”

The determined teenager formed his own skiffle band called the Quarrymen, named after his high school. By the summer of 1957, the Quarrymen were playing gigs singing “a spirited set of songs” made up of half skiffle and half rock and roll.” John met Paul McCartney at the Quarrymen’s second performance at a Church garden fête and asked the younger lad to join the band.

Tragedy struck the following year when Julia was killed when a car hit her while she was walking home after visiting John. Devastated by the loss of his mother, John failed all his O-level examinations.

Harrison, McCartney, Lennon & Pete Best As The Drummer

Looking back in 1980 John observed about his family life and his rebelliousness: “Part of me would like to be accepted by all facets of society and not be this loudmouthed lunatic poet/musician. But I cannot be what I am not … I was the one who all the other boys’ parents—including Paul’s father—would say, ‘Keep away from him’… The parents instinctively recognised I was a troublemaker, meaning I did not conform and I would influence their children, which I did. I did my best to disrupt every friend’s home … Partly out of envy that I didn’t have this so-called home … but I did… There were five women that were my family. Five strong, intelligent, beautiful women, five sisters. One happened to be my mother. (She) just couldn’t deal with life. She was the youngest and she had a husband who ran away to sea and the war was on and she couldn’t cope with me, and I ended up living with her elder sister. Now those women were fantastic … And that was my first feminist education … I would infiltrate the other boys’ minds. I could say, “Parents are not gods because I don’t live with mine and, therefore, I know.’”

McCartney later said bemused that Aunt Mimi “was very aware that John’s friends were lower class”, and would patronise him when he visited John at home. According to Paul’s brother Mike, their father was also disapproving, predicting that John would get his son “into trouble,” although he later allowed the fledgling band to rehearse in the McCartney family home. During this time, 18-year-old Lennon wrote his first song, Hello Little Girl that was to become UK top 10 hit five years later.

Meanwhile, his aunt’s and headmaster’s intervention stating his case led` to his acceptance to the Liverpool College of Art. He joined the popular youth culture of the 50s, wearing Teddy Boy clothes (tight trousers, long jackets, fancy waistcoats and suede loafers) partly inspired by the styles worn by dandies in the Edwardian period, and became a disruptive influence in the class, often ridiculing teachers. After a college party to celebrate the end of a term, John asked “Cyn” as he called her to “go out” with him. She replied that she was already engaged. Nonplussed, he deadpanned, “I didn’t ask you to marry me, did I?” They went to Ye Cracke pub for their first date.

Insecure, being a child of a broken home, John would become violently jealousy, slapping, hitting and pushing her around. They would break up then get back together. John said later, “I was in sort of a blind rage for two years. I was either drunk or fighting. It had been the same with other girlfriends I’d had. There was something the matter with me.”

John’s friend Tony Bramwell recalled, “Cynthia was beautiful, physically, and on the inside. Although she knew he was apt to find love on the road, she was totally dedicated to his success… and extremely influential. He was insecure and Cynthia was there to pump him up and to buttress, his weak side.”

Mandatory Credit: Photo by Stilling/Evening News/REX (889633a)

With His Son Julian, 1963McCartney recommended that his friend 14 year old George Harrison  become the lead guitarist with his audition taking place rock ‘n roll style on the upper deck of a Liverpool bus. Though Lennon thought Harrison was way too young, he was impressed enough with his guitar playing skills to induct him into the group. Stuart Sutcliffe, Lennon’s friend from art school, joined as bassist. The four became The Beatles in early 1960 and by August they were engaged for a 48-night residency in Hamburg, Germany. Quickly taking on Pete Best as drummer, the band left for Germany much to conservative Aunt Mimi’s horror.

The Beatles ended up accepting three Hamburg residencies over the next couple of years. To keep up their energy during their long, overnight performances playing at clubs, the group started taking the amphetamine Preludin. Meanwhile, Cyn also failed to get her diploma; she rented Lennon’s old room in the Smith house, supported herself by working at a Woolworths store and waited patiently for her boyfriend’s return from Germany. Lennon loved writing many passionate letters to her and on one trip home brought her a suede coat. Aunt Mimi threw a hand-mirror at him for spending so much money on that “gangster’s moll,” perhaps disappointed that her adopted son didn’t bring the expensive gift for her.

The band returned to England minus Sutcliffe who decided to stay behind in Germany to study and live with his fiancée. He was replaced by McCartney on bass and Best was replaced by Ringo Starr on the drums. This was the Beatles lineup we know and love.

In a 1987 interview, McCartney said that the other Beatles idolised John: “He was like our own little Elvis … We all looked up to John. He was older and he was very much the leader; he was the quickest wit and the smartest.”

The upcoming band’s fortunes changed when one day in end ‘61, local record store owner and music columnist, Brian Epstein caught their lunch time performance at The Cavern Club, an underground jazz and rock ‘n roll nightclub in Liverpool.  Epstein said, “I immediately liked what I heard. They were fresh, and they were honest, and they had what I thought was a sort of presence … a star quality.” However, he felt, “They were a scruffy crowd in leather and jeans, and they were not very tidy and not very clean. They smoked as they played and they ate and talked and pretended to hit each other.”

The Beatles Invade America

Yoko Ono belonged to a noble Japanese family, one of the wealthiest in the country. She was class mates with  Prince Akihito, the future Emperor of Japan. But they lost their fortune and begged for food after the Tokyo bombings

Though Epstein had no prior experience of artist management, he had a vision for the band. The Beatles in their turn were impressed that Epstein had the inherent Jewish business savvy, wore expensive suits, and owned a large car. They soon sign with him as their manager though McCartney, Harrison, and Best all under 21, needed the signed consent of their parents first. Epstein had them clean up their act by putting on sharp suits and ties, insisted that they stop swearing, smoking, drinking, or eating on stage, and had them bow at the end of their performances.

Epstein described the process of their style evolution, “I encouraged them, at first, to get out of the leather jackets and jeans, and I wouldn’t allow them to appear in jeans after a short time, and then, after that step, I got them to wear sweaters on stage, and then, very reluctantly, eventually, suits.” Epstein found a suit design he thought would work on the young band mates, “I thought it was an excellent design at the time.”

McCartney was the first to agree with Epstein’s suggestions thinking that they reflected his RADA (Royal Academy of Dramatic Art) training and believing that the changes made the group look more professional. He said, “We all went quite happily over the water to Wirral, to Beno Dorn, a little tailor who made mohair suits. That started to change the image.”

Lennon initially resisted wearing suits and ties, but then gave in saying, “I’ll wear a suit; I’ll wear a bloody balloon if somebody’s going to pay me.”

Master Dorn was awarded two Provincial Shields, awarded for excellence in the art of tailoring, due to his fine work for the Beatles. His sharp tailoring became a part of their image.

Cyn told John she was pregnant. “There’s only one thing for it Cyn, we’ll have to get married,” he replied prosaically. He was 21, she was 22. The Lennons were married in the summer of ‘62 at a Marriage Registery office with McCartney and Harrison in attendance. Epstein was the best man and none of the  parents were invited. It was a simple ceremony and very hush hush with no photographs or flowers as Epstein wanted Lennon to appear to be single for the benefit of his growing legion of female fans. The wedding was celebrated afterwards in the same restaurant where John’s parents had celebrated their marriage in 1938—thoughtful Epstein had taken care of it all.  The newlyweds had no honeymoon, as Lennon had to play a gig the same night. During her pregnancy, Epstein lent his flat for the couple to live in. On one occasion, when news of the wedding leaked out, the group denied it pointblank. Cynthia was content to keep a low profile, and let her husband bask in the spotlight, loath to endanger his fledgling career.

On The Ed Sullivan Show

The band’s first single, Love Me Do was released at this time. Their debut album Please Please Me, was recorded in less than 10 hours. Lennon recalled how effortless it was, “We were just writing songs … pop songs with no more thought of them than that—to create a sound. And the words were almost irrelevant.” By early next year, Beatlemania had started with the band’s mainstream success in the U.K. They were the boy band pop sensation not only of their time but of all time.

Lennon was on tour when his first son, John Charles Julian Lennon, was born. The baby boy had been named after John’s deceased mother Julia.  John did not see his son until three days later, remarking, “He’s bloody marvelous, Cyn! … Who’s gonna be a famous rocker like his Dad then?”

Yoko was briefly admitted to a Japanese mental institution after her first marriage collapsed. She was suffering from acute depression

Now comes a twist, according to biographer Philip Norman, the homosexual Epstein was physically attracted to Lennon from the beginning. Right after Julian was born, Lennon inexplicably left for a long weekend holiday to Barcelona alone with Epstein. It led to speculation about their relationship. Lennon admitted, “Well, it was almost a love affair, but not quite. It was never consummated. But it was a pretty intense relationship. It was my first experience with a homosexual that I was conscious was homosexual. We used to sit in a café in Torremolinos looking at all the boys and I’d say, ‘Do you like that one? Do you like this one?’ I was rather enjoying the experience, thinking like a writer all the time: I am experiencing this.” But his old anger, insecurity and violent streak returned when at McCartney’s twenty-first birthday party in ’63, Lennon physically attacked Cavern Club Master of ceremonies Bob Wooler for asking slyly “How was your honeymoon, John?”

“He called me a queer so I battered his bloody ribs in,” Lennon justified.

At the end of ’63, the Beatles were invited to the Prince of Wales Theatre in London for the Royal Command Performance in the presence of the Queen Mother, Princess Margaret and Lord Snowdon. (Queen Elizabeth was heavily pregnant with her youngest Prince Edward at the time.) Reporters looking for a story goaded the band mates that they had sold out their young fans by choosing to play at such an “establishment” event. They even asked cheekily if they would lose their Liverpool accents that evening. “No, we don’t all speak like BBC,” McCartney volleyed back. The Beatles were greeted by countless screaming fans, while the royals were greeted decorously and the other celebrities were virtually ignored.

Lennon recalled his feelings, “I was fantastically nervous but I wanted to say something to rebel a bit.” So he deadpanned, “For our next song, I’d like to ask for your help. For the people in the cheaper seats, clap your hands … and the rest of you, if you’ll just rattle your jewellery. We’d like to sing a song called Twist And Shout.

Touché! Lennon with his wit managed to mollify his young, working class fans by poking fun at the royals and aristocrats in the audience who took it in the light vein it was intended. The next day the newspapers were plastered with this headline.

The Beatles’ appearance was a triumph. But they declined all subsequent invitations to reappear on the show. Lennon explained why in his 1970 Anthology: “We managed to refuse all sorts of things that people don’t know about. We did the Royal Variety Show, and we were asked discreetly to do it every year after that, but we always said, ‘Stuff it.’ So every year there was a story in the newspapers: ‘Why no Beatles for the Queen?’ which was pretty funny, because they didn’t know we’d refused. That show’s a bad gig, anyway. Everybody’s very nervous and uptight and nobody performs well.”

The “lost

weekend”

Their next triumph came across the pond. After a year of Beatlemania in the UK, the group made their  US debut appearance on The Ed Sullivan Show in ’64.  The band’s mega stardom reached the stratosphere. For the next two years, the Beatles incessantly toured, made movies and wrote songs for their upcoming albums. Lennon also managed to write two books: In His Own Write and A Spaniard in the Works that had his cartoons in it. In ‘65 The Beatles were appointed Members of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) in the 1965 Queen’s Birthday Honours for their achievements and for being ambassadors for British culture.

The same year they were honoured, they were also introduced to LSD. A dentist hosting a dinner party attended by Lennon and Harrison accompanied by their wives secretly spiked the guests’ coffee with the drug. When they wanted to leave, their host confessed to what he had done and told them they’d better stay put till the effect wore off. Later that night, in an elevator at a nightclub, they all believed it was on fire: “We were all screaming … hot and hysterical,” Lennon recalled. This was the beginning of their LSD addiction. Lennon spent 1967 almost constantly under its influence.  As his dependence on the drug increased, he drifted further and further away from Cynthia.

One incident that occurred at this time during an interview with Evening Standard reporter Maureen Cleave was to seal his fate. Lennon told her offhand, “Christianity will go. It will vanish and shrink … We’re more popular than Jesus now—I don’t know which will go first, rock and roll or Christianity.” Their Brit fans didn’t bat an eyelid at the comment, but Americans in the super conservative Bible Belt and Deep South are a different breed.  Pandemonium broke out over there with the Ku Klux Klan organising mass burning of Beatles records, and posting death threats against Lennon. Things got so bad that for a while, the Beatles suspended all Stateside tour plans.

Lennon had resumed songwriting prior to his assassination

With his cutting wit, Lennon regularly mocked Epstein calling him a “Queer Jew!” When he heard that Epstein was naming his autobiography, A Cellarful of Noise, Lennon cracked, “More like A Cellarful of Boys.” During the recording of “Baby, You’re a Rich Man (1967), he sang “Baby, you’re a rich fag Jew” just to upset Epstein. None of the other Beatles were as aggressive against their manager who had succeeded in bringing them the promised riches. Was Lennon homophobic perhaps? But then why did he go away on holiday alone with Epstein?

One day, John Lennon met the Japanese-American conceptual artist Yoko Ono, seven years his senior.

Yoko (Ocean Child) was born in Tokyo to wealthy banker Isoko and Eisuke, formerly a classical pianist. Eisuke came from a long line of samurai warrior-scholars and was the daughter of Yasuda Zenjiro who owned the country’s largest financial conglomerate in Japan till it was dissolved at the end of World War II. Belonging to such an upper class family, Yoko was enrolled at Tokyo’s elite Gakushuin (Peers School) founded in 1847 by Emperor Nink? in Kyoto to educate the children of the Imperial nobility and led a blessed life.

Ono was controlling and interfering, and caused friction between the band mates

But following the devastating Tokyo bombings that brought Japan to its knees, even the rich couldn’t stave off starvation. The Ono family too scrounged for food while pushing a wheelchair laden with what was left of their worldly belongings. Ono said this period in her life gave her her “aggressive” attitude.   Her mother managed to bring some of their possessions with them to the countryside,where they were bartered for food, for example Eisuke wisely traded her German-made sewing machine for 60 kilograms of rice with which to feed the family. Isoko had been in Hanoi all this time and was now believed to be a prisoner of war in China. Yoko said in an interview, “He was in French Indochina, which is Vietnam actually…. in Saigon. He was in a concentration camp.”

By April 1946, conditions in the country started slowly improving. The family moved back to Tokyo. Yoko’s school Gakushuin located near the Tokyo Imperial Palace had miraculously remained unscathed and had reopened and she re-enrolled there. Ono became the classmate of Prince Akihito, the future Emperor of Japan, and they graduated in 1951. Yoko was the first woman to enroll into the philosophy program of Gakushuin University but she didn’t graduate from there as she joined her family in the U.S.

Lennon, a hand-on dad, was on his way home from the recording studio when he was shot

After the war ended in 1945, Ono’s family had immigrated to the U.S.  and settled in the affluent town of Scarsdale, New York, half an hour from the City. Ono transferred to Sarah Lawrence College to be with her parents, but she had been living away from them for nine years and had become independent of thought and lifestyle. Ono liked the Bohemian life, meeting artists, poets, and other freethinkers, much to her parent’s shock and disapproval. Inspired by visits to art galleries and seeing avant garde artistes put up installations and do performance art, she dropped out of college, set up a performance art studio in Tribeca, NYC and eloped with Japanese avant garde composer Toshi Ichiyanagi in 1956.  The same age as her, Toshi was the experimental fusion music star in Japan, combing Western instruments with those of his country.  But the marriage was a mistake and, after living apart for several years, they filed for divorce in 1962.

Suffering from acute depression, Ono returned home to live with her parents and was briefly admitted to a mental institution in Japan. Upon her return Stateside, the impulsive young woman married Anthony Cox, an American jazz musician, film producer, and art promoter and they had a daughter Kyoko Chan Cox. Yoko left their daughter in Anthony’s full time care while she pursued her art career single-mindedly. Not surprisingly, the marriage disintegrated but the couple stayed together for the sake of their joint careers as conceptual artists, while Cox also managed Yoko’s publicity.

To cut a long story short, according to Lennon and Ono, in 1966, he went to the Indica Gallery in London, where she was putting up her conceptual art exhibit. They were introduced by gallery owner John Dunbar. Ono’s Hammer A Nail exhibit called from viewers to hammer a nail into a wooden board.  The exhibition had not yet begun, but Lennon wanted to hammer a nail in. When Ono stopped him, Dunbar said to her in disbelief, “Don’t you know who this is? He’s a millionaire! He might buy it.” Ono had supposedly not heard of the Beatles, but said he could if he paid her five shillings. Lennon replied, “I’ll give you an imaginary five shillings and hammer an imaginary nail in.”

Chapman was a born-again Christian who believed Lennon had committed blasphemy

According to McCartney, the year before Ono had been in London compiling original musical scores for John Cage’s book Notations. She asked McCartney first to give her his own manuscripts for the book but he declined and suggesting that Lennon might oblige. When she approached him, he readily gave her the original handwritten lyrics to “The Word.”

Perhaps as the first made a better story as well as promoted Ono’s art, the couple agreed to put out their own version of their first meeting to make better copy.

Julian

In a 2002 interview, Ono admitted, “I was very attracted to him. It was a really strange situation.”

In ’66, the Beatles lost their manager Norman Epstein to a lethal combination of sleeping pills and alcohol.  He died in his bed wearing his pajamas and was discovered by his butler. The rock ‘n roll lifestyle had caught up with him. The Beatles were meditating with the Indian guru, Maharishi Mahesh Yogi in the countryside, in Bagnor, Berkshire. Things would never be the same for the band again. Epstein had seemingly effortlessly managed to turn the promising band into one of the biggest acts of the day and left them free to focus on their creative output while he dealt with the business end. He also advised them in their personal lives and provided the balance for their ego-driven rock star personalities. The band mates had no idea how quickly they would drift apart without him.

Meanwhile, Ono was aggressively pursuing her wealthy and world famous would be patron—Lennon. She sent him a slew of letters asking Lennon to sponsor her art show. He too enjoyed corresponding, earlier writing long letters to Cynthia. She even started calling his house. Suspicious, Cyn asked her husband for an explanation but he dismissed it saying she was an artist asking money for her “avant-garde bullshit.” In ‘67, Ono convinced him to sponsor her solo show at Lisson Gallery in London.  Till the spring of 1968, the two remained platonic. When the Beatles made their meditation ashram trip to India, Lennon wrote the song Julia that had the lyrics, “Ocean child calls me.”

Julian Was Named After John’s Later Mother Julia
The Queen Mother Greeting The Beatles At The Royal Variety Command Performance In Nov, ’63

While his wife was on holiday in Greece that summer, Lennon invited Ono over to his Kenwood home one night to record the Two Virgins album after which he said, they “made love at dawn.” When Lennon’s wife returned home she found Ono wearing her bathrobe and drinking tea with Lennon. He looked nonchalantly at Cyn and said, “Oh, hi.” Cynthia walked out of the house to stay with friends. To exact revenge and to apply salve on her bruised ego, Cynthia slept with Alexis Mardas, the Greek electronics engineer who worked with the band.

When Lennon found out, he asked for a divorce on the grounds that she had committed adultery, a clear case of the pot calling the kettle black. He also wanted custody of Julian, even though he didn’t feel especially close to him. Ono had become pregnant and he wanted to be with her. After negotiations, Lennon capitulated and agreed to let Julia divorce him on the same grounds. The case was settled out of court by the end of the year soon after Ono suffered a miscarriage losing her male baby. Lennon was directed by the judge to give Cynthia a lump sum of £100,000, a small annual payment and custody of Julian.

Lennon said that at the time of Julian’s birth, which was unplanned, he was very young and focused on his career. He was never actively involved in bringing up Julian who felt closer to McCartney than to his own father. On a car journey to visit Cynthia and Julian during Lennon’s divorce, McCartney composed the song, Hey Jules, to comfort him that became the Beatles song Hey Jude. Lennon commented, “That’s his (McCartney’s) best song. It started off as a song about my son Julian … he turned it into Hey Jude.” Lennon too wrote the songs, Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds and Good Night for Julian so he did have feelings for his son.

Without Epstein to keep them together, the band mates started pursuing interests independently of each other. Lennon appeared in the anti-war, black comedy How I Won the War (1967). McCartney took it upon himself to give the band mates a point of focus while coming to terms with Epstein’s untimely death so he made himself in charge of their television special, Magical Mystery Tour . The Beatles immersed themselves in making this psychedelic TV film, which did better with American rather than British audiences.

With Epstein no longer around to take care of the business end, the band members took it upon themselves to handle their financial matters.  With that in mind in ‘68 they formed Apple Corps, a multimedia corporation. Lennon described it as “artistic freedom within a business structure.” But they were inexperienced in business matters and the company was soon plagued by problems and sorely in need of professional management. A young receptionist at the company May Pang became Lennon and Ono’s personal assistant.

Lennon spent more and more time with Ono and less with the other Beatles. Knowing that their wedding in 1969 would become a huge global press event, John and Yoko decided to use the publicity to promote world peace. A week long bed-in served as their honeymoon. The couple essentially remained in bed wearing their pajamas and invited the press to the Presidential Suite (Room 702) at the Amsterdam Hilton Hotel every day between 9 a.m. and 9 p.m.  Signs reading “Hair Peace” and “Bed Peace” were pasted above their headboard. The novel event garnered headlines the world over and they repeated their bed-in in Montreal. John stated to the press, “It’s part of our policy not to be taken seriously. Our opposition, whoever they may be, in all manifest forms, doesn’t know how to handle humour. You know, and we are humorous, we are, what are they, Laurel and Hardy. That’s John and Yoko, and we stand a better chance under that guise, because all the serious people, like Martin Luther King, and Kennedy, and Gandhi, got shot.” How prophetic!

But what the world did not find humorous was the breakup of the Beatles, for which they blamed Ono. She maintained that the Beatles broke up themselves without any direct involvement from her and said, “I don’t think I could have tried even to break them up.”

When the group recorded Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band in ‘66, there was still a fraternal spirit between them and they wanted to collaborate together as musicians. It was after that trouble started. The break-up of the Beatles was a not due to a single event or factor but a cumulative process throughout the period 1968 to 1970.

Some of the factors leading to the breakup were the cessation of touring in 1966, the death of Epstein and differences in artistic vision with each of the member pursuing his own musical tastes. McCartney was more into pop, Harrison was interested in Indian music, and Lennon’s compositions became more introspective and experiential. To make matters worse, unlike the other wives, Yoko did not leave John’s side for a minute, they were always together even when he was working with the rest of the band in the studio. The band mates had made a tacit agreement not to let the women in their lives into their inner sanctum, their studio. Not only that, but Lennon insisted that she should also have a say and input into the band’s recordings. She would make her opinion known without being asked. Harrison especially found her presence and interference increasingly irritating. After all they had achieved their massive success without her help. Harrison was evolving fast as an artist and wanted more space to write songs and sing lead vocals, but Lennon and McCartney dominated the band.

Disregarding the friction she was causing, Ono became so controlling that when she and Lennon were injured in a car accident in the summer of ‘69, partway through recording Abbey Road, and she was laid up in bed, she had a microphone installed in the studio so she could make artistic comments about the album during their recordings.

Journalist Barry Miles wrote that Ono’s continual presence in the studio put a considerable strain on Lennon’s relationship with the other band members. Harrison was so fed up that when she took one of his chocolate digestive biscuits without asking that he exploded and told her off in a rage. As all these stories leaked to the press, she was called “the woman who broke up the Beatles” and became extremely unpopular with fans.

Ono influenced Lennon to produce more “autobiographical” output and, after recording Beatles single, The Ballad of John and Yoko they formed their own band, the Plastic Ono Band. They came out with their first album Live Peace in Toronto 1969, which was recorded during the Toronto Rock and Roll Revival festival and for which guitarist Eric Clapton, bass player Klaus Voormann, and drummer Alan White collaborated with them. After the rock first half, Ono performed an avant-garde set screaming on the microphone. Lennon’s heroin use inspired him to record the song Cold Turkey with the Plastic Ono Band. The Beatles had rejected the song for release as a single even though all the band mates had their own personal drug issues.

His fans greeting his independent musical output with ready enthusiasm greatly cemented Lennon’s decision to quit the Beatles in ‘69 on the flight back to London from Toronto after playing at the Rock and Roll Festival. Back in England, at the next band meeting at Apple, he informed McCartney and Starr of his decision (Harrison was not present at the meeting). He said he wanted a “divorce.” But that day the band also signed a lucrative renegotiated recording contract with Capitol Records, guaranteeing them a higher royalty rate, so Lennon was asked to keep his decision private until the release of the Beatles’ Let It Be album and film the following year. Since it was a mutually beneficial contract that they had negotiated together, and the band mates still trusted each other, they kept this crucial information to themselves.

By 1970, knowing which way the wind was blowing, all four band members had begun working on solo projects. At the end of the year, McCartney filed a lawsuit against the other three Beatles Let It Be album and film the following year. Since it was a mutually beneficial contract that they had negotiated together, and the band mates still trusted each other, they kept this crucial information to themselves.

By 1970, knowing which way the wind was blowing, all four band members had begun working on solo projects. At the end of the year, McCartney filed a lawsuit against the other three Beatles in London’s High Court for dissolution of the Beatles’ contractual partnership. The legal process and negotiations were so lengthy and complicated that it took five years for formal dissolution of the partnership to finalise.

Rock stars have groupies throwing themselves at them daily. There is so much temptation and opportunity to stray. Every couple faces eventual boredom in the bedroom no matter how strong their marriage may be. Being intelligent, Ono was faced with a choice, either she orchestrate a set up and give her blessing to Lennon straying or worse he would end up doing to her what he did to his first wife.  In mid ‘73, Ono confided her dilemma to their personal assistant May Pang who had been working for them for three years by now. The 22 year old Chinese-American assistant was neither glamorous nor come from a lofty background.  Best of all, Ono felt she could control her and the situation. She told May, “He likes you a lot” and gave her blessing for them to start a physical relationship.

Despite her reservations about how the sexual relationship would pan out, May Pang started sleeping with Lennon and the two moved to L.A. There he started working on an album with record producer Phil Spector, a frequent collaborator with the Beatles. Their drunken recording sessions became legendary and it is said that every musician in L.A. was desperate for an invite to join in their jam sessions. Lennon soon became out of control and later called this 18 month period his “Lost Weekend.” Pang was just too young and inexperienced to be able to control Lennon who was in his early thirties. Ono had been more of an older mother figure who could stabilize him. Not knowing what to do, after a series of calamitous incidents where he publicly behaved self-destructively , Pang encouraged Lennon to reach out to old band mates, friends and even develop regular contact with Julian, whom he had not seen for two years. Ono had always discouraged his contact with his son since she felt threatened by it. Starr, McCartney, Beatles roadie Mal Evans, and American musician Harry Nilsson all came and spent time with Lennon under his roof in L.A. and things improved for Lennon.

Julian began to see his father more regularly. Christmas of ’73, Lennon bought Julian a Gibson Les Paul guitar and a drum machine, and he himself taught his son some chords. “Dad and I got on a great deal better then. We had a lot of fun, laughed a lot and had a great time in general when he was with May Pang. My memories of that time with Dad and May are very clear—they were the happiest time I can remember with them,” recalled Julian wistfully.

But Lennon’s old violence also resurfaced at this time and one night after a heavy night of drinking he tried to throttle Pang. So summer of ‘74, a sober Lennon and Pang returned to live in NYC so he could  concentrate on recording and adopted two cats which they named Major and Minor. They also had a spare room for Julian when he visited. Lennon was rewarded for his good behavior with the success of his album Walls and Bridges topping  the album charts, and his solo single “Whatever Gets You Thru the Night” becoming the number-one US single, the only one in his lifetime.

While visiting Mick Jagger at Andy Warhol’s compound in Montauk, New York, in early ’75, Lennon and Pang saw a Scottish-style cottage they really liked and Lennon told a real estate broker to put in an offer for it. This was too much for Ono. She was still his wife and had no intention of letting him go so easily. Her understanding with Pang didn’t include buying a house together as a couple that meant a commitment.

Yoko With Her Japanese Upperclass Parents Isoko & Eisuke Ono

Ono started her old formula of calling Lennon nonstop. If it worked once, she figured, it would work again. He refused to take her calls as he knew what she was after.  She had also sent him a message via McCartney. Lennon and Pang were planning to visit Paul and Linda McCartney in New Orleans that February where they were recording their Venus and Mars album, but the day before Ono finally reeled Lennon in saying she had a miraculous cure for his smoking habit. After their meeting, Lennon neither returned home nor called Pang. When Pang telephoned the next day, Ono told her that Lennon was unavailable. The married couple’s separation was over, although Ono would allow him to continue seeing Pang as his mistress to give him the illusion of choice.

Privately Lennon kept quiet to maintain peace at home but publicly he was generous enough to give Pang respect telling biographer Larry Kane, “You know Larry, I may have been the happiest I’ve ever been… I loved this woman (Pang), I made some beautiful music and I got so fucked up with booze and shit and whatever.”

Ono knew she had to cement her relationship with a child. She had suffered three miscarriages already in her attempt to have a child with Lennon. When the couple reunited, she became pregnant for the fourth time. Not being the mothering sort, she told Lennon that unless he was willing to be a househusband and take care of the baby like her previous husband had done she would abort. He agreed readily. Sean Taro Ono Lennon was born on Lennon’s 35th birthday and was a heaven sent gift for him. Elton John stood in as the baby’s godfather. True to his word, Lennon took five years off from the music industry to take care of his second son.

Lennon was a dedicated, hands on dad. He declared proudly, “He (Sean) didn’t come out of my belly but, by God, I made his bones, because I’ve attended to every meal, and to how he sleeps, and to the fact that he swims like a fish.” He even hired a photographer take pictures of Sean every day of his first year and himself made drawings for him, who were posthumously published as Real Love: The Drawings for Sean.

All this devotion to his second son did not help relations with his first son. In a Playboy interview shortly before his death, Lennon said honestly, “I’m not going to lie to Julian. Ninety percent of the people on this planet, especially in the West, were born out of a bottle of whiskey on a Saturday night, and there was no intent to have children. So 90 percent of us… that includes everybody… were accidents. I don’t know anybody who was a planned child. All of us were Saturday-night specials. Julian is in the majority, along with me and everybody else. Sean is a planned child, and therein lies the difference. I don’t love Julian any less as a child. He’s still my son, whether he came from a bottle of whiskey or because they didn’t have pills in those days. He’s here, he belongs to me and he always will.” Lennon added he was trying to re-establish a connection with then 17-year-old Julian saying “Julian and I will have a relationship in the future.”

Surprise, surprise, after his death it was revealed that he had left Julian very little in his will. His entire estate after taxes was left to Ono, and Sean will inherit the £220 million fortune after her death as per Lennon’s will.

Even now, the two brothers are not close, though they are cordial. Julian said that he doesn’t feel resentment towards his younger half-brother, “I love Sean to death. He’s a very smart kid. But I do think there are things done without his knowledge. Someone in the camp could be manipulating events,” referring to Ono’s manipulative influence in an interview.

It wasn’t till shortly before his December 1980 murder that Lennon resumed his musical career. There was always a healthy competitiveness between Lennon and McCartney who had both dominated the Beatles with their songwriting and vocal talents.  As long as McCartney was producing what Lennon considered mediocre material, Lennon was relaxed enough to enjoy his musical hiatus, the minute McCartney released Coming Up in 1980, Lennon sat up and took notice.  “It’s driving me crackers!” He remarked that he couldn’t get the tune out of his head and so competitively Lennon started writing songs again.

Yoko Ono, Daughter Kyoko Cox & Second Husband Anthony Cox Who Brought Up Their Daughter Without Yoko’s Help

Remember the offhand remark that Lennon had made thoughtlessly how the Beatles were “more popular than Jesus” way back in 1966? Well, there was a deranged Beatles fan from Texas named Mark David Chapman who had gotten obsessed with it. A big Beatles fan, he had idolized Lennon and himself played the guitar trying to be like Lennon. But after he became a born-again Christian, he turned against his idol. Jan Reeves, the sister of Chapman’s best friend Mark, said he “seemed really angry toward John Lennon and he kept saying he could not understand why John Lennon had said it (that the Beatles were more popular than Jesus). There should be nobody more popular than the Lord Jesus Christ. He said it was blasphemy.” When members of his prayer group made a joke in reference to Lennon’s song Imagine chanting  “Imagine, imagine if John Lennon were dead,” the idea of the assassination was born, Chapman’s childhood friend Miles McManushe told interviewers after the event.

Chapman had also been influenced by reading John Lennon: One Day at a Time by Anthony Fawcett detailing Lennon’s rock ‘n roll lifestyle in NYC. Chapman’s wife Gloria stated, “He was angry that Lennon would preach love and peace but yet have millions of dollars.” She quoted him saying, “”I would listen to this music and I would get angry at him, for saying that he didn’t believe in God… and that he didn’t believe in the Beatles….He told us to imagine no possessions and there he was, with millions of dollars and yachts and farms and country estates, laughing at people like me who had believed the lies and bought the records and built a big part of their lives around his music. I just wanted to scream out loud, ‘Who does he think he is, saying these things about God and heaven and the Beatles?’”

So three months prior to the murder, Chapman started planning to kill Lennon.  He admitted he had a whole hit list of people in mind, including David Bowie, Johnny Carson, Marlon Brando, Walter Cronkite, Elizabeth Taylor, George C. Scott and Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, but John Lennon was the easiest to find. He was also particularly infatuated by Lennon.

Ono recalled the events of the fateful evening of December 8, 1980 with precision. The couple was thinking about going out for dinner after spending several hours in a recording studio, but decided to return to their apartment first so Lennon could see Sean before he went to bed. Right at the entrance of their Dakota apartment building, Chapman was waiting for them. He fired five times at Lennon at close range, hitting him four times in the back. Lennon died on the spot in Ono’s arms. Chapman calmly sat down to read The Catcher in the Rye until the police arrived and arrested him. He kept repeating to them that the novel was his statement.

Chapman’s legal team wanted to plead not guilty due to insanity in Chapman’s defense. Not only had he killed Lennon who was such vocal proponent of peace and brotherly love, but he had shot him in the back, a cowardly act, and then had waited calmly to be arrested. He had to be insane. His lawyers had expert testimony that he was a paranoid schizophrenic who believed the devil made him kill Lennon. But Chapman insisted that he wanted to plead guilty because he was carrying out the will of God, and denied hearing voices prompting the act; he also said God had visited him in his jail cell and told him to confess. Justice Dennis Edwards allowed the plea change without further psychiatric assessment. Dr. Daniel Schwartz, director of forensic psychiatric services at Kings County Hospital, told the judge in court that he said Chapman actually became John Lennon in his own mind, and decided to destroy the real John Lennon because Lennon was “evil” and “a phony.”

Chapman was sentenced to a prison term of 20-years-to life with psychiatric treatment during his incarceration; he has been imprisoned ever since, having been denied parole nine times since he became eligible in 2000. Each time there is a parole hearing, mandated by law to be every two years, Ono is there in person to lead the campaign against his parole.

Following the murder, a distraught Ono went into complete seclusion for an extended period.

The Bed In At The Amsterdam Hilton Served As The Couple’s Honeymoon In ’69

In the coming years she continued to honour Lennon’s memory. She funded the construction and maintenance of the Strawberry Fields memorial in remembrance of Lennon in Manhattan’s Central Park, directly across from the Dakota Apartments, where she still lives to this day. The memorial was officially opened on Lennon’s 45th birth anniversary. In 1990, Ono collaborated with music consultant Jeff Pollack to honor Lennon’s 50th birth anniversary with 1,000 stations in over 50 countries participating in the simultaneous broadcast of his ’71 peace song Imagine. In 1997, Ono and the BMI Foundation established an annual music competition program for songwriters in honor of John Lennon’s memory. In 2000, she founded the John Lennon Museum in Saitama, Japan. Ono was present as U.K. First Lady Cherie Blair’s unveiling of a 7-foot statue of Lennon in 2002 to mark the renaming of Liverpool airport to Liverpool John Lennon Airport. (Incidentally, Julian and Cynthia Lennon were present at the unveiling of the John Lennon Peace Monument next to ACC Liverpool eight years later.) Ono dedicated a new memorial called the Imagine Peace Tower located on an island near the Reykjavík harbour, Iceland, in 2007 that projects a vertical beam of light high into the sky. And, in 2009, Ono created an exhibit called John Lennon: The New York City Years for the NYC Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Annex, using music, photographs, and personal items.

John Lennon Vintage Signed Apple Records Publicity
At Sean’s Birth

But toward Lennon’s first born son Julian Ono remained intractable. Because he was completely left out of his own father’s will in favour of his stepmother, Julian had no choice but to take the matter to court. After a legal battle that lasted for years, the matter was finally settled with Julian reportedly getting £20 million, which he denied.

Yoko One hasn’t remarried.

Before his death, Lennon declared, “I still love those guys. The Beatles are over, but John, Paul, George and Ringo go on.”

Imagine there’s no heaven

It’s easy if you try

No hell below us

Above us only sky

Imagine all the people living for today

Imagine there’s no countries

It isn’t hard to do

Nothing to kill or die for

And no religion too

Imagine all the people living life in peace, you

You may say I’m a dreamer

But I’m not the only one

I hope some day you’ll join us

And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions

I wonder if you can

No need for greed or hunger

A brotherhood of man

Imagine all the people sharing all the world, you

You may say I’m a dreamer

But I’m not the only one

I hope some day you’ll join us

And the world will be as one

Actress/TV host/model/painter Ayesha Toor is a multi-talented woman who gives off mysterious vibes when she walks into a room. Sana Zehra gets to know Ayesha

Have you ever two timed in a relationship?

NO!

Kill or marry?

Adnan Siddiqui:

Kill

Nauman Ijaz:

Adopt

Rahat Kazmi:

Eternal love

Which TV personality badly needs a stylist?

TBH I do.

Really Ayesha?

(Laughs) No, really. I haven’t had cable in my house for the past four years so I have no idea who needs it on the telly.

Who needs a nutritionist?

Everybody

Psychologist?

Most morning show hosts

Which TV character would you like to go out with and why?

Hannibal Lecter played by Mads Mikkelsen in Hannibal. He is the sexiest man alive given the fact that the man can cook, kill and still look good.

If you were to write a biography what would the title be?

Leave Her Alone

Best thing about doing what you are doing right now?

Hosting is great. I get to meet and talk to a lot of people. There are a lot of great interesting people in Pakistan who are camera shy. It’s fun to engage them and draw them out on my show.

Favourite romcom of all time?

Forgetting Sarah Marshall

Movie or series that made you laugh the hardest?

Little Britain

Movie that made you cry?

Right after 9/11, I watched Road to Guantanamo and wept.

Who is your favourite living musician?

Trent Reznor

Look good or feel good?

I think if you look good, you will feel good.

Task oriented or people oriented?

Task oriented

One fear you would like to overcome?

Fear of public spaces

Your idea of a good time in a song?

I’d rather die than sing a song.

Three great things about living in Karachi.

Food

My house

The beach

Best pinch me moment?

I think when I got into college.

Would you ever shave your head for a role?

(Laughs) Not again!

What do you mean, You’ve done it? What was it for?

Yes, it was for a music video directed by Saqib Malik directing for the band Rushk that was shot in 2003.

How was the experience?

I felt a sense of liberation. I always had long hair and shaving it made me feel like I could do anything.

Who is your style icon?

Tilda Swinton and Sunrise Coigney

Other than your family, who would you call for advice?

I recently mastered the art of asking my friends, especially my friends Zhalay, Noor and Uns.

What did you learn from your previous relationships?

I learned that I am fantastic, I am awesome and that I should stay that way forever. Perhaps I can be a little kinder.

Most used emoji?

The pondering emoji

Which sports are you good at?

I went to a coed school and played sports with boys. I played everything: Hockey, football and basketball.

Best late night spot in Karachi?

My house

Describe yourself in 3 words?

That’s a tough one. Why don’t you describe me?

Early bird or night owl?

Early bird

One thing that amazes you?

Stupidity

One thing that insults your intelligence?

People who think I’m stupid

Pleasing people or speaking the truth?

Somewhere in the middle

One person whose survival skills you’d like to depend upon?

I would choose Noor Hassan for his survival skills because he is good at fixing things and Zhalay for entertainment.

How do you get your amazing skin?

I keep it clean and tan regularly. Sun if used the right way is good for your skin. It exfoliates and gives you a good colour.

You seem to be impervious to ageing.  What’s going on?

I’m a vampire! (Editor’s comment: A vampire who likes the sun? Perhaps a good dermatologist is also responsible.)

What does your tattoo say?

Every time I turn a number I do something. I’ve gotten piercings and this tattoo I got when I turned 25; it was a long time ago.

A lot is changing for women in Pakistan these days. Which women still struggle to have a voice?

Urban women have a voice, especially the women around me. I think they know they are privileged.

Women look at you and see an empowered woman who is strong and has a voice. Have you ever got into trouble for being yourself?

I don’t think so. I’ve been extremely lucky to be surrounded by intelligent and kind people who have encouraged me to be myself. I’ve had it very easy and a very comfortable life so, yes, I’ve been very lucky.

What does GT mean to you?

In 2003, GT first interviewed me so I’ve always kept an eye out for GT. The magazine has been around for so long and I am so glad it has survived.

Interview & coordination:

Sana Zehra

Photography Arsalan Bilgrami of abilgrami studio

An actor, advertising professional, lyricist, musician, vocalist, and writer, Shahvaar Ali Khan is a man of many parts. He entered the world of music with a splash with No Sazish No Jang in 2008 and went on to quickly establish himself as a musician of merit by producing a number of hit songs including Azad Ki Dua, Jab Koi Pyar Se Bulayega and Filmain Shilmain, which was featured in Rohit Dhawan’s feature film Desi Boyz. A few years later, the handsome young artist took up acting and starred in the popular television serials Noor E Zindagi, Tishnagi Dil Ki, and Mera Dard Na Janay Koi. Khan is one of television’s most bankable actors today. In an exclusive interview for Good Times, he talks to Ally Adnan about his personal and professional life, music, acting, politics and a lot else.

You study Hindustani Sangeet, the music of Northern India and Pakistan, with Basharat Hussain Khan, who belongs to the Gwalior gharana  of music. Why does a pop musician like yourself need training in classical music?

All musicians need training in classical music; there really is no other form of training. One can practice lighter form of music but a sound foundation in music is necessary and this can only be built with proper, rigorous training in Hindustani Sangeet. The most popular singers of Pakistan and India, Noor Jehan and Lata Mangeshkar, were both trained in classical music although they almost always sang ghazal, geet, and other lighter forms of music.

What are the unique characteristic of the Gwalior gharana of music?

The Gwalior gharana was founded by Raja Man Singh Tomar in the sixteenth century. It is the oldest gharana of khayal, which is the most popular genre of classical music both in India and in Pakistan, today. The history of most of the extant schools of music is inextricably tied to the Gwalior gharana. It is an ancient school of music with a truly venerable history.

The Gwalior gharana is known for the purity, authenticity and simplicity of its music. Gwalior musicians make music accessible, lucid and comprehensible. They try to both entertain and educate in their concerts. Their goal is to endear and not to impress listeners. They focus on pure singing, free of artifice, complication and gimmickry. Musicians of the gharana are known for their tayyari (virtuosity) and ilm (knowledge). They prefer to sing at medium and fast tempos and like to perform well-known, popular raags, and using musical ornamentation with restraint. The most commonly used tan is the sapat tan, which employs music notes in sequence. A lot of emphasis is placed on the text of compositions, the bandish, which is rendered with great fidelity and accuracy. The asthayi (first part of composition) and antara (second part of composition) are sung in their entirety before improvisation and the introduction of variations.  The music of the Gwalior gharana is serious, somber and genuine.

What does your teacher, Basharat Hussain Khan, teach you?

A whole lot.

Basharat Sahib works with me on the clarity, tone and timbre of my voice. Voice culture is of paramount importance in music. A singer must have a rich, resonant and distinct voice to achieve success in music, and he must protect his voice from damage and deterioration. It is easy to ruin one’s voice by singing without proper training and instruction.

Basharat Sahib trains me in the basic elements of music, sur (melodic notes) and lay (tempo), by introducing raags (musical modes) and taals (rhythmic time cycles) of Hindustani Sangeet to me. He teaches me the various alankaars (musical ornamentations) of music and guides me in their proper and judicious use during singing. He makes sure that I explore my full vocal range, from teep (high registers) to kharaj (low register). Most importantly, he makes sure that I focus on riyaaz (practice) and give it due time and attention.

Basharat Sahib is a truly special teacher. He is a full trained classical musician but has equal facility in the lighter forms of music. He used to sing for films in his youth and has, in fact, recorded duets with Noor Jehan. Since, my goal has never been to become a classical musician, he has trained me in a unique manner: he has established a base in classical music but trained me in the singing of lighter genres of music like geet, ghazal and film songs. I am truly blessed to have him as my Ustad (teacher).

A lot of your songs deal with themes of peace, syncretism and tolerance.

Yes, they do. Nationalism, peace and tolerance are very important to me. They are a part of my person and my music and I am proud of the fact that my songs represent my beliefs, values and politics. They would be meaningless if they did not. All good art represents the truth that is held dear by the artist. Art that does not do so makes no impact, affects no one, and fails the test of time.

Your parents are graduates of the venerable National College of Arts, Lahore, and are known to have a great love for art, culture and history. How did their love for the finer things in life affect you?

It helped me develop whatever I have by way of taste, appreciation and fondness for the finer things in life. I owe a lot to my parents. They gave me a lot of time and attention, in addition, of course, to love. They made sure that I was introduced to the best of art, poetry, literature, and music, as a child. They made me proud of my heritage by introducing the culture, history and arts of Pakistan to me, at a very young age, in a very effective and interesting manner.

My mother is a graduate of the National College of Arts, Lahore, and received her doctoral degree from Harvard.  She has an unwavering belief in the necessity and importance of education. It inspired me to secure the best education that was available to me. She is also a very hardworking woman who did more in a month than people do in a year. She was the perfect mother and wife while being a dedicated academician and educationist. She helped me understand the value of time and the importance time-management. I am embarrassed when people say that I do a lot – acting, singing, managing a business – because what she used to do in a day is so much more than I manage to accomplish in twenty-four hours. She set high standards for me.

My father is an artist. He has a very deep understanding of art, design and aesthetics. He is also a lover of music and the person who first introduced me to South Asian music. As a child, I use to watch him listen to music with both awe and amazement. He did not take it lightly and gave it time, attention, thought, and love – A lot of love. He made me realize that listening to music is an art in itself and as important as performing music. Good listeners bring out the best in good musicians.

You have a degree in Economics & International Studies from Trinity College, Hartford, Connecticut, and have held jobs in advertising and investment banking. What prompted the move to show business?

I am an artist and was born and raised as one. I can only work as an artist; other careers are not for me. I enjoyed studying at the Trinity College but was never comfortable in the corporate world.  A corporate junkie by day and a performing artist by night – the dichotomy seemed duplicitous and was hugely disconcerting. It became necessary – very quickly –  for me to make a move to the arts in order to be true to myself.  And, although it was daring and risky, the move was refreshingly easy. I felt great relief after making it.

You work as an actor, writer, musician, vocalist, and lyricist while managing an advertising company. That is a lot to do.

It does seem that way but, although I get overwhelmed with work, every now and then, I am very happy to have a lot on my plate. It is good to be busy. It keeps one out of trouble.

You are known to be a workaholic. Do you find time to pay attention to your family?

I try to do my best but sometimes fail to give my family the time it deserves. There are times when I wish I had more than one of me to do all that is on my to-do list but, for the most part, I enjoy being overloaded with work. Time is precious and every single moment should be productive. Workaholism is good. I do not really believe in work-life balance. I think it is a regressive ‘corporate’ concept. We have twenty-four hours in a day and need to make them count so that we make a mark in life and leave behind a meaningful legacy. Small talk, gossip, meaningless conversation, shallow socializing, and the like are a horrible waste of time. I believe in spending quality time with friends and family members, that helps all of us become learn and become better, more intelligent people. Idling is not for me.

Which do you like the most, singing writing, or acting?

I like all three. I am a singer at heart. Writing helps me explore myself and my psyche. And, acting affords me an escape from the din and vagaries of daily life.

Did you have formal training in acting?

I do not. I learn from the directors, actors and producers that I work with. I also learn by watching great actors perform in films and on television.

Do you enjoy acting?

Yes, I do. I like being able to take over the identities of other people and experience lives that are vastly different than my own.

What do you find most difficult about being an actor?

I have trouble dealing with lack of discipline, professionalism and responsibility and get annoyed when have to deal with it as an actor. Fortunately, it does not happen very often.

What constitutes a lack of discipline, professionalism and responsibility?

Changing schedules at the last minute and without justification tops the list. Giving actors scripts a few minutes before the start of shooting is unprofessional. It prevents them from preparing properly and limits their performances. Tardiness is bad, as is poor scheduling. I have a lot going on in my life and do not like having my time wasted. Nothing makes me angrier than having someone disrespect my time.

Your advertising agency, Farigh Four, produced a remarkable promotional campaign for the Shaukat Khanum Memorial Cancer Hospitals, a few years ago. Who conceived the campaign?

My partner, Beenish Mir, and I conceived the campaign. Farigh Four has developed a number of very successful campaigns during its relatively short history. I am proud of all that I have accomplished with the company but, like everything else that is good in my life, I give full credit for the success to my wife. She manages the business and the home while I reap the benefits of being married to a particularly special lady.

Do you believe that the Shaukat Khanum Memorial Cancer Hospitals have made a genuine contribution to Pakistani society?

Shaukat Khanum Memorial Cancer Hospitals are truly great philanthropic institutions. One can have millions of differences with Imran Khan but no one can deny the fact that the Shaukat Khanum Memorial Cancer Hospitals are a huge gift to Pakistan, much bigger than the 1992 Cricket World Cup. I consider being associated with Imran Khan’s noble cause both an honor and a privilege.

Farigh Four was also behind PTI’s 2013 Naya Pakistan campaign. Why did your advertising agency take the risk of aligning itself with one particular political party in the highly polarized political landscape of Pakistan?

Farigh Four is not politically aligned with any one party. Different people at the company have different political ideologies and preferences. These do not affect their work. We treat PTI like any other client and work hard to do deliver the best possible work to the party.

On a personal level, do you agree with the politics of Imran Khan?

I am a student of political science and human behavior. I do not believe in messiahs and in having blind faith in political leaders. On the political front, I like what Imran Khan stands for but dislike some of his actions and decisions. It is not black or white for me. If we take politics out of the picture, I am a tremendous fan of Imran Khan. He was a great cricketer. His philanthropic and charitable work is truly awesome. And he is a dreamer with boundless energy, unbridled optimism and infinite grit. I am a fan of Imran Khan, the person if not the politician.

You lost your son, Sher Ali Khan Azad, to a lung disease a few years ago. How did you deal with the tragedy?

Yes, that was the biggest tragedy of my life. I tried to find solace in faith, friends and family. It was not easy. It still is not. I think that I have gotten used to living without Sheroo but am as sad about his passing today as I was when he left us. He has left a gaping hole in my heart that can never be filled. Not a day goes by without me thinking of him. The loss of a child is an enormous tragedy. I hope that no parents ever have to deal with it.

I want to add that, in leaving us, Sheroo gave me and Rohma the gift of marital bliss. He brought us together in a truly remarkable manner, giving us an understanding of matrimony that we did not have earlier. He united us, made us grow closer, and strengthened the bond between the two of us.  He was with us for a very short time but gave us enough happiness to last a lifetime. He was a very special baby.

Acting was helpful at the time. It was therapeutic for me. The opportunity to act came along shortly after Sheroo left us. I am glad that I seized the opportunity because it offered me the escape that I needed at the time. It helped me leave my own and lead someone else’s life for a few months. It was an incredibly healing experience.

Did you name your son after the renowned Indian writer and poet Jagan Nath Azad?

No, I did not. People just assumed that I did because I had put Azad Ki Dua, the national anthem written by Jagan Nath Azad, to music.

What is keeping you busy these days?

Three things – television, music and Farigh Four.

I am working in a television serial for Geo Entertainment. It is the story of a simple, young man who is torn between the conflicting demands of love and tradition, as he tries to navigate Pakistan’s disparate urban and rural cultures. I am in talks with another channel about doing a serial. It has a great script and looks very promising.

I am growing Farigh Four and recruiting some very talented people into the agency. We have a lot of interesting work ahead of us and I am assembling the right team to execute it.

I am also working on music. It has been a while since I released a song and have a strong urge to create good music. I plan to release several singles during the year.

And on the personal front?

I am having a great time with the love of life as we celebrate the arrival of our new baby daughter. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Photographs by Daud Malik

Ally Adnan lives in Dallas and writes about culture, history and the arts. He tweets @allyadnan and can be reached at allyadnan@outlook.com.

Sohai Abro’s star has been on the ascendant for years now, and her upcoming film, Motorcycle Girl, promises to cement her fame. A ball of energy and endlessly versatile as a thespian, Abro’s vibe is at once feminine yet fiery. Abro chats with Afshan Shafi in an honest tête-à-tête. Captured beautifully by the brilliant Abdullah Haris, exclusively for GT, read on for a moody and reflective editorial

How do you think this movie will surprise local audiences?

Motorcycle girl is a story of a young girl from a regular family struggling with the many limitations of society. On the one hand the story is relatable because of the day-to-day obstacles she faces and how she deals with them, something which I’m sure all of us can relate to since we live in a patriarchal society. So the surprise element would be seeing this kind of a progressive female character in a Pakistani film. On the other hand  the story is highly awakening as a reminder of the inner power we all have, if properly tapped into. This film will definitely be an empowering experience for the audience, as they follow the journey of an ordinary girl doing extraordinary things.

Any surprises or memorable anecdotes from the filming?

One of the most interesting aspects of the film was the travelling required through phenomenal destinations in Pakistan, one of them being Khunjerab Pass which is on the China-Pakistan border. To our surprise, the visuals were not the only ‘breathtaking’ aspect of it. During the shoot we faced what can be described as an ‘unreal’ challenge. Due to lack of oxygen we were all in a state of Hypoxia with symptoms such as confusion, shortness of breath, sweating, wheezing and rapid breathing. The extreme weather conditions causing this made it impossible for us to sustain our shooting hours. This experience was disturbing yet very memorable at the same time. Having said that, nothing can beat the beauty of Khunjerab and our county Pakistan.

How would you describe the central character in three words?

I can’t really describe the character in 3 words since it’s such a layered character. But if I have to choose 3 simple words, they would be

Fervent

Dynamic

Sensitive

Did you relate to the character? If so, in what way?

Yes I surely did. The character is of a young independent girl who is the  breadwinner for herself and her family. She had no choice but to grow up and become the force behind her life and I can relate to that. The character possesses the eagerness to go beyond societal barriers to achieve a sense of completion, fulfillment, and acceptability. I feel we all fight our demons differently. Life gives us opportunities to stand up for ourselves, and it’s a beautiful journey when we set our mind to do that. I too have faced such struggles, such as living a life without a father, standing up for my self and following my dreams. There are many ways I relate to this character.  For what is life without obstacles?

How will this film break stereotypes for female protagonists in Pakistan?

Motorcycle girl is a film that shows the female gender as the lead character. I’m happy to be part of a film that will add to the revolution of our film industry in Pakistan. This film is going to bring about a change. The visual of a female on a motorbike ,itself, will aid in breaking the stereotypes set by our society. Female protagonists cannot be confined to banal cliches in this day and age. Why the limitations? The medium of film is a beautiful way of creating awareness, educating society, and broadening the perspectives of the audience. Women in Pakistan are highly skilled, they’re strong and they are capable of making a difference. Representations of women in Pakistani Cinemare definitely evolving and Motorcycle Girl is surely going to set the bar for that.

What is the message audiences will take away from this film?

This film is about standing up and fighting for yourself. It’s about hearing your inner voice and going the extra mile, understanding your importance in this world and not letting others be the judge of you. Stop holding yourself back just because of “log kya kahengay”. We’re all beyond that and we’re better than that. This film will reinforce the fact that you can shape your own destiny. It’s about believing in yourself.

Rapid fire:

Local crush: Fawad Khan

International crush: Zayn Malik, Riz Ahmed.

Looks or money: I’d pick personality

Fav designer to wear: Ali Xeeshan, Zaheer Abbas, Hussain Rehar

Girly girl or tomboy: a bit of both

When not working you can be found: You can’t find me when I’m not working haha

Celebrity you are dying to work with: I’m dying to work with good directors

Fav actor: Leonardo Di Caprio, Ranvir Singh

Fav actress: Jody foster, Jennifer Lawrence

Homebody or party animal: homebody

Shahroz Sabzwari may be the son of veteran actor Behroz Sabzwari, but he has made his own place in the field of acting and modeling, making his mark with his impeccable performance in the drama serial Tanhaiyan Naye Silsilay and Nanhi. Though his debut movie Chain Aye Na flopped at the box office, his recent hit serial Zard Zamano Ka Sawera made that look like a little bump in his very shiny ride. Sana Zehra sits down with the star of drama serial Seep to talk about love, life and his plans

One regret you live with?

None

How are you different after the release of your movie Chain Aye Na?

I’m much stronger.

What insults your intelligence?

Lies

In an emergency who would you call for help?

I have a lot of friends I can call but in an emergency I would call Naeem Khan.

Ever falsely accused of something?

No

What do you think people say behind your back?

He is one pompous @#%*!

What temptation have you successfully resisted?

A lot of them! (Laughs)

If you are in an honesty room with Syra what would you ask her?

Syra is an open book really. I don’t need to ask her anything.

First thing that comes to your mind when you think of the word fun?

Music

Name one commonly held belief that you find offensive?

That you shouldn’t eat to lose weight. No, you need to eat and eat right to lose weight.

Crazy held belief you held as a child?

That my mother was a tooth fairy.

Tell us about your project Seep?

Seep is on air now. It is Shaista Abbas’s debut. I’m very proud of it, as it’s very different.

Who did you get the most retakes with?

Sarish Khan

What is your most useless talent?

Nothing, everything has been pretty useful so far.

How do you seek someone special’s attention?

By talking. I sure can talk!

One song that you can never get tired of?

Running away by Hoobastank

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Yes, yes! With Syra.

Have you ever been stalked by an ex?

Yup

Who do you think has it easier, men or women?

Women

Who do you think is the best dressed celebrity?

My uncle, Jawed Sheikh

If you get a chance to ask God one questions what would it be?

I ask Allah questions every day. I’m very much connected to Him.

If Hareem Farooq and Hania Amir were drowning who would you save first?

Hareem

Rule breaker or take permission?

Take permission

Who would rather by your costar in 007?

Syra, who else?

Who is your favourite actor?

The late Marlon Brando

What is that one character you feel like you should’ve never said yes to?

No such character

An advice from your father that you should’ve followed?

Just recently, my tooth cap came off and my father said to go get it fixed right away. I didn’t listen and lo and behold I have severe toothache right nowL

Most embarrassing comment anyone has ever made?

There were a lot of lethal comments made when Chain Aye Na trailer was released.

Describe love in three words?

I can’t describe love in three words. I can write a whole book about it!

One word for Chain Aye Na?

My first film

One word for awards?

If you have a good jury then that’s fine, but awards should not be given based on public opinion or as a result of a popularity contest.

One word for Botox?

I like it. Everyone should get it done.

Do you think you got it before your time?

No

Do you think people should invest money in flop films?

I think investment should be done regardless. Whether it’s smart or not, the end result always speaks for itself.

Who would you rather go dancing with? Mahira or Maya?

Maya Ali

Imagine A movie scene. you have to introduce your girl to your mother. Who would it rather be: Soha Ali or Shaista Abbas?

Shaista

Who would you rather arm wrestle? Bilal Ashraf or Ali Rehman?

Ali Rehman because I might have a chance with him, but Bilal Ashraf hell no!

If you were given a chance to do a high school musical that would you rather do it with: Sonya Hussain or Armeena Khan?

Sonya

Were your exes invited to your wedding?

I invited some of them.

Did they show up?

One of them did.

Imagine you are swimming in sunny California and suddenly you start drowning. Who would rather be your lifeguard: Sadaf Kanwal or Amna Babar?

Sadaf Kanwal

Imagine there is an alien attack happening. who would rather be your side kick: Kubra Khan or Syra Shahroz?

If I say Kubra Khan my world will end so I will say Syra Shahroz.

If you had a choice of a personal butler, would it rather be Sanam Baloch or Sarish Khan?

Sarish Khan

And why is that?

Because she’d be one hot butler.

Who is that one actress you really wish to work with?

Maya Ali

Rate the following as the best actress: Mahira Khan, Mehwish Hayat or Saba Qamar?

Mehwish Hayat, Saba Qamar and Mahira Khan

What does GT mean to you?

Good times!

“I invited some of my exes to my wedding”

Off the Cuff with
Shaista Abbas

Making her debut with the drama serial Seep opposite Shahroz Sabzwari, Shaista is the younger, half-sister of Meera Jee and is a paralegal by profession. Growing  up in London, her Urdu is not fluent so she’s working extra hard on her dialogue delivery as  all eyes are currently on this beauty. Sana Zehra sits down with the ingenue for a fun rapid fire session

Most googled question: Are you really Meera Jee Sister?

I’m her half-sister.

Do you think you got special treatment because of your sister?

I don’t think so. I had to audition for this role just like anyone else

How come you are not so active on social media?

That’s because I am a very shy person.

What is your personal grievance?

Don’t have any.

Who is your style icon?

Aishwarya Rai. I think she is gorgeous, a real lady and has a positive energy around her. She exudes optimism.

What is the most expensive gift you bought for yourself?

A pair of gold earrings

What do you think about celebrities posting pictures of various brands on their social media?

Well, if something makes them happy then why not? If it gives them a sense of achievement then why not celebrate it and share it with the rest of the world and give inspiration to young girls as well? No harm in that!

What about people who cannot afford these brands?

It’s a sad reality that so many people are in want and are suffering. We should all help them but if someone wants to enjoy life then I say let it be. God has everything. He can provide anything to anyone. We are divided into social strata for a reason. Everything should be taken positively.

Ever seen a ghost?

No, but I wish to because I don’t get scared.

If you have an unlimited food supply what one thing would you want to eat?

Fish and eggs

What is your guilty pleasure?

Chocolates.

Favorite Music?

Punjabi songs

Last video watched on YouTube?

Series of interviews of celebrities

Last crush?

I had a crush on my classmate.

Any tattoos?

No, I’m not a tattoo kind of person.

Analog or Digital?

Digital

Who is your spirit animal?

I love dogs.

If you are a magician and you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

I’d make myself more beautiful.

Can you cook?

Yes, I love to cook.

Fahad Mustafa, Junaid Khan, and Ahsan Khan: Who would you want to work with in the future?

Fahad Mustafa

Out of these two who would you say yes to a dinner date. Imran Abbas or Mikaal Zulfiqar?

Mikaal Zulfiqar

An actor you really wanted to work with?

Mikaal Zulfikar

What is your take on Botox and fillers?

Something very convenient nowadays, a good thing to have I guess. I appreciate the people who would be that daring to go for it.

Have you ever been hit on by a co-star?

Maybe

Have you ever committed to a shoot and not show up?

No way, I’ve always met my commitments.

If you have an opportunity of losing one memory what would it be?

Hating someone.

How many times have you been in love?

I love to love and I love the feeling of love and I don’t mind falling in love again and again.

Everything is fair in love and war—True or False?

True

What does GT means to you?

Every time can be a good time.

Photography:

Arsalan Bilgrami of a.bilgrami studio

Hair & makeup:

Shaista Studio Z salon and spa

Shahroz grooming:

N-Pro

Location courtesy:

The Deli

Shaista is Meera’s younger, half-sister

“We are divided into social strata for

a reason” (Hmmm    )

By Mahlia Lone

Nida Azwer

Lady-like Elegance

Hussain Rehar

Sharp Tailoring

Sania Maskatiya

Monochrome Magic

HSY

Gothic Revival

Arjumand Bano

Tropical Vibe

Saira Shakira

Empire of the Sun

Fahad Hussayn

Floating Blossoms

RICI MELION

Dress to Impress

Republic by Omar Farooq

Weekend Wear

Saira Rizwan

Easy to Wear

Mona Imran

Pop Artist

Shirin Hassan

Pink Poppies

Zonia Anwaar

Orange You Glad

By Afshan shafi

For this week’s style me up, the stunning Zoe Khan serves as the muse for Crimson by Saira Shakira. Impeccably accessorized and polished, Zoe styles these must have lawn ensembles to perfection!

Muse: Zoe Khan

Designer: Crimson Lawn by Saira Shakira ’18

Full marks on styling folks! Crimson Luxury Lawn by Saira Shakira’s contemporary designs and meticulous detailing have us swooning. Love how Zoe Khan has styled this stunning one shoulder shirt with perfectly tailored front open bootcut pants. A statement Kelly and Luscious gold earrings give her look a chic and feminine feel.

Everything about this indeginous meets contemporary outfit is whispering class! Zoe wears this piece as an off shoulder straight shirt with culottes. She carries the beautiful ghaara embroidered Tasseled dupatta gracefully on one side. Golden pumps, a chunky necklace and a classic orange Kelly makes for an ethereal look!

Zoe is slaying this number from Crimson Luxury Lawn by Saira Shakira. A straight embroidered shirt, monochrome bootcut pants and the exotic silk fringed dupatta is put together beautifully and makes for a perfect outfit for a lunch date with girlfriends.

Giving us some refreshing summer vibes, Zoe Khan looks chic in this loose thigh length shirt and bell bottoms. We love her effortless beach waves and that delicious yellow Hermes Kelly clutch is giving her the right pop of colour!

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