Bushra Ansari is a true living legend who has continued to dominate the entertainment industry for over five decades. From acting, to singing, hosting and writing, she has done it all and aced each undertaking. This icon has received all major Pakistani awards, including Pakistan’s highest civilian award, the Pride of Performance. She is celebrated in particular for her impersonations of Madam Noor Jehan, Tahira Syed, along with her impeccable performances in Fifty-fifty, Angan Terha, Raja Ki Ayegi Barat and Udaari. Sana Zehra sits down with Ansari to have a candid conversation about life and work.
You’re celebrated as one of Pakistan’s living legends. Do you think your success has put pressure on your children to live up to your name?Â
I’ve never put any kind of pressure on my daughters. I worked in media because that’s always been my passion. When it comes to my children, they’ve been free to follow their own dreams. My husband and I have been strong advocates of female empowerment and I’m glad my daughters are carrying on that legacy.
My husband and I have been strong advocates of female empowerment and I’m glad my daughters are carrying on that legacy
Tell us about your relationship with your daughter Meera.
Meera and I are best friends and spend a lot of our free time together. I enjoy our conversations, as neither of us enforce our ideas on the other. Despite my hectic schedule, I ensure I’m in touch with her via calls or WhatsApp. We cherish our relationship and that’s why we’ve balanced and managed it so well.
How did you manage motherhood with your professional commitments?
Being a mother of two beautiful girls, a full-time housewife and working in showbiz wasn’t easy at all. My family lived in Lahore, while my in-laws lived in Islamabad, so I never had the privilege of leaving my children with their grandparents. Despite this, I was always there for them — from school pick-and-drop, tuitions, parent-teacher meetings and all other activities. If I were travelling abroad, I’d take them along. So, I feel content knowing that I never neglected my girls because of work.
A lot of working mothers feel guilty while at the workplace. What’s your advice for them?
My best advice is to try to appreciate time for what it is. If you’re at work embrace your time without the kids, where you can focus on your own ambitions and goals. When you’re home, have fun playing with them. The trick is to find the silver lining in the chaos.
How have your notions of what it means to be a woman changed over the years?
I’m so proud that I’m a woman. Surviving in a man’s world is not easy for us. But then what is life, if it’s not tough and challenging? And I love challenges. I’ve never compromised on my principles and moral values and have received so much respect, love and acceptance for just being who I am, which is an achievement in itself. Women today are empowered and a lot more open to the curves life throws at them.
Surviving in a man’s world is not easy for us. But then what is life, if it’s not tough and challenging? And I love challenges
Out of all the characters you’ve portrayed on screen, which one do you relate to the most?Â
I’ve always chosen my characters mindfully. However, my role in “Udaari†as Sheedan is closest to my heart, because the concept is completely different from typical Pakistani drama serials. Sheedan doesn’t embody the common ‘log kya kaheinge’ (what will people say?) mentality; she has a heart of gold, but is also undiplomatic and fears no one. It’s about a woman who earns for her family by singing and dancing at weddings and is fiercely unapologetic about it. She’s rather proud of it.
Tell us about your video to promote peace between Pakistan and India.Â
My inbox is filled with viewers’ feedbacks who say the song is the voice of their soul. The idea was to promote peace and harmony and to make everyone know what a common man from both ends of the spectrum wants. The general public from both sides of the border genuinely wants peace, but politics and warmongers create distances between them.
Have you ever felt the pressure of being an influential figure for the masses?
Not pressure but responsibility I would say. When so many people look up to you and follow you it becomes your responsibility to raise you voice for issues that are important. It’s no less than a privilege that God has bestowed you with and one should definitely strive to make a change by taking a constructive advantage of their position in the society. When you’re a public figure you generally have a heavy influence and impact on individuals and society, as many people follow you and you can change people’s perspectives and beliefs in few minutes. Therefore, you have to act responsibly because you’re accountable for your words.
You’ve seen the entertainment industry evolve since its early PTV days. How do you think it’s changed you as an artist?Â
As compared to yesteryears, television in Pakistan has grown dramatically. The production of satellite channels and cable TV networks has made it possible for a large number of Pakistanis to have access to TV entertainment. Today, the content is completely changed from how it used to be in early years. To be honest, it hasn’t changed much for me as an artist, because I’ve always been open to roles with substance — I never shy away from challenges. Yes, the audience’s approach is different towards the content today, but one thing that’s remained constant in my career is that I believe in quality over quantity.
What advice would you give to your younger self?
Don’t hold back on doing what you really want, because it won’t bring you far in life. Correct yourself, empower yourself and most of all love yourself.
A lot goes into making a house a home. Daniya Q, mother of two and founder of Elite Fashion, worked painstakingly with architect Salman Jawed of Coalesce Design Studio to construct a space that’s contemporary, functional and innovative in its design. Sana Zehra finds out more
Was there a specific theme you had in mind while designing your house?
I always thought about having a home with a contemporary feel. Being able to have a space that’s simple and comfortable for my family was the idea behind our house.
Who was the architect and who did the interior?
Salman Jawed was our architect. Our discussions with him ensured us that he would deliver a masterpiece. Each and every area was taken under consideration, including minute details such as privacy for the family if someone is entertaining guests. The interior was done by Samia Khan.
What part about setting up your space did you enjoy the most?
I loved doing the basement. Having a complete view of trees was important to me and something I’ve enjoyed creating thoroughly.
What’s the best compliment your house has received?
Most compliments centre around how spacious and well-lit our house is and in spite of an open plan construction, the place has complete privacy. This last bit was definitely a challenge.
Which room in your house do you spend the most time in and why?
The ground floor around the kitchen area is where most of my time is spent. This area is the heart of the house and is easily accessible.
How often do you entertain?
Every now and then. We’ve hosted multiple brunches, lunches and dinners.
Describe a perfect day in your house?
A perfect day is spent watching my girls dance around the house.
What do you think makes a happy home?
Everyone in the family having their own space and enjoying it would make any home happy.
You have a lot of bright rugs in every room. Do you enjoy collecting them?
Yes. The house has lots of natural light and I knew bright rugs would add character and give a more curated feel.
Kamiar Rokni is one of those few coveted designers who can do no wrong.  His new collection, titled Moonrise, has women swooning over the outfits. Mehek Raza Rizvi talks to him and Eman Suleman — the face of the campaign featured in our pages — about fashion, business and diversity
Why did you choose to become a fashion designer and how has The House of Kamiar Rokni aesthetic evolved over the years?
I find that question hard to answer because I feel this profession chose me and not the other way round. I was a very artsy child who was always interested in creating things. I had an early eye for clothing so my mother and aunts would ask my opinion about the colours and prints they should wear. As a result, I found the one thing I’ve remained focused on for two decades: designing clothes.
My aesthetic has been quite defined from the beginning, but yes, it’s certainly evolved. I started off as a young and funky designer who was intrepid and high-spirited but over the years that aesthetic has become more serious, yet retains a certain boldness.
What has stayed with me from the very beginning is the use of colour. I’ve always been very comfortable with putting together colour combinations that are beautiful but unexpected. An element of surprise is always important in design and over the years I’ve grown to appreciate that more and more. I also believe my sense of quality and refinement has improved with time. I’ve learnt a lot from our local artisans, so my embroideries have become a lot better.
I’ve definitely grown as a designer but it’s mostly been the honing of an aesthetic. I’ve learnt how to mix different mediums together and create harmony in design, but essentially I’m the same creative mind who loves different cultures, history and nature.
Does being a creative person mean you ever struggle with the business aspect of your work?
Being creative and being good at business don’t necessarily go hand in hand. I think it’s definitely something I’ve had to learn and pick up over the years. I haven’t been the most astute businessman but you live, you learn and you grow. After spending so many years in the industry, I’ve finally come to rely on myself in this aspect as well. Age and experience teach you a lot.
What’s the inspiration behind Moonrise? Tell us about the collection.
Moonrise is very close to my heart because in my twenty years in fashion, this is the first collection my team and I have put together entirely on our own. I have a collaborative spirit and have enjoyed teaming up in terms of design from the beginning of my career, but it was a differet experience doing everything myself. The collection itself is represented by the moon, which is a feminine symbol. It’s an exploration of the different aspects of femininity, the Pakistani woman and how she expresses herself. Our country’s modern age woman is contemporary and relevant but also respectful of tradition. My slogan for Moonrise is “brace your inner rock star as well as your inner princess.â€
I tried to put myself in the headspace of the girl of today and create what she wants to wear. The idea was to provide multiple options suitable for anywhere in the world and for any wedding affair. Also, like every collection of mine, art, culture and imagination were elements I put together into the garments, bearing in mind what I want to say about shape, form, silhouette and also embellishment.
How does your muse, Eman Suleman, personify the vision behind Moonrise?
Muse is a word that gets thrown around a lot. While Eman definitely personifies the current Pakistani woman and is very inspirational to me, I’d like to clarify that my all-time muse has always been my childhood best friend, Maleeha Naipaul.
In some ways Eman reminds me of her. She has this ethereal beauty and always looks like there’s something going on inside her head or that she lives in a world of her own, which I really like. She’s very professional and gets into character extremely quickly as a model. That just worked well with Moonrise.
We did two shoots for Moonrise, one which you see in this feature by Umar Nadeem and Azka Shahid (the duo photographer and stylist who are extremely young and talented) and the other at my beautiful family home in Bahawalpur, featuring Farwa Kazmi, Rubab Ali, Maham Ali and Eman Suleman.
I love working with new people but over the years, everybody from Noor Bhatti, to Aaminah Haq, Tanya Shafi Khan and Vaneeza Ahmad have become friends and muses. I generally enjoy the company of women — they inspire me. However, Maleeha Naipaul, my grandmothers, my mother, my aunts and friends, Sanam Taseer, Juggan Kazim, Meherbano Sethi and Zara Peerzada have influenced me the most with their beauty and grace.
The word ‘muse’ has been misused in fashion. How do you respond to the belief that its excessive use objectifies women?
Yes, muse is indeed a tricky word but essentially a muse is a conduit. It’s someone you look at from afar and get inspired by or somebody who is a collaborator — who you can talk to, work with and bounce ideas off. As I mentioned earlier, Maleeha embodies both those things for me. She acts like a sounding board. In fact, I often ask all my female friends if they would wear a certain garment I’ve made. If yes, where and how would they wear it?
I don’t know whether or not it’s sexist to have a muse. We live in a very charged climate where everything can be politicised. Social correctness has become a little extreme. As far I’m concerned I love, respect and admire all women.
“Moonrise is very close to my heart because in my twenty years in fashion, this is the first collection My Team and I Have put together entirely on our ownâ€
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How do you react to fashion being called frivolous, wasteful or indulgent?
I think it’s very silly to call a multi-billion dollar industry frivolous. It just shows a limited mindset.
Three skills one needs to survive in fashion?
A thick skin, talent and a certain amount of flamboyance
Your favourite design created by you so far?
It’s like having a favourite child; everyone has one but you never say which one it is.
Favourite models from the current lot?
I love the influx of new models. Rubab Ali, Farwa Kazmi, Mushk Kaleem, Roshanay, Eman Suleman and Zara Peerzada
A veteran model you wish made a comeback?
I would love to see so many of my old friends make a comeback on the ramp: Aaminah Haq, Tanya Shafi Khan, Iraj Manzoor and ZQ—the models of that time were just incredible, it was when I was growing up and had just begun my journey in fashion. I have very fond memories from those days.
Worst experience with a client?
Some people can be quite rude but when people are getting married it’s a stressful time. I always try staying calm.
Apart from yourself, which Pakistani designers do you think are doing admirable work?
I’m a huge fan of Faiza Samee, Nilofer Shahid, Bunto Kazmi, Maheen Khan and Rizwan Beyg. They’re pioneers who paved the way and created a space that we now embody. From the younger lot, I admire the work of Misha Lakhani, Sania Maskatiya, Mahgul, Khaadi, Noorjehan Bilgrami, Hussain Rehar and Feeha Jamshed.
A line from a movie that best describes you?
There’s a movie called All That Jazz in which the main protagonist wakes up every day, looks in the mirror and says, “It’s show time folks!†That’s my attitude towards life too.
Alternate career choice?
A writer, director or actor
Describe the Pakistani fashion fraternity in three words
Like any family—some people get along, some can’t stand each other, some fight, some make-up and some break-up. That is our fashion fraternity, just like any other family.
EMANÂ SULEMAN
Why did you choose to become a fashion model and how has your understanding of the fashion world altered over the course of your career so far?
It wasn’t really a choice, it just happened. I continued for many reasons; it pays well, you get to explore places you wouldn’t have otherwise and you get to meet talented and interesting people. It can be exhausting too, all of it. Modelling is hard work, requires a lot of time, sweat and sometimes, even tears. I never could’ve imagined it being so laborious.
“I think the fashion fraternity needs to start being more inclusive of genders and body type. We need to deviate from the conventional standards of beautyâ€
You’re not one to shy away from social issues most people are afraid to address and that always leaves room for backlash. I’ve always wondered where the fearlessness comes from.
I don’t understand why these topics (oppressed genders, harassment etc.) are always labelled as controversial. They’re not. They shouldn’t be. And I’m not fearless, the fear is always there. I think ten times before I post something that might generate online abuse. In the end, I’d rather speak up than remain complicit.
You recently gave up your nomination for the Lux Style Awards. Does declining an accolade from such a prestigious platform not worry you that you may lose support?
Possibly, but it’s all right. I can either remain complicit, or lose support and I choose the latter.
How do you personify the vision behind Kamiar Rokni’s new collection Moonrise?
I think this answer has to come from people who planned and envisioned this shoot, Umar Nadeem and Azka Shahid. My two favourite people to work within the industry.
Tell us about your relationship with Kamiar Rokni and why you enjoy working with him.
Kamiar and I have worked on two projects thus far. He’s one of the finest designers Pakistan has produced. I truly believe that he’s incapable of disappointing and one can see the hard work that is invested in his designs. Pictures have become so deceiving nowadays, but I feel that pictures don’t do justice to Kamiar’s creations. Not only that, he himself is a professional and a very pleasant man.
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How do you react to fashion being called frivolous, wasteful or indulgent?
The textile industry is one of the biggest and most successful in Pakistan, so it’s none of the things mentioned above. However, I do feel fashion brands can take an initiative to be more ethical, but that seems like a long shot.
Three skills one needs to survive in fashion?
Very honestly, self-control in many regards is very important. As a model your body language counts for a lot. It’s not just about your face, and creativity, you need to have an ability to move, which is quite lacking in Pakistan’s fashion fraternity.
Your favourite campaign so far?
Shaadi wala ghar shot by Umar Nadeem for Zara Shahjahan.
A veteran model you wish made a comeback?
Iraj Manzoor, of course.
Apart from Kamiar Rokni, which Pakistani designers do you think are doing admirable work?
Zara Shahjahan, Rano’s Heirlooms, Fahad Hussayn, Misha Lakhani, I can go on and on.
Do you have any mentors within the industry?
Fahad Hussayn taught me a lot and so did Zara Peerzada. Outside the industry, I have my brother, Kayhan, to keep me sane.
If you could, what would you change about your job?
I think the fashion fraternity needs to start being more inclusive of genders and body type. We need to deviate from the conventional standards of beauty. It’s starting to become boring — everyone and every campaign almost looks the same.
Describe the Pakistani fashion fraternity in three words
Exhausting, competitive and talebearing.
A line from a movie that best describes you?
I have absolutely no idea.
Alternate career choice?
A bartender.
Model Emaan Suleman
Photographer Umar Nadeem
Stylist Azka Shahid
Hair and Makeup Ayaan Khan at Nabilas
I started with commercials three years ago. The rest as they say, is history.
Why do you think your drama serial Kaisa Hai Naseeban has drawn so much attention?
No woman chooses a life of pain. The drama serial sheds light on an issue that is close to many Pakistani households. Since the day our first promo aired, people began sending me messages and sharing stories on social media of women with experiences similar to my character Mariam. It’s the realistic portrayal that has captivated audiences.
You’ve receieved criticism for playing a victim at a time when females are in dire need of strong, powerful roles. How do you respond to that?
The drama serial narrates Mariam’s journey. She’s a typical, middle-class Pakistani girl who involuntarily agrees to her parents’ decision of marrying her first cousin in Malaysia. To her, this marriage signifies a picture-perfect future. However, that’s not the case. Many young girls are brought up with the belief that marriages are forever and it’s incumbent upon them to always please their husbands and in-laws. It takes time for my character Mariam to fight back and find her footing. If you watch the drama serial, you would see how she manages to save herself from a horrible marriage. If that’s not showing a strong, powerful character, what is?
What intrigued you about this project?
It was a no-brainer, considering it’s a real story and sends a strong message to everyone about marital abuse. It’s wrong of parents to marry off their daughters without knowing the other family properly, especially if they’re abroad.
What’s next in store for you?
I’ve just signed a rom-com opposite Ahsan Khan.
How do you choose scripts?
I base my decision on whether the script appeals to me or not. If it excites me, I go for it and let the team know.
I only sign scripts that speak to me personally. God has been very generous with the kind of projects I’ve landed so far and how the audience has received them.
What are your thoughts on the emerging concept of web series in Pakistan?
While I haven’t signed a web series project yet, it’s a great platform to share alternative stories that the television audience is not ready for. Even our conventional drama serials have massive following online. Almost every episode of Kaisa Hai Naseeban took YouTube in Pakistan by storm and received millions of views. As actors and content creators, it’s to our benefit if we are accepting of this change.
What secret can you share about the entertainment business?
There isn’t any secret. Everything is out there.
Do you find today’s media invasive?
To a certain extent, yes. However, one needs to know where to draw the line. The media is inept to figure out everything on its own. It also depends on how much you put out on social media for people to see and talk about.
How do you approach a rough situation?
I try to forget about it, so it’s easy for me to move on.
Describe your personal style.
I enjoy sticking to the basics. Fashion needs to be personal and comfortable in my opinion.
Is marriage on the cards?
Right now my only priorities are family and work. Life’s good!
Let’s go back to the beginning. How did you both meet?
We met ten years ago at a party and it’s been a joyride ever since. We’re best friends united by music and it’s our aim to spread love and happiness through it.
What kindled your passion for music?
Victorien: It’s a long story. I began performing and mixing music at the age of eight for my parents because they’re fond of it. Gradually, I began playing for larger audiences at private parties. It was then that I met Florent and together we hosted bigger events.
Tell us about your collaborative work.
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We’ve worked with people from Chicago, Cape Town and France and now plan to team up with Pakistani musicians. We’ve performed a transition with ten artists where we merged traditional Pakistani folk songs with house music. So far it’s been well-received.
How do you define your music?
In our DJ sets, we transition from melodic, ethnic to more powerful house music while keeping the tunes light. By the end of our performance, everyone is in full swing and our job is done.
Which music genres are you most drawn to?
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Florant: Techno, French rap and pop.
Victorien: It’s a broad variation of folk and funk. I listen to a lot of tribal music from Africa too. I feel it’s important as producers to open ourselves to a wide variety of musical genres.
What instruments do you like to play?
We engage with many musicians who play different instruments. They bring their own creative energy to the table. We really enjoy the guitar, piano and brass instruments.
Are you planning new music?
We have remixes and a few original songs that we plan to release soon. We’re also remastering and re-releasing our old track ‘Pale Sun Rose,’ a project we’re very excited about. It was the first song that got us international recognition.
How do you cope with blunders on stage?
Mistakes are a part of life and we need to learn from them. It’s less about mixing and more about the vibe we create in bringing people together. As long as the vibe is there, mistakes don’t matter.
As a duo, it must be difficult to reach a decision, especially considering you have slightly different musical inclinations. How do you reconcile?
Good question! We learn to surrender and trust each other’s judgement Worst-case scenario: we will call our manager to sort things out.
Were your families supportive of your decision to pursue this line of work?
Florent: Not initially. My family was sceptical of me playing music for a living during my early days but they’re very happy for me now. Victorien: They were supportive of my career choice, but were concerned about me attaining success.
How do you strike a balance between work and personal life?
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We’re doing our best. Music is our passion, so for us, it doesn’t feel like work. However, we make sure to spend time with family and friends while on tour breaks.
How was your experience performing in Pakistan?
Florent: This is my first visit here, so I was excited to see how the local audience would respond to our music. Many Pakistanis are familair with us, but it was time for us to get to know Pakistan.
Victorien: We love Pakistan. I visited in November for a private event as well and everybody welcomed me with warmth and kindness. It was special.
What advice would you give to aspiring music producers?
The best advice is to always follow your heart. Being a DJ is not about simply playing or producing music. It’s managing finances, marketing and communication. If your passion is strong enough and you want to pursue music, do it. You need to be ready to take risks and remember that even if you fail, at least you tried.
What inspired you to explore online connectivity as a serious career?
I’m passionate about creating scalable positive impact and moving the needle for millions of people. The internet, through connected mobile devices, provides an ideal canvas for improving lives at scale.
“Pakistan is transforming and leap-frogging many western countries. All it needs is bold imaginations and fearless entrepreneurs who take risk and make things happenâ€
When I moved back to Pakistan in 2003 from Silicon Valley, I saw the tremendous potential online connectivity was about to bring as a positive disruptor. With massive investment in telecommunications infrastructure made fifteen years ago, it’s no surprise that today we have sixty million people in Pakistan with smartphones and high-speed internet access. That’s 60% of the country’s adult population. I saw the potential of internet in Pakistan when few took it seriously and thus, invested my career in it. I’m passionate about digitising key use cases to maximise scalable impact.
ROZEE has had a considerable impact on the job market. Tell us about that.
Pakistan has one of the fastest growing middle classes in the world, who are now all online. My jobs platform, ROZEE.PK, is used by over nine million Pakistanis to find jobs. Over sixty-five thousand employers post jobs and receive more than forty thousand job applications a day through this platform. ROZEE.PK has helped over one million people find jobs, which has had a ripple effect in improving the lives of people around them.
You’ve been involved in multiple other projects. Can you walk us through those?
After the State Bank of Pakistan formally launched branchless banking regulation, I saw an opportunity to financially include those who didn’t have bank accounts into the economy. This was when I co-founded Finja, which has partnered with Finca Microfinance Bank to launch SimSim, Pakistan’s first one-minute digital bank account. Through SimSim, anyone with an ID card can open a bank account in about one minute — a huge contrast from the two-week long traditional process. SimSim has over three hundred thousand customers sending money to each other with zero transaction fees.
As someone who hates carrying cash and standing in lines, I also built EasyTickets.pk to digitise ticketing. EasyTickets lets you buy movie, bus and event tickets on your mobile phone. The convenience is addictive.
Looking back, how does the impact your businesses have made make you feel?
I’m proud to have helped over a million people find jobs in just a decade. Several hundred thousand others have found financial inclusion through the mobile bank accounts, so it’s been pretty rewarding. Our digital ticketing platform gives direct access to consumers allowing business models that weren’t viable previously to evolve. Pakistan is transforming and leap-frogging many western countries. All it needs is bold imaginations and fearless entrepreneurs who take risk and make things happen.
What was your childhood like?
My father worked with the United Nations while I was growing up, which gave me the opportunity to live in many different countries. I greatly value the diversity that I was exposed to. I did my middle school from Saudi Arabia and then moved back to Pakistan, where I was enrolled at the Karachi American School. My undergrad was in Electrical & Computer Engineering and Computer Science from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. I did graduate studies at Stanford, while working at Intel in Silicon Valley.
Riding on the wave of Laal Kabootar’s immense success, the talented actors sit down with Mehek Raza Rizvi to talk about the overwhelming response they’ve received
Mansha Pasha:
“I gave Laal Kabootar over a year of my life. The journey has been exciting and exhilarating, serving as a huge learning experience. The payoff just makes it all worth it.â€
—Mansha Pasha
Audiences had been waiting anxiously for Laal Kabootar ever since the trailer launch and for good reason. How does the phenomenal response feel?
The response feels absolutely incredible. I’m extremely humbled by the love all of us have received, not just from our fans but also from within the industry. It’s very overwhelming when your peers, seniors and mentors are rooting for you.
I gave Laal Kabootar over a year of my life. The journey has been exciting and exhilarating, serving as a huge learning experience. The payoff just makes it all worth it.
How challenging did you find portraying Aliya? Do you see any similarities between her and yourself?
Honestly, no. I don’t think Aliya and I have much in common at all. That doesn’t make portraying her challenging though, because that’s exactly what an actor’s job is—to step into another person’s shoes. She’s very quiet and internalises her emotions a lot, which is unlike me. I can’t really relate to her, but yes, I can definitely empathise with her.
This was Kamal Khan’s debut as a film director. While he’s definitely here to stay, what lead you to trust his vision?
I think his past work speaks for itself, but more than anything, what intrigued me the most is the way he orates and describes his vision. I knew from day one that he would execute this film brilliantly. When Kamal wants to tell a story, he gets absorbed in it in a manner I haven’t seen before. He won’t stop until he gets the desired shot and will make sure his team keeps doing their best too. I also enjoyed how we all bonded as a team, as it helped to have honest conversations about everything with him. Apart from this, he has commendable work ethic and that’s always a plus.
“I think the most amusing aspect has to be the fact that Ahmed and I were kept apart on set by our director.â€
—Mansha Pasha
Share some memorable moments from the set.
I think the most amusing aspect has to be the fact that Ahmed and I were kept apart on set by our director. He was very firm about us not joking too much or being silly. Other than that, I’ll never forget that Ahmed broke my phone or the friends I made during our journey.
What’s next?
For now, I’m completing a drama for ARY. I look forward to doing projects that are different and lighthearted.
Short & Sweet
If you could play any other character in the movie, which one would you pick?
Rashid Farooqui’s character is remarkable, even though I don’t think I’d be able to portray it. His wife’s character is also great.
What’s your favourite line from the movie?
“Tumharay haram kay paisey nai yeh kiya hai†(Your black money caused this)
Best thing about your job?
It keeps me on my toes
And the worst?
Actors don’t really connect with each other a lot, except while working together. We all share the same problems, so I feel if we worked on building a community and support system for each other, it would benefit everyone.
Apart from Ahmed, who are your favourite co-stars?
There are so many people, but if I had to pick one, it would be Sami Khan
Biggest competition?
My own self. I always feel like I can do better.
Do you have a life motto?
Just to be happy and not be too hard on myself
AHMED ALI AKBAR:
What does Laal Kabootar mean?
Laal (red) symbolises blood, violence and love, while Kabootar (pigeon) symbolises freedom, peace and flight. The name of the movie depicts the conflict the characters face in a city like Karachi, where freedom, blood, violence and peace go hand in hand.
Many believe your portrayal of Adeel may be your finest performance to date. How does the love you’ve garnered from the movie feel?
The response is overwhelming. I feel extremely fortunate to be part of Laal Kabootar. It’s something I’ll look back at and be proud of. I was very confident about the film, Kamal Khan’s intricately stylised storytelling, Mo Azmi’s beautiful cinematography, Taha Malik’s unique music and almost all other aspects of the film except for myself. It’s so hard to gauge one’s own work, so I had no expectations.
What were the most special moments while shooting for Laal Kabootar?
There were so many special moments that I can’t pick one. Although, the one thing that makes the entire process extraordinary was how we all drew inspiration from each other. Everyone on this team was so focused, the synergy of the team was remarkable. Every member had an earnest love for their craft and was driven to give their best.
What were the challenges you faced while trying to deliver a convincing performance?
I had no idea how I was going to play a Karachiite. I had to trust Kamal whenever he told me I was on the right track. When we started shooting, it had only been a few years since I’d moved to the city, so portraying a local was a challenge. Adeel could easily have been a caricature, but I wanted him to be real and flawed. I think the toughest bit was to be someone else, yet make the struggle as relatable as possible without crossing the thin line that borders on exaggeration.
“The name of the movie depicts the conflict the characters face in a city like Karachi, where freedom, blood, violence and peace go hand in hand.â€
—Ahmed Ali Akbar
What’s next?
Can’t disclose much, but there might be something very exciting coming up in a year’s time. As far as the near future is concerned, I’m just reading different scripts at the moment
Short & Sweet
If you could play any other character in the movie, which one would you pick?
Ibrahim, the character played by Rashid Farooqui
What’s your favourite line from the movie?
This is not the kind of script where I can pick a line. But two scenes that I really enjoyed watching in terms of dialogue were where an intense conversation takes place between Rashid Farooqui and Mohammad Ahmad, and the moment Aliya offers Adeel double the amount in return for an unspeakable crime.
If you could go back in time and redo any one thing in your journey with Laal Kabootar, what would it be?
I’d be more careful snatching Mansha’s phone in the scene mentioned above. I accidentally broke the screen.
Best thing about your job?
The variety of skills one has to learn in order to emulate the characters in the vast range of stories we become part of.
And the worst?
As George Clooney once said, “An actor is always looking for work.â€
Apart from Mansha, who are your favourite co-stars?
Yumna Zaidi, Osman Khalid Butt, Omair Rana, Sanam Saeed and Nadia Jamil
Do you have a life motto?
Don’t be good to be rewarded, let your goodness be a reward for others
Entrepreneur, politician and mother, Hina Butt wears many hats and excels in all of them. In a short span of time, she has become a respected voice for women’s rights, all while continuing to build her fashion house. Areesha Chaudhry talks to her about her journey and how she balances her life
You’re quite an accomplished woman. Tell us a bit about your educational background.
I went to LUMS for my undergrad and MBA and was lucky enough to make it to the Dean’s Honour List both times. From there I decided to delve into International Relations and completed a Masters in it from Middlesex University Dubai. I have also participated in the Global Leadership and Policy course at Harvard Kennedy School.
Take us through your career and your entry into the political arena.
Being a strong advocate of female entrepreneurship, I launched my fashion house Teena by Hina Butt after graduating from LUMS. There I also conducted vocational training for women who desired to be financially independent. For this I collaborated with FACES Pakistan for vocational training programs and market accessibility, where mine and my brand’s role has been to polish the skills of the women, in order to make their products more marketable.
“Being a strong advocate of female entrepreneurship, I launched my fashion house Teena by Hina Butt after graduating from LUMS. There I also conducted vocational training for women who desired to be financially independentâ€
Politics came about as a result of this programme. I became aware of the dire situation of women’s rights in the country and the lack of opportunities for a large majority of them. It was obvious to me that I’d have greater influence over driving such change through politics; ultimately, I received a reserve seat for women in 2013.
How has politics helped you achieve these goals thus far?
Once in the political system, I strived to create equal opportunities and obtain rights for Pakistani women. This included bills and resolutions that I presented; some of the ones that I am most proud of include the “Child Marriage Prohibition Bill 2013,†“Punjab Home Based Workers Bill 2016†and the “Punjab Domestic Workers Employment Rights Bill 2016.â€
I’m also grateful to have served as the General Secretary of the First Women Parliamentary Caucus of Punjab (2015-2016) and am currently serving as the Women Health Representative of the Women Caucus. But, the Women Protection Bill was one of the highlights of that tenure.
You were selected once again in the 2018 elections through the reserve seats. What policy changes are you focusing on this time?
Primarily education. However, I am also actively engaged in obtaining maternity rights for women and have submitted a bill regarding acid and burn victims.
“When you’re trying to challenge the status quo, you’ll face a lot of detractors. However, you need to step out of your comfort zone and pursue your goals with unwavering dedicationâ€
Please tell us how you balance work and your personal life.Â
It’s all about priorities. I quite enjoy being a mum, so my son is my priority and I enjoy spending time with him. In the morning it’s politics and the afternoons are with him. Then it’s straight to my business and dinner again with the family. I also ensure that I incorporate working out in my routine.
Any tips to achieve such a balanced life?
Make sure you engage in quality time with your family members: kids, spouse, parents, siblings —this keeps you grounded. And always enjoy your bedtime routine. It relaxes you for the day to come.
What are your thoughts on social media and its relation to all the work that you do?
My social media is very active, especially Twitter. I communicate all that I’m working on, as well as my thoughts on current affairs through this platform. For my business, Instagram has worked brilliantly. In my opinion, social media is like any other tool—one must use it wisely.
You’ve recently represented Pakistan at the World Economic Forum, which is quite prestigious. How did that feel like?
I had been invited by the World Economic Forum as a Young Global Leader —quite prestigious indeed! I was able to meet various heads of state and multiple companies who were interested to invest in Pakistan. My meeting with UNICEF’s director to discuss projects for the Pakistani youth was inspiring.
Recently you submitted a resolution in the Parliament requesting the UN to revoke Priyanka Chopra of her UNICEF Goodwill Ambassadorship. Why is that important to you?
I believe it’s quite contrary to the role of an ambassador of peace to commend military aggression, be it for any country. I felt it was irresponsible for someone in her position to encourage such aggression. Peace can only be achieved if we all work towards it and think of the greater good.
What message would like to give our readers?
When you’re trying to challenge the status quo, you’ll face a lot of detractors. However, you need to step out of your comfort zone and pursue your goals with unwavering dedication. Achieving your goals justifies the struggle. I’m a firm believer in Allah’s plans for all of us, so I keep faith that the path I’ve been set on will be fulfilling.
Royal Bourne is a supplier of premium fabric for over 20 years to many of Pakistan’s top-tier brands. Their focus on superior tailoring and modern simplicity sets them apart. They work with raw material (cotton, cotton yarn), fabrication (weaving and knitting), processing (dyeing and finishing) and apparel manufacturing. With all of that under their belt, they are now introducing their own clothing line, with modern designs and high quality fabrics.
What can customers expect from Royal Bourne?
We have a selected fabric source that is amongst the top 5 fabric manufacturers in the world. Hence, using our experience we are manufacturing high quality garments. Our manufacturing methodology is based on tailor made manufacturing instead of mass production.
What drives you?
A desire to provide high quality products for everyone.
How do customers benefit from your service?
We as a brand always think about our customers first. We want our customers to buy something that is of premium quality but at an affordable price. I guess the proof is in the pudding, as we have a high percentage of returning customers.
Tell us a bit about your backgrounds.
Imran Atif
I did my Masters in Marketing and studied visual arts from the New York Film Academy. I’ve also studied fashion design from the Indus Valley School of Arts and Architecture. Due to my past experience, I manage the creative and marketing aspects of the brand.
Waqas Naeem
Since I have studied engineering, I am into the technical side of things and have firm grip on fabrics.
Five words that represents your brand
l Royal
l Classy
l Premium
l Elegant
l Stylish
What’s the core message you wish to communicate?
Royal Bourne promises its customers high quality products with stylish designs at affordable prices. We have tried to cater everyone through our different collections or labels (Black, Red, Blue, Green, White, Pink and Platinum)
How does your brands image fall between these opposing characteristics?
l Masculine/Feminine
Answer: 4/5
l Simple/Intricate
Answer: 5/5
l Conservative/Extravagant
Answer: 5/5
l Necessity/Luxury
Answer: 5/5
l Fun/Serious
Answer: 3/5
l Professional/Casual
Answer: 5/5
l Modern/Classic
Answer: 5/5
What attributes and/or emotions do you want associated with your brand?
Happy and satisfied
How would you describe your brand to a friend?
Affordable, high quality fashion.
How would you describe its style?
Classy, Sophisticated and Trendy
What actor/actress would be perfect to play your brand? Why?
l For White label: Mahira khan because it’s all about elegance and class.
l For Pink Label: Hania Amir because the collection is all about trendy kurtis.
l For Black Label: Adnan Siddique since this collection is all about sophistication.
l For Red Label: Fawad Khan since he’s the stylish actor in town.
l For Blue Label: Ahad Raza Mir since he’s the trendsetter for people who want to look classy.
l For Green Label: we can take Hamayun Saeed due to his desi charisma.
With Pakistan Day approaching, Team GT pays homage to some of the country’s most iconic personalities. The contributions they made in their respective professions have set the precedent high, inspiring generations to follow
Sadequain (June 30th 1923- 10th February 1987) Calligrapher, painter and poet
You cannot think of Pakistani artists without mentioning one of the finest calligraphers and painters the country has produced. His social commentary through grand murals depicts mankind’s eternal quest to unlock its potential; these murals, such as the ones at the State Bank of Pakistan, Frere Hall Karachi and the Power House at Mangla Dam (this particular one being one of the largest in the world), are a testament to his talent. Most recently, his “Crucifixion” sold for a record Pkr sixteen million at UK’s Bonhams, making it his most expensive painting sold to date. Sadequain’s massive body of work got him several national and international accolades (including the Pride of Performance and the Sitara-e-Imtiaz), along with an ever-lasting legacy that continues to astound art lovers the world over till today.
Saadat Hasan Manto (May 11th 1912 – January 18th 1955) Writer, playwright and author
Saadat Hasan Manto remains one of the most controversial figures in Pakistani literature and a cultural icon all the same. Writing mainly in the Urdu language, this author and playwright produced works that are still critically acclaimed. Acknowledged as one of the finest Urdu writers of the 20th century, Manto chronicled the chaos that prevailed during and after the partition of the Subcontinent. He wrote unabashedly on taboo topics that often got him in trouble and lead him to face obscenity charges multiple times. Despite that, he remains one of Pakistan’s most celebrated writers, with many productions paying homage to his life. He was awarded the Nishan-e-Imtiaz by the Government of Pakistan posthumously.
Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan (October 13th 1948 – August 16th 1997) Vocalist and musician
Abida Parveen Sufi singer, composer, musician, painter and entrepreneur
Celebrated as one of the greatest mystic singers of all time, Abida Parveen began performing at shrines of Sufi Saints with her father in the early 1970s, who chose her over his two sons as his musical heir. She sings qawwali, ghazals, Sufi rock, Khyal, Kafis, classical, semi-classical and thumri. She’s won countless accolades including the President of Pakistan’s Award for Pride of Performance, the Hilal-e-Imtiaz, Sitara-e-Imtiaz and Lifetime Achievement Award at the Kaladharmi Begum Akhtar Academy of Ghazal in India. She was also honoured as the Peace Ambassador by SAARC in 2017.
Nazia Hassan (April 3rd 1965 – August 13th 2000) Pop singer, songwriter, lawyer and social activist
Pakistani pop music and Nazia Hassan go hand-in-hand. Credited with being one of the pioneers of the modern era of Pakistani music, Nazia, along with brother Zohaib Hassan, started a revolution in Pakistani music that lead to her being renowned internationally. Titled the “Queen of Pop,” Nazia’s fun, upbeat music was popular both among the youth and the older generations of her time. In addition to her career in music, she was also a UNICEF cultural ambassador due to her engagement in several philanthropic activities. Even now, Nazia’s disco beats remain fan-favourites. For her contributions to the music industry, she was awarded the Pride of Performance. She also won a Golden Disc Award, a Double Platinum Award and even a Filmfare Award for Best Female Playback Singer. Google honoured her with a doodle on what would have been her 53rd birthday.
Jahangir Khan Former professional squash player
Former World No. 1 professional Pakistani squash player, Jahangir Khan is considered one of Pakistan’s greatest sportsmen of all time and one of the greatest players in the history of squash. He won the World Open six times and the British Open a record ten times; Khan remained undefeated for almost five years from 1981 to 1986 and won 555 matches consecutively, earning him a Guinness World Record. Currently, he is Emeritus President of the World Squash Federation.
Noor Jehan (September 21st 1926 – December 23rd 2000) Playback singer and actress
Noor Jehan or “Malika-e-Tarannum” (the Queen of Melody) was one of Pakistan’s most prolific singers and actresses. Along with Ahmed Rushdi, she holds the record for having given voice to the largest number of film songs in the history of Pakistani cinema. Over the years she became one of Pakistan’s most iconic figures and sang some of the most memorable songs that have been recreated both sides of the border and continue to serve as inspiration for the new generation of musicians and singers alike. Although she acted in over 40 films, Noor Jehan’s lasting legacy is her music and a voice that can be instantly recognised. Awarded numerous times for her extensive oeuvre such as the Pride of Performance, Tamgha-e-Imtiaz, Millenium Award and over 15 Nigar Awards, among others. She was also a Cultural Ambassador of Pakistan. Noor Jehan is an evergreen icon indeed.
Bushra Ansari Actress, comedian, singer and playwright
Bushra Ansari is a true living legend who has continued to dominate the entertainment industry for over five decades. From acting, to singing, hosting and writing, she has done it all and aced each undertaking. She has received all major Pakistani awards, including Pakistan’s highest civilian award, the Pride of Performance. She is celebrated in particular for her impersonations of Noor Jehan and Tahira Syed, along with her impeccable performances in Fifty-fifty, Angan Terha, Raja Ki Ayegi Barat and Udaari.
Anwar Maqsood Scriptwriter, television host, satirist and actor
Literary giant Anwar Maqsood needs no introduction. A celebrated scriptwriter and playwright, he has been awarded many prestigious honours including the Pride of Performance and Hilal-e-Imtiaz. It wouldn’t be wrong to assert he has shaped Pakistan Television with his scripts for iconic television shows like Half Plate, Anghan Terha and Sitara aur Mehrunnisa, to name a few.
Imran Khan 27th Prime Minister of Pakistan and former international cricketer
Prior to entering politics, Imran Khan was one of Pakistan’s most recognisable cricketers. He made his debut for the Pakistani cricket team in 1971 at the age of 18 during the series against England at Birmingham. After graduating from the University of Oxford, he played on home ground for the first time in 1976 and went on to be a part of the team for around twenty years. Khan captained the team intermittently between 1982 and 1992. One of his greatest cricketing accomplishments was to lead the Pakistani team to victory at the 1992 Cricket World Cup, the only time Pakistan has won till date. Following this, he retired from cricket and pursued philanthropy and eventually politics.
Maheen Khan Fashion and costume designer
A force to be reckoned with, Maheen Khan is celebrated as one of the most respected pioneers of the fashion industry. Her truck art inspired design house, Gulabo, continues to produce trendsetting pieces that are timeless, yet eclectic. She was awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award by the Sindh government in 2017.
Bunto Kazmi Faahion designer
In a world that’s inundated with fashion campaigns and media hype, Bunto Kazmi, the rightful queen of bridal wear, is nothing short of a rarity. Despite shying away from publicity of any sort, her business has continued to flourish as a leading design house celebrated for its craft. Bunto’s original designs are heirlooms cherished by generations of women.
You set up your design house at a very young age. Did you always know you wanted to pursue fashion?
Yes, I always wanted to pursue fashion, even as a child. The creative side of this process came naturally to me and the long hours and level of commitment required to make these masterpieces proved to be worth it. Fashion has taught me a lot, shaping me into who I am today.
Tell us about your background in fashion design.
My aesthetic was inherent, but I refined it further through degrees in fashion from the London School of Fashion, Sota School of Arts (Singapore), TFWA World Exhibition and the ESMOD Fashion School in Paris.
You’ve represented the country at various international platforms. Walk us through your shows.
It’s been quite an exhilarating journey to becoming Pakistan’s first ever fashion brand to have received such international acclaim. I’ve had the most successful series of international shows over the past years, but I believe I raised my own bar after the presentation at Paris Fashion Week 2019.
I started this journey with my catwalk series at the most exciting runways with Jessica Minh Anh at the Hudson River in New York; now I’ve presented eight times internationally. In Spring 2015 when Jessica selected me to represent Pakistan on the 100-metre floating runway on the Hudson River in NYC, I drove inspiration from the oceans. I could clearly imagine my crystal-encrusted dresses dazzling the runway in shades of aqua. The desire to make them look elegant was my constant inspiration at the J Spring Fashion Show 2015 and it clearly reflected, with the sound of the sea breaking over the shore setting the tone for my collection.
Following this, Jessica personally contacted me appreciating me for my work and offering to participate in her upcoming show at Gemasolarin Spain. The show was staged right in the centre of Gemasolar, a futuristic solar power plant in Seville, Spain. I was honoured to have my collection sashay down this incredible runway.
Since then, I’ve showcased in London, Sydney, Paris, atop the Hoover Dam near Las Vegas and most recently in Hong Kong.
You received the Women Empowerment Inspiring Achiever’s Award in California last year. How was that like?
It was a tremendous honour to receive the prestigious award, presented by reigning Miss World, Manushi Chhillar. This event is held every year to celebrate the work of outstanding individuals from all walks of life. The recognition I recieved has increased my confidence and encouraged me to continue to work hard and make Pakistan proud.
Run us through the creative process of coming up with a collection.
Lots of elements go into coming up with a collection. Travelling for inspiration and research is the first step. Next comes finalising designs, after which we forward sketches to the technical department.
My work is heavily inspired by my surroundings. If it’s an individual I’m designing for, I want her to look effortlessly glamorous. The aim is to create fine pieces of art that never go out of style.
Who do you admire in the fashion world?
The rebellious Olivier Rousteing, who has been breaking his own mould in every sense.
How would you describe the spirit of your brand?
Syeda Amera’s signature style celebrates timeless elegance, delicate detailing and the very best craftsmanship. Known for custom couture gowns and fine apparel, the brand evokes a timeless feminine aesthetic. Offering ready-to-wear and an exclusive bespoke service, the brand is a result of my personal identity and experiences.
An accomplished entrepreneur, Sadaf Fawad Khan’s label SFK Bridals is for the chic and classy woman. Haider Rifaat catches up with her to talk about life in the limelight
Why fashion design?
I always had more of an interest towards the arts than sciences. So when life gave me an opportunity, there was nothing more exciting than diving right into it.
How would you define your label?
I identify my label with sobriety and delicacy. I pay a lot of attention to the intricacy of the design itself and it comes through as prominent on a base colour.
Choosing the appropriate colour is and remains an important part of the brand’s philosophy. I don’t want the work to be lost in a base colour just so that it may appear heavy. The same philosophy extends to the menswear collections, which we have been growing steadily. The design is simple, yet prominent and lets your personality add to it.
I’ve always been known in the media as an artist’s wife. However, that is not my introduction when it comes to my professional life. I intend to be known solely for my work
Where do you see yourself headed with SFK Bridals?
Just looking upwards and onwards.
TELL US ABOUT YOUR new collection.
Each collection is essentially an extension of the previous one, with more refinement. We have a wide range of offerings. There is the conventional lehnga choli as well as a new spin on the peshwas. There is a dramatic volume paired with modern and heavily embellished Chantilly pants. There are layered asymmetric lehngas with brilliant pops of colour. We will keep innovating to give our clients something new each time.
Was it difficult to establish your own identity in the industry?
Fawad and I got married thirteen years ago, which means I’ve always been known in the media as an artist’s wife. However, that is not my introduction when it comes to my professional life. I intend to be known solely for my work.
Do you enjoy your celebrity status?
I do and I don’t. While love from the public is heartwarming, it comes with its cons. As far as my work is concerned, it’s the same grind as for any other designer.
WHAT MAKES A MARRIAGE WORK?
Trust
WHAT DRAWS YOU TO PEOPLE?
Treating people with the same respect you’d want for yourself.
What do you want to be remembered as?
A kind person.
If you could be any age for a week, what age would that be?
I would want to be twenty-two again.
What are your personal favourite fashion labels?Â
I enjoy simplicity in design and that’s why I admire the quirky, yet minimal, aesthetic of Muse.
IN YOUR OPINION, WHY DO PEOPLE NEED PLASTIC SURGERY?
Plastic surgery is actually divided into many parts. People have a misconception and think that cosmetic surgery is the same thing. This field became a surgical sub-specialty after the World Wars, when soldiers needed reconstruction following trauma and burns, but the origins date back to techniques used for nose reconstruction in India in 800BC! During my training years I worked with hundreds of patients on cleft surgeries, burns and limb reconstructions (including a hand re-plantation—the first ever successful one in the history of Mayo Hospital). We also perform breast cancer and skin cancer reconstructions. Therefore, it is a diverse field and aesthetic surgery is one division. I must add that I dislike the word ‘cosmetic’ surgery and prefer ‘aesthetic’, as most quacks use this word to lure patients. Aesthetic surgery should only be performed by board-certified plastic surgeons, who have an interest and experience in this division of their field. Coming back to the question: Plastic surgery is needed by those who require reconstruction, repair, correction of birth defects, burns, hand surgery, cancer surgery and for aesthetic reasons ie. to look and feel better.
ARE SOME PEOPLE BETTER CANDIDATES FOR PLASTIC SURGERY VERSUS OTHERS?
It’s important to screen patients, as some can have body dysmorphia, in which they have an exaggerated sense of their condition. A plastic surgeon must be able to guide and advise the patient well and perform surgery only on stable and healthy patients.
DO YOU THINK THAT PATIENTS EXPECT TO GET “FIXED†AFTER SURGERY? IS IT ONLY A PHYSICAL ISSUE OR ALSO A PSYCHOLOGICAL ONE?
I don’t ‘think’ that, I know it. After having treated thousands of patients for skin conditions or trauma, I have seen only positive changes in them after surgery. It is true that this is a surgery of the soul; many patients cry in happiness after a successful treatment and their positive attitude spreads into their personal and public lives. Of course, a severely depressed individual should not be operated upon. However, once stable, it can really help in boosting self-esteem and self-confidence. Some patients have also told me that they felt it gave them a second chance at life.
WHEN YOU’RE OUT AND ABOUT TOWN, DO YOU TEND TO EVALUATE PEOPLE YOU MEET?
I don’t, as that would be cruel; we all have flaws and nobody is perfect. I do have my ‘radar’ on always though and I do feel I can help someone look the best version of themselves. I dislike pointing out issues and would rather that whomsoever would like to be treated by me, should state exactly what they would want to improve about themselves. After hearing everything, I advise in a professional manner.
IN PAKISTAN, WHAT ARE THE MOST COMMON PROCEDURES PEOPLE COME FOR?
Skin pigmentation, acne, scars, laser hair removal and wrinkles. In surgeries they want liposuction, rhinoplasty and tummy-tucks. Although, now facial rejuvenation surgery and fat transfer is gaining popularity.
WHAT’S THE PROCESS WHEN YOU FIRST MEET A CLIENT?
I always listen to what they have in mind. If I can help, I provide options, be it nonsurgical or surgical. If I cannot help them, I refer to colleagues who can.
DO MANY CLIENTS ASPIRE TO LOOK LIKE CELEBRITIES OR MODELS?
Some do, however I educate and explain how I cannot make a person look like someone else. Everything I do is extremely serious and I am amazed at how trivial it is assumed to be. Some have a casual approach and once I explain the real picture of what it will take to get what they want, they get surprised. I love the patients who educate themselves beforehand by a simple Google search, and by reading online forums. It only takes a few minutes, and it helps create a clearer picture for us both.
WHAT IS BEAUTY TO YOU?
Beauty begins from the deepest part of one’s inner self and radiates outward to the surface. One cannot truly be beautiful if one does not have a beautiful heart. Beauty gives one power and can cause more harm than good in this world.
WHY DO YOU THINK PEOPLE IN PAKISTAN DO NOT ADMIT TO UNDERGOING COSMETIC CHANGES?
It is a taboo here. People lie a lot more than you think. Although, I must add that I enjoy treating millennials for their skin issues or laser treatments, as they are more open about it and know exactly what to expect. Things are changing.
HOW DO YOU PICK A QUALIFIED SURGEON FOR COSMETIC CHANGES?
Conduct your own research into their background training, specialist degrees and ask for the before/after images. Also ask their patients and wait around the reception area to see results.  Yes, it is nosy, but it helps. Also, dig out information online and ask other specialists about the doctor’s reputation and expertise. Aesthetic medicine is the most innovative specialty and things change fast. You need to be treated by a doctor who is well trained, safe and holds a solid reputation for their work.
Recently, there have been a lot of skincare clinics popping up around town. What’s your take on that?
It is both good and bad. Businessmen have opened clinics offering machines which are substandard, promising a ‘facelift, no more wrinkles, forever’ after a single session of a poor quality ultrasound machine. These can be misleading; they do the same with body treatments too—promising inches off with one session. I always say: where are the before and after? There is a huge lack of ethics and zero regulation from medicaI authorities in this field. If a proper investigation is done, half of these clinics would be shut down. I get patients coming in every single day disheartened from such clinics, which is sad. I must add some clinics are okay with qualified skin specialists, but always do a background check on qualifications and demand to see lots of real patients’ before and after images and real results. For predictable and best results, you should choose a certified doctor, with appropriate qualifications and experience. Be inquisitive and be wise.
WHAT SURGERIES ARE TRENDING THESE DAYS?
Face and body fat transfer. The type of fat is different. For the face, the stem cells are enriched and softer, called nano-fat. For the body it’s micro-fat and it helpsto volumise and give better shape and contour.
WHEN SHOULD PEOPLE START ANTI-AGING REGIMENS?
From the age of 25.
WHAT IS YOUR ALL-TIME FAVORITE PROCEDURE?
It keeps changing. Nowadays, I enjoy facial rejuvenation surgery, rhinoplasty, plus nonsurgical options related to addressing all areas of the face such as eyelids, the nose, cheeks, temples, brows, chin, jawline and facial sculpting. You can say I am becoming a super sub-specialist in the face, having been in practice for over a decade now…. I believe I have arrived.
HOW DOES ONE GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU?
I am a fan of social media and the connectivity it provides. Prospective clients can contact me on my Instagram (@dr.obt or @halcyonclinics) and I will be sure to respond at my earliest.
Tell us about your roots in the arts. Where did your earliest influence in performing come from and did you always know you wanted to become an actor?
I’ve always had a keen interest in the arts. I have a double major in finance and art, with a minor in psychology. My concentration was sculpting with clay and metal as a medium. However, as far as performing or acting is concerned, it’s something I never envisioned myself doing. I think it was just a way of pursuing my late sister’s dream. She was a director and was intent on getting involved with films. I started working behind the camera and did a few commercials, which were followed by offers to act. One thing led to another and the rest is history. You’re a trained visual effects director from Franklin & Marshall College.
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Do you find yourself being finical about how your scenes are executed?
Not really. I don’t believe in interfering in someone else’s creative process. The best results are produced when everyone is trusted to do their job right. The director and his team know best. I will only ever give my input if I’m asked for feedback or advice. As far as finding an outlet to unleash my creativity is concerned, I’ll do it with my own production, which I’ll be able to speak more about soon.
The strong impression you made with Janaan in 2016 was preceded by a cameo in 021 that didn’t get you the same kind of attention. How did you stay steadfast in an industry that was still growing?
021 was a project I did without putting in too much thought. I wasn’t trying to achieve anything specific with that cameo. Janaan, on the other hand, came my way while I was already working on Yalghaar and had started taking my career as an actor more seriously. It offered me a great story, script and team to work with, despite being a small production. I credit its success to good intent. The whole team of Janaan poured out their hearts and souls into delivering the best they had and I guess that’s what eventually makes a film truly special. However, the movie business is tricky. You can never be sure of what does well at the box office eventually. You just have to give your best shot and pray everything goes well.
As far as performing or acting is concerned, it’s something I never envisioned myself doing. I think it was just a way of pursuing my late sister’s dream
From 021 to Momina Duraid’s Superstar, how has Bilal Ashraf evolved over the course of five movies?
Superstar promises its audience a complete package. People will see sides of me as a performer that they haven’t before. They’ve seen me do action and other serious roles, but this is the first time I’m dancing in a movie. It’s also the first time I’m playing a complete romantic.
Preparing for Superstar has been a phenomenal journey, primarily because Mahira Khan and I were sent for theatrical training in London. I’ve learnt some great new techniques, but applying them to the script proved to be challenging. We work in an environment where using foreign techniques means they need to be altered to suit the script so there’s extra effort required. I feel that helped me grow a lot as an actor. Everyone’s excited to see you and Mahira sharing screen space. Tell us more about the film.
I wish I could reveal more about the film, but at this point I can only assure you that everyone involved—from the spot boys to the actors—is giving their hundred percent. We’re working relentlessly to make this an unforgettable movie and hopefully people will be able to see that.
Once on a flight to London, a girl created a scene because she wanted to sit next to me but the seat was occupied by an eldery man who refused to move
We hear you’ve been working really hard at the gym recently. Why is fitness important to you?
Fitness should be important to everyone. A healthy lifestyle is crucial to a fulfilling life. Having said that, I’m working extra hard at the gym because it’s a requirement for my role in Superstar. I felt having a fitter form would add more layers to the character I’m playing. I was already training before the movie was offered to me, but tweaked my fitness plan further after everything was finalised with Momina. It’s all part of the phenomenal journey of Superstar I mentioned earlier.
“It’s a widespread notion that being vulnerable is a feminine trait—I think that mindset needs to be alteredâ€
How taxing is it to be a public figure in the world of social media? Do you ever feel the pressure?
The pressures of social media are manageable. It’s really in your control as to how much of your life you want to put out on Instagram or Twitter, or how seriously you take trolling. It’s true that negative comments can be overwhelming sometimes, but I accept it as part of being a public figure. Social media is a great tool to communicate with your audience, but at the end of the day it’s really just your body of work that matters. That’s what I try to focus on.
Preparing for Superstar has been a phenomenal journey, primarily because Mahira Khan and I were sent for theatrical training in London
We’re living in the age of change. As an individual of influence, how important do you think is it to reconstruct the cultural ideal of manliness into a more progressive model? What are the necessary steps to be taken?
It’s a widespread notion that being vulnerable is a feminine trait, I think that mindset needs to be altered. Men can demonstrate their feelings, they can cry, and it won’t make them any less of a man. The cultural ideal of manliness is definitely flawed, it doesn’t allow one to be human.
You’ve hardly ever spoken about your personal life. Tell us about your family and childhood.
I do try keeping my personal life away from the public eye, because I feel that’s my space of sanity. My personal life is extremely different from my professional life, although sometimes they do cross over into each other.
At home, I’m mostly found chilling with family and close friends, or indulging in sports. I grew up in Karachi, but spent a lot of my childhood years in London. I don’t remember being a studious child at all, in fact I was always getting into trouble for skipping classes to play sports.
Is marriage on the cards?
Of course. I’m a firm believer in the institution of marriage. I think it’s a natural way of life and everyone wants to settle down with the right person, so do I.
“My personal life is extremely different from my professional life, although sometimes they do cross over into each otherâ€
It’s a widespread notion that being vulnerable is a feminine trait—I think that mindset needs to be altered
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Worst thing about being in the limelight?
Your life is not yours at times.
Attention from the girls: love it or shy away?
Everyone likes attention, but sometimes I don’t know how to react and tend to get shy.
Craziest fan story?
Once on a flight to London, a girl created a scene because she wanted to sit next to me but the seat was occupied by an eldery man who refused to move.
What are the first things you notice about the opposite gender?
Hair and eyes
Who according to you are the best looking actors in the country?
I think Mikaal Zulfiqar is a good looking man.
Favourite co-actor?
Gohar Rasheed. It’s always fun when he’s around.
An actor you consider competition?
Not being diplomatic, but no one. I only consider myself competition.
“My personal life is extremely different from my professional life, although sometimes they do cross over into each otherâ€
Favourite project so far?
Janaan and Superstar
Guilty pleasure?
These days it has to be food, since I’m on a perpetual diet. Chocolate, a good burger or steak.
Favourite song?
Phool Khil Jayien from Rangreza, sung by Abida Parveen & Asrar Shah
Describe your personal style.
Casual and relaxed
Biggest pet peeves?
Greeting people at your convenience.
A habit of yours that annoys your family?
Currently, my obsession with eating clean. Separate meals need to be prepared for me.
Do you have pets?
Yes, a wild cat that just decided to claim territory in my house.
I find it challenging to define myself in a few lines—there is so much more to me than just words. I was born in Fairfax, Virginia where I had the opportunity to observe diverse cultures. After high school, I moved to Pakistan and enrolled at SZABIST, graduating as a gold medalist in Psychology. I’m an avid fan of horror and thoroughly enjoy acting and modelling.
Meet Haider Rifaat, an emerging model, web talk show host, and upcoming actor. The twenty-three-year old go-getter who is ready to embrace Pakistan’s thriving movie industry speaks to Hannan R. Hussain about his aspirations
Describe yourself in three words
Compassionate, loving and dedicated.
You created a web talk show titled The Haider Rifaat Show. How did this journey commence?
I learned the art of video making from my brother Moosa, when I was eleven. I started my YouTube channel in 2010 and uploaded fan made trailers of movies, television shows and rendered a couple voice-overs. Eventually, I decided to produce my own content, but had no knowledge of a tripod. Instead, I used creative means (like making use of a table) to record videos.
As I grew older and ventured into print journalism, I realised that it would be a great idea to have my own talk show on YouTube. If I think about accomplishing something professionally, I try my best to bring it to life. The Haider Rifaat Show was exactly that. My basic training in video editing came in handy as I created a web talk show that encompassed celebrity interviews, politics, entertainment, fashion and global news.
From script writing, editing, production, camera work and hosting, you seem to handle every element of the show on your own. What is the key to unlocking this balance?
I seek perfection in everything I do and leave no room for error. Yes, multitasking can drain you, but it is worth it.
When you are passionate about something, nothing is challenging. The key is determination, confidence and vigour. These qualities have enabled me to give the best to my work, be it acting or hosting. There is a stark difference between setting a goal and achieving it. I endeavour to achieve, and not procrastinate.
It takes time to rise to the forefront in theatre. What motivated you to hang on to your passion for acting?
Patience. I have done quite a few stage plays but they never constrained me acting wise. I was fortunate to have had screen experience well before my theatre days. Some may transition from theatre to screen but my case was different. I learned the techniques and methods to play with the camera at a tender age.
I feel failure has taught me a lot as well. Rejection motivated me to work harder and see things for what they were. One opportunity led to another, and things started transpiring on their own. I owe a lot to my supportive family, especially my mother, and God for all that I have accomplished so far.
Tell us more about your upcoming movie 24 Hours.
24 Hours is my feature film debut. The movie centers on human trafficking and I play a helpless victim in my supporting role. My character is powerful and important to the storyline. People will be able to relate to my character, especially the victims of trafficking violence. I’m certain that this project is going to be a turning point in my acting career and I’m thankful to the director, Sharf ul Murtaza Zaidi, for having faith in me.
Apart from 24 Hours, which other projects are in the pipeline?
I just wrapped up a drama serial titled Kiran for PTV Home that will premiere soon. It is about ambitious transgender individuals. I’m also writing my first book.
How do you prepare for a performance?
I just visualise myself in a situation and become that character. It is an inherent trait but I have to keep working on it. I try to keep my performances as natural as possible to evoke an equally realistic response from the audience.
If there was one role you could play in the future, what would it be and why?
I find a negative character very appealing. There is more margin for acting and an element of mystery. The compelling presence of an antagonist adds more depth to a story and makes it interesting.
How has the experience of interviewing some of Pakistan’s biggest public figures been like?
It’s been a game changer. I never thought I would get to interview renowned celebrities, journalists, anchors and politicians at such a young age. My experience has been fun and riveting because you get to share common ground with different people. Celebrities have their individual struggles that make them unique.
Describe a weekend in the company of Haider Rifaat.
I’m outgoing, so I spend most of my weekends exploring new places. I enjoy a good walk, exercising, shopping and watching mystery television shows and movies with family.
Who is your source of strength?
My mother. She is an extraordinary woman and a force to reckon with. She has a solution for everything and has been by my side in the darkest of hours. She’s been through very tough times herself, yet is always positive and determined to make everyone around her happy. I can share absolutely anything with her. She is my lifeline.
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Conquering the entertainment industry.
For all young people endeavouring to juggle their various passions, what advice do you have?
You can’t depend on anyone else but yourself. I created my own talk show from scratch to be in front of the camera. My willpower allowed that idea to blossom sooner than expected.
It’s also important to learn from your past mistakes, improve and grow. Don’t follow the crowd. It’s important to stand out in whatever you do.
The advent of social media and rapid advancements in technology have altered the landscape for traditional advertising. As an ad filmmaker, how do you keep up?Â
Keeping up with the change in advertising means adapting to new technology, production equipment and latest cinematic techniques. I’m liable as a filmmaker to stay updated with these trends to ensure I deliver quality content. It doesn’t matter to me whether my film is being published online or broadcasted over conventional platforms. What matters is achieving excellent standards and embracing good concepts—these could be my brainchild or come in the form of a collaboration. The creative process allows me to push my limits.
In your field, what are the most important skills required to stay on top of the game?Â
Out of the vast array of ad campaigns you’ve produced, which ones stand out as the closest to your heart and why?Â
As I mentioned before, I embrace good concepts. There are several films close to my heart but they’re special due to their own unique aspects and every film has some.
My latest commercial was for Mughal Steel, an industrial product with a technical application. This may seem like a product that’s hard to put out there in an exciting fashion, but challenges like this are exactly what make my job so much fun. We decided to focus on the structural integrity of the product, instead of boasting other physical properties (like withstanding tons of weight), combined it with a relatable and humorous script and a stellar star cast. The ad film was a success the instant it was aired.
There are several other ad films that hold sentimental value for me. Picking one favourite is like choosing between one’s children. It’s next to impossible.
“More seasoned and polished actors can deliver with better expression, but this doesn’t mean you stop casting new faces in your filmsâ€
What are the responsibilities that come with being able to influence consumer opinion?
People often believe marketeers lie to promote a product but I believe the audience has matured now and won’t be fooled. The new generation is tech savvy and is exposed to a vast pool of knowledge through the internet and personal experience. I cannot influence consumers into purchasing a product they’re not interested in. Instead, my power lies in creating educational content that intrigues the audience enough to find out about its qualities and draw comparisons with competition. How effectively I can deliver this undertaking is what my ultimate job is, and I must admit, I’m pretty good at it.
Are big celebrity names crucial to the success of an ad campaign?Â
It all depends on your message. The masses know that the person on a screen, regardless of his fame, is an actor playing a role. It is the information he or she gives out that matters. More seasoned and polished actors can deliver with better expression, but this doesn’t mean you stop casting new faces in your films. I will keep on believing that there are hidden gems just inches from you, every time you set out to make a film. All you need to do is choose the right fit for your product and script.
Run us through the process of coming up with an effective ad film.
Research, teamwork, pursuit of quality, transparency, charisma, strong script, knowing your demographics, understanding consumer needs, knowing your product, understanding competition, making good use of your training and experiences, arguing, fighting, convincing others, imagining- I could go on for hours! To cut it short, one needs to come up with the right mix of things to create something effective.
“I’m working on an action based romantic comedy. It took us around seventeen months to come up with the script because I didn’t want to rush into making something averageâ€
How do you measure professional success?Â
I am no advertising guru. I actively follow the mentors who taught me all that I know. To be able to achieve a certain goal, and then being able to move on to the next big thing is what success means to me. Â Success is not a destination but a continous pursuit of excellence.
What is the future of ad films in Pakistan?Â
Very bright. There’s huge potential in advertising. It is an ecosystem that is going through constant evolution. Our market is thriving with new entrepreneurs who are young, enthusiastic and passionate. The credit goes to them for keeping the advertising industry running at its optimal potential.
We hear you have an interesting relationship with music. Tell us about it.
Well, it’s no secret to the people who know me well that I‘m crazy about music. I created a few songs and produced some music videos back in the day and am happy to report that the passion still exists within me. I’ve finally worked on a full album, a project I’m very excited about.
We know a lot about your professional ventures but would love to find out more about you as a person. What is life like at home and how do you unwind?
I am an obedient son, a faithful husband, a doting father and a loyal friend. I tend to live two lives everyday; one is at work and the other at home. When I’m home, nothing else in the whole world can distract me. I’m blessed with an extremely loving support system and try my best to pay back with just as much selflessness.
I’m extremely dedicated to God. Whatever I have is because of him and I’m eternally grateful for the blessings he’s bestowed upon me.
Lastly, please tell us about your recent feature length production. Is it true that you’ll be directing a film?
Yes, it’s true. I’m working on an action based romantic comedy. It took us around seventeen months to come up with the script because I didn’t want to rush into making something average. While we worked thoroughly on budgets, cast and composition, the real success of a film is dependent on the quality of content.
The initial outline of the script took us around two months, after which we began creating links between the characters and situations. I’m sketching the whole project as a storyboard and am in no rush. I plan to give it as much time as required and will announce it officially only once it goes into pre-production.
We’ve all seen him strutting down the runway, bagging major fashion campaigns and receiving praise for noteworthy performances in film and TV, but few know Omer Shahzad beyond his brooding good looks and professional success. Â Sana Zehra meets the promising star to dig deep
You’re on the cover of our Valentine’s Day issue, so of course, we have to start off by asking about your love life. Are you in love and is marriage on the cards?Â
It’s too early for me to disclose, but if anything materialises, I’ll let you know. I’m a firm believer in the institution of marriage and envision myself taking the plunge when the time is right, which will be soon hopefully.
“I’m a firm believer in the institution of marriage and envision myself taking the plunge when the time is rightâ€
“I’m a firm believer in the institution of marriage and envision myself taking the plunge when the time is rightâ€
What’s your take on modern romance? Why do you think the percentage of long-lasting relationships has decreased in your generation?Â
I’m a pretty old-school guy, so can’t relate to the dynamics of modern romance. I’m a reserved person, an introvert, so it takes me time to open up to people. This means it’s not easy for me to trust anyone enough to get into a relationship with them. However, once I am in one, I make sure I honour it with all I have. It’s crucial to fully understand someone before committing to them, but I find a lot of young people these days rush into relationships they aren’t truly ready for. When the inevitable problems occur, they find it hard to cope and look for an escape.
Do you believe love is blind?
No. Real love is not blind, infatuation is. If you decide to spend your life with someone, your fundamental value system needs to be the same. Of course, no two people can be completely identical, and you have to accept your partner with his or her quirks. However, that applies to certain habits, not principles and core personality traits. Love is a sacred emotion, it needs to be shared with caution.
If you were to give one piece of advice to young couples, what would it be?
Losing a relationship hurts, but losing yourself in a relationship hurts more. Be wise.
Moving on to your professional life, tell us how you started your modelling career.
I auditioned as a model for Bridal Couture Week in 2012 and got selected amongst 200 male models. Haven’t looked back since then.
“No two people can be completely identical, and you have to accept your partner with his or her quirks. However, that applies to certain habits, not principles and core personality traitsâ€
We noticed you were missing during the promotions of your film Jawani Phir Nahi Aani 2 (JPNA2). Why was that?Â
I don’t want to get into details but I was missing because the team never informed me of the promotions. It obviously felt bad; I had high expectations from this project. Things clearly didn’t pan out as I had assumed.
How has JPNA2 prepared you for your leap into feature films?
Since I come from a modelling background, acting has proven to be a completely new experience for me. However, it’s an avenue I’ve always wanted to explore and JPNA2 was just the beginning. The movie provided me some much needed insight and understanding of how things work in the industry.
Tell us about your upcoming projects.
I’m very excited about my upcoming drama Gul-o-Gulzaar. It’s a labour of love; a project very close to my heart.
In one of your interviews, you claimed being better than Hrithik Roshan. Why are Bollywood actors a benchmark?
Bollywood is a benchmark for obvious reasons. We’ve been watching Indian movies since years, and while Lollywood is finally on the right track, it’s still growing as an industry. There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that Bollywood’s filming standards are high, nor is there anything wrong with us trying to achieve the same. In fact, doing so is what will eventually make the local audience choose Pakistani films over Indian ones, something we’ve been able to do successfully with television.
“I was missing because the team never informed me of the promotions. It obviously felt bad; I had high expectations from this projectâ€
Tell us about your obsession with fitness.Â
I’m a fitness model, it’s what I do for a living. The body I have today is something I’ve worked extremely hard to achieve and continue pushing myself daily to maintain. Trust me, it’s not an easy job. I’m proud of my body because it’s a product of a lot of heavy labour.
How do you overcome setbacks?
I’m a very optimistic person and always focus on the positives more than the negatives. Life is full of disappointments and challenges, particularly professional ones. This attitude of mine helps me bounce back from failure each time.
“There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that Bollywood’s standards of filming are great, nor is there anything wrong with us trying to achieve the sameâ€
What’s one lesson you had to learn the hard way?Â
The biggest lessons in life are always learnt the hard way. Experiencing loss you weren’t prepared for makes you grow and turn into a version of yourself you never expected to become. For me, the turning point in my life was when my mother passed away. It was as if my biggest support, the pillar I always leaned on, had been taken away from me. I knew the only way to survive was to rely on no one but myself; to be self-sufficient and independent.
What does a typical day in your life look like?Â
I work throughout the day, every day. Once I’m home I change and go out for a walk, come back, have dinner and jump straight into bed. So, a typical day in my life is pretty mundane and predictable. On the occasional day off though, I try spending time with family and friends.
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Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes, definitely.
How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?Â
Honestly, I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day.
Dream date?
Visiting the locations in London that are close to my heart with my significant other.
Perfect Valentine’s Day song?Â
Aaj janay ki zid na kero
Most embarrassing memory?
I had a major crush on one of my teachers in school. The day I finally decided to muster up some guts and profess my love to her, she revealed what I had done to the whole class. I was awfully embarrassed.
Describe yourself in three words.
Sensitive, Reserved, Hilarious
A superstition you believe in?
Wishing upon a fallen lash.
When and where was the last time you danced?
At my sister’s wedding a few years back and for a song in JPNA2.
Hidden talent?
I can sing, but that isn’t a hidden talent anymore.
Dream project?
A good action film.
Greatest fear?
Losing the people I love. Also, I’m petrified of roller coasters.
Imagine you are the PM of our country. What three things would keep you up at night?
Poverty, Lack of resources , Ever-growing crime rate
Nuscie: We met in the year 1964 in Nathia Gali, where I had come to prepare for my Senior Cambridge exams and Jeelo was visiting with family. Within three to four days of getting to know each other, he asked me to marry him.
JJ: I saw her for the first time in Nathia Gali, when I was eighteen and she was sixteen. I remember staring at her as she walked up a path. I’ve been in love with her since that moment.
The day you got married, do you think you fully comprehended what a lifetime together would look like? What were your expectations from marriage?Â
Nuscie:  I certainly had no idea, I was way too young. Marriage has a lot to do with luck because you never truly get to know someone until you live with them. I’ve been fortunate because not only did JJ turn out to be a very fine person, but my in-laws too were loving and refined people.
JJ:Â The only expectation I had while getting married was to be able to hold on to her for the rest of my life.
What’s the most challenging part about marriage?Â
Nuscie: JJ and I are very different in certain ways. I’m always working and travelling, while he’s more of a homebody who prefers being home with his children, dogs, music and books. When you have equality and trust in a relationship though, no difference is big enough to come between two people.
JJ: Jealousy
And the most rewarding?Â
Nuscie: The most rewarding outcome of our beautiful marriage has been our two children, Nadia & Omar. I also cherish the relationship we have with each other’s families. Jeelo is very close to my younger (and only) sister and her two daughters.
JJ: For me, just looking at her every day is the most rewarding part of our marriage.
What’s the most romantic thing your partner has done for you?
Nuscie: JJ is the more romantic one out of the two of us. He still writes poetry and sings for me. He has a beautiful voice, which our son, Omar, has inherited from him.
JJ: Just smiling at me. It makes my day.
What are some of the milestones with your partner that you remember most fondly?Â
Nuscie: I’ve lived a fairytale life. It’s the stuff dreams are made of. Way too many milestones to put on paper.
JJ: There are way too many.
What gets you through the tough times?Â
Nuscie: The most difficult time in our marriage was when our first child, Zain, died. He was a little under two years old. I don’t think we ever fully recovered from that pain.
JJ: Faith. When we lost our first born, Zain, we were devastated. It was faith that kept us strong and allowed us to mature as individuals and partners.
The one thing you love and one thing you hate most about your partner?Â
Nuscie: There are so many things to love about JJ. He is a wonderful human being; humble, loving and kind. The one habit of his that I would like to change though, is making him less antisocial. I really have to drag him out of the house.
JJ: I love everything about her but the only thing I disapprove of is her scolding the house help.
What do you think has been the secret to your successful marriage?Â
Nuscie:Â Love, love & love.
JJ: Understanding, tolerating and loving each other every step of the way.
How do you think couples these days are different from your generation?Â
Nuscie: Young people nowadays don’t have the patience to make a marriage work. Getting used to a new way of life, and getting adjusted to each other’s families takes hard work and commitment. One has to learn to make their partner a priority.
JJ: Human relations are the same, they don’t change. The only thing that changes are cultural norms.
Which one piece of marriage advice would you give to new couples?
Nuscie: Be patient, loving and respectful. No amount of material wealth will give you happiness if your life is devoid of love and good relationships.
JJ : Try to forgive each other’s mistakes and tolerate each other’s idiosyncrasies.
FARHEEN ZEHRA & ADNAN JAFFER : Married for 10 years
A Filmi Twist
How did you meet?Â
Farheen: We had an arranged marriage but with a slight filmi twist. Our mothers planned for us to meet at a restaurant without telling us it was a setup. After hours of intense conversation, I knew I would say yes to Adnan if he proposed.
Adnan: We met through our mothers, when they tricked us into believing their well-planned setup was a coincidental meeting. My mother ended up asking Farheen and her mother to join us at our table, and the rest is history.
The day you got married, do you think you fully comprehended what a lifetime together would look like? What were your expectations from marriage?Â
Farheen: Yes and no. I don’t think anyone can fully comprehend what marriage entails until you seal the deal. I didn’t expect the infinite amount of encouragement I got from Adnan to pursue my goals. I’m very grateful.
Adnan: Being an avid sportsman, I thought of marriage as walking into another sports arena, where a great match awaited me. Turned out, in this game she’s the tougher player who exceeds expectations every day. However, with a set of twins to raise now, I feel it’s time to juggle responsibilities.
What’s the most challenging part about marriage?Â
Farheen: Â Accepting your spouse for who they are, compromising on a daily basis and not letting ego come between your marriage.
Adnan: Being selfless and sharing your time.
And the most rewarding?Â
Farheen: The little moments: sharing a cup of tea, listening to Bowie, going out for paan, discussing books and movies.
Adnan: Having a confidant and critic. I’m ridiculously lucky and still wonder what I did right to deserve her.
What’s the most romantic thing your partner has done for you?
Farheen: He arranged the most romantic dinner for our first Valentine’s Day together. Between the two of us, he’s definitely the more romantic one.
Adnan: I’m usually the one making an effort in this department. She goes out of her way to make me feel special every year on my birthday though. As soon as the clock chimes midnight, she makes sure everything is about me.
What are some of the milestones with your partner that you remember most fondly?Â
Farheen: There are so many of them. It’s hard to choose.
Adnan: Quite a few. I should have kept a diary.
What gets you through the tough times?Â
Farheen: Communication. We’ve discovered talking things through always helps.
Adnan: Proper meetings. I’m serious! Nothing better than discussing the matter at hand, face to face.
The one thing you love and one thing you hate most about your partner?Â
Farheen: I love how supportive he is of my personal and professional endeavors, and his undying concern for my wellbeing. Hate that he gets lazy at times.
Adnan: I love so many things about her. From the way she keeps me grounded, to her minimal aesthetic, her forthrightness and love for life. I hate when she gets into unnecessary details while explaining things to people though.
What do you think has been the secret to your successful marriage?Â
Farheen: Â Not taking the whole marriage thing very seriously!
Adnan: Finding balance in each other, pushing each other to achieve our goals and sharing a love for the arts, travel and fashion. Most importantly, our beautiful twins.
How do you think couples these days are different from your generation?Â
Farheen: The one major difference between us and couples today is social media. We didn’t have to worry about hashtags and likes.
Adnan: I find couples these days too impressionable and influenced by social media. They’re caught up in how others are viewing them.
Which one piece of marriage advice would you give to new couples?
Farheen: Respect each other. Love cannot thrive without it.
Adnan: It’s a roller coaster ride. Scream, laugh, cry, but hold your hands throughout.
Credits: Text: Sana Zehra – Photos Courtesy: Farheen & Adnan
SAMMIA RIFAAT & DR. RIFAAT HUSSAIN : Married for 34 years
Meant To Be
How did you meet?
Sammia: Rifaat is my cousin. It was my mother’s wish to get both of us married. I was too young back then to make a decision for myself but firmly believed my parents knew best. He would often write letters to me, which made me realise he would take care of me.
Dr. Rifaat: We’re cousins so we always knew each other but I developed a fondness for her when I visited her family in London in 1981.
The day you got married, do you think you fully comprehended what a lifetime together would look like? What were your expectations from marriage?
Sammia: I didn’t have many expectations from marriage. My only wish was for him to make a loving husband, which he did. I got a life partner far better than I could have imagined.
Dr. Rifaat: I had a very clear idea of marriage and was ready to take on my responsibilities as a husband. I was confident that Sammia would make a great life partner and in retrospect, that turned out to be true. I had no set expectations but knew I had made a good choice for myself.
What is the most challenging part about marriage?
Sammia: To raise good children by imparting wisdom and inculcating values in them. It’s a lot of hard work.
Dr. Rifaat: To reconcile differences and develop a common understanding.
And the most rewarding?
Sammia: Receiving love and appreciation from my husband and children.
Dr. Rifaat: Our children.
What is the most romantic thing your partner has done for you?
Sammia: Rifaat has done so many things for me over the course of our marriage. Not every woman is blessed with such a great husband.
Dr. Rifaat: Standing by me and having faith in our relationship during tough times.
What are some of the milestones with your partner that you remember most fondly?
Sammia: Having children and raising them together.
Dr. Rifaat: Travelling together to the United States, having two of our children in Fairfax, Virginia and celebrating our 25th anniversary.
What gets you through the tough times?
Sammia: Whenever my extended family mocked or criticized me unnecessarily, my religion and connection with God helped me stay strong. My children too, have played a key role in getting me through tough moments.
Dr. Rifaat: Belief in each other’s love and unshakable faith that good times are around the corner.
The one thing you love and one thing you hate most about your partner?
Sammia: I love that he trusts me blindly. I hate how sometimes he makes hasty decisions that he regrets later.
Dr. Rifaat: I love her sincerity and openness. What I find disagreeable is her tendency to see the world in black and white.
What do you think has been the secret to your successful marriage?
Sammia: For me, it has been listening to and learning from my husband.
Dr. Rifaat: Loving and understanding each other.
How do you think couples these days are different from your generation?
Sammia: In today’s generation, the biggest problem is that if one partner is more accomplished or enlightened than the other, it becomes a matter of ego. No one wants to learn from one another. In the world of social media, there is a severe lack of tolerance.
Dr. Rifaat: Most young couples today have a flawed view of marriage and fail to recognise this institution as sacred.
Which one piece of marriage advice would you give to new couples?
Sammia: Practice patience and love selflessly. Also never let go of the following things:
Your parents’ values
Faith
Compassion
Dr. Rifaat: Don’t stay in an unhappy marriage.
Text: Â Haider Rifaat – Photos Courtesy: Â Sammia & Dr. Rifaat
SANA FAKHAR & FAKHAR IMAM: Married for 9 years
An Adventure Of A Lifetime
How did you meet?
Both: We met at the gym.
The day you got married, do you think you fully comprehended what a lifetime together would look like? What were your expectations from marriage?
Sana: Fakhar swept me off my feet at a point in my life when I wasn’t expecting to meet anyone as loving and understanding as him. I have to admit though, I had my fears. Marriage is a huge decision regardless of how much you admire your partner.
My only expectation from this new commitment was for my husband and his family to accept me for who I am and consider me a part of their family with sincerity. God has been very kind. I’ve received more love and respect than I had hoped for.
Fakhar: I wanted Sana and my family to get along and love each other. Thankfully, their relationship is exemplary.
The one thing you love and one thing you hate most about your partner?
Sana: Fakhar is my soulmate. I hold in high esteem his honesty and passion for the things he loves. I can’t think of anything I hate about him.
Fakhar: Her ability to love unconditionally is admirable. What I think she could work on, is her stubbornness and occasional bouts of frenzy.
What’s the most challenging part about marriage?
Sana: Marriage is constant work. Adjusting into a new family, in particular, can be quite a challenge but I think I’m one of the few lucky ones who were spared the ordeal.
Fakhar: The initial years of familiarising yourself with your partner’s likes, dislikes and quirks can be challenging. If you love each other though, it’s all worth it.
And the most rewarding?
Sana: For me, it’s the warmth with which I was welcomed into Fakhar’s family, our two boys and the sheer joy of having him as my husband.
Fakhar: Waking up next to her every morning.
What’s the most romantic thing your partner has done for you?
Sana: The day Fakhar proposed to me was absolutely beautiful! He decorated my sister’s house with over five hundred heart-shaped flower bouquets and got down on his knee. While I found it childish and got upset initially, I called him soon after and said yes.
Fakhar: There are countless things I could list here but if I had to pick one, it would be the fabulous surprise birthday she hosted for me recently.
What are some of the milestones with your partner that you remember most fondly?
Sana: We are both sporty and like to put our physical strength to test. We’ve been on adventures most people wouldn’t believe. I feel pushing our limits together helps us grow as partners, while creating memories we’ll cherish forever.
Fakhar: There are way too many.
What gets you through the tough times?
Sana: Fakhar’s love and support. When I delivered my first born, for example, I gained a lot of weight. As expected, people were very cruel and unforgiving, but my husband didn’t let me get demotivated. He devised a fitness plan for me and made sure I followed it religiously. I was back in shape in no time.
Fakhar: Communication and understanding each other’s emotions.
What do you think has been the secret to your successful marriage?
Sana: Being friends, honouring commitment and compromise.
Fakhar: We are really good friends and try to be understanding of each other’s emotional needs, in good times and bad.
How do you think couples these days are different from your generation?
Sana: I think couples these days are smarter. They invest time in getting to know each other and nurturing a friendship before taking the plunge, which is great.
Fakhar: Due to more exposure through the media and travelling, young couples today have a better understanding of human emotion and mental wellbeing. This definitely helps them make better decisions.
Which one piece of marriage advice would you give to new couples?
Sana: Don’t give in to the typical dynamic of marriage portrayed by our culture. It’s important to understand that marriage looks different for everyone.
Fakhar: Be more understanding of each other.
Text: Sana Zehra – Photos Courtesy: Sana and Fakhar
SHAZIA WAJAHAT & WAJAHAT RAUF: Married for 20 years
College Sweethearts
How did you meet?Â
Shazia: Our families are friends, so the first time we were introduced was by our mothers at an event. We became friends during our undergraduate degree though, when we coincidentally ended up at the same university.
Wajahat: The first time I met Shazia was at a family affair. The second time was in college.
The day you got married, do you think you fully comprehended what a lifetime together would look like? What were your expectations from marriage?Â
Shazia: The day we got married, all that mattered to me was knowing Wajahat was the only person I’d like to share my life with. I entered the relationship with an open mind and heart, ready for any ups and downs we may experience.
Wajahat: Yes. I was fully prepared to spend my life with Shazia, way before our wedding was finalised. At the risk of sounding cheesy, I think it comes naturally once you’re sure you’ve met “the one.â€
What’s the most challenging part about marriage?
Shazia: Every day presents new challenges but overcoming them is extremely gratifying.
Wajahat: Transitioning from being single and carefree to sharing everything with another person takes effort. You need to give yourself and your partner time to get used to each other’s personalities.
And the most rewarding?Â
Shazia: Sharing the rest of your life with the one you love.
Wajahat: Having a best friend for life.
What’s the most romantic thing your partner has done for you?
Shazia: Wajahat is a very romantic person. He loves surprising me with thoughtful gestures, but the one I cherish the most is planning a second honeymoon to Switzerland for our 20th Wedding Anniversary.
Wajahat: Shazia is an expert at arranging surprise parties. I think over the course of our marriage she’s thrown me at least twenty-five—on three different continents.
What are some of the milestones with your partner that you remember most fondly?Â
Shazia: The birth of our boys tops the list for me, followed by performing Hajj together last year.
Wajahat: There are so many. From graduating together, to the birth of our children, travelling the world and making films—every day has been special. We’ve survived twenty years without a single serious fight.
What gets you through the tough times?
Shazia: Remembering the good times.
Wajahat: Advice from our parents, along with our own contrasting skill sets to deal with conflicts. I’m an idealist and very sensitive, while she’s practical and realistic; we find the perfect balance.
The one thing you love and one thing you hate most about your partner?Â
Shazia: He’s an exceptionally loving husband and father, but I would appreciate if he stopped triggering my OCD.
Wajahat: I love that she’s a very intelligent and caring woman. I dislike her obsession with keeping things in perfect order all the time.
What do you think has been the secret to your successful marriage?Â
Shazia: Being patient, giving each other space and appreciating each other.
Wajahat: Despite the fact that you’ll never find either of us socializing without one another, we understood the importance of giving each other space very early in our marriage. I think that played a huge role in the success of our relationship.
How do you think couples these days are different from your generation?
Shazia: I find couples these days to be very impatient and insecure, which can be disastrous for marriage.
Wajahat: It takes a lot of patience to make marriage work, but I see the willingness to put in effort decrease with each generation. Couples these days aren’t as selfless as us, just like we’re no match for couples from our parents’ generation.
Which one piece of marriage advice would you give to new couples?
Shazia: Have patience and trust your partner.
Wajahat: Always count your blessings when going through a rough patch.
Credits: Text: Sana Zehra – Photos Courtesy: Shazia & Wajahat
SAIMA CHAUDHRY & QURRAM HUSSAIN: Married for 9 years
Finding The Right Balance
How did you meet?Â
Saima: We were introduced by my cousin and friend, Bobby.
Qurram: Turns out, Bobby has introduced other people who ended up getting married as well. He clearly has a knack for matchmaking.
The day you got married, do you think you fully comprehended what a lifetime together would look like? What were your expectations from marriage?Â
Saima: All we cared about was wanting to be together. In the words of Rumi “lovers don’t finally meet somewhere, they are in each other all along.â€
Qurram: At that point I was just happy to have found someone who understood me. I most certainly wasn’t aware of the inevitable ups and downs couples go through.
What’s the most challenging part about marriage?Â
Saima: With Q’s hectic schedule, we have to stay apart very often. I find that hard at times, but we make it work regardless. The kids and I are his biggest fans and love seeing him perform on stage.
Qurram: Balancing Saima’s professional commitments and my travels is tough. However, we try finding the right balance.
And the most rewarding?Â
Saima: The feeling of overwhelming peace when we are together.
Qurram: Knowing I have a rock by my side. We also really enjoy our kids—they can be a handful, but add a lot of color to our lives.
What’s the most romantic thing your partner has done for you?
Saima: On one of my birthdays, Qurram got customised t-shirts made for himself and our son Keyaan. The one he wore said “I love Saima,†while the one Keyaan wore said “I love Saimama.†I found it very endearing.
Qurram: Saima is indomitable when it comes to thoughtful gestures and I struggle to keep up with her. We happened to be travelling once on my birthday and when we landed in Dubai on transit, she made sure the staff in the lounge had a cake arranged, and joined her to sing Happy Birthday.
What are some of the milestones with your partner that you remember most fondly?Â
Saima: We both love travelling and have experienced much of the world together. We have had the opportunity to see some amazing places.
Qurram: We always experience new milestones while traveling. We prefer taking the kids along, which means there are many variables but we embrace them all. It gives us so much to remember and cherish.
What gets you through the tough times?Â
Saima: Knowing that no matter what, he is my soulmate.
Qurram: The fact that despite being different individuals, our core values are the same.
The one thing you love and one thing you hate most about your partner?Â
Saima: Q is the kindest, most gentle man I have ever met but I hate that he loses his phone all the time!
Qurram: I love her spontaneity; she’s always ready for the next big adventure. On the flipside, she’s a clean freak, which means the spring-cleaning never ends.
What do you think has been the secret to your successful marriage?Â
Saima:Â Accepting, loving, nurturing and supporting one another to manifest our visions and dreams.
Qurram: Mutual respect and being supportive of each other’s goals. Saima is a pillar for our family when I have to travel for work. Similarly, I have been happy to move cities for her so she could meet her professional commitments.
How do you think couples these days are different from your generation?Â
Saima: The new generation of couples lives in an Instagram world where they expect instant gratification. That’s not how relationships work though. You need to work on yours every day.
Qurram: Every generation is unique, so it’s inevitable for new age couples to be different from us. What I don’t understand though, is the unnecessary grandeur of weddings these days. Agreed, it’s a celebration but does it really require ten opulent functions?
Which one piece of marriage advice would you give to new couples?
Saima: Never try to change one another. Love your partner for who they are. Be a source of peace and positivity in each other’s lives and you are bound to rise together.
Qurram: Rushing into marriage is unwise. It’s crucial to grow as an individual first and be sure of who you are and what you want from life. Only a strong foundation of self will make for a lasting union.
Credits: Text: Sana Zehra – Photos Courtesy: Saima & Qurram
Dynamic performers and quirky style stars, Iqra Aziz and Yasir Hussain are two of the most coveted actors of their generation
Ever since she made her debut with Kissey Apna Kahein in 2014, Iqra has continued to prove herself as a bankable actress with character-substantive roles. While this 21-year old starlet may appear petite and diminutive in person, her exceptional acting skills and uncontainable energy are her true strengths.
Yasir, the people’s artist, is an absolute livewire who wears multiple hats as an actor, talk show host and VJ. His ever-growing fan following can be credited to the ease with which he steps into each of his characters. From the depraved villain, to the unabashed romantic and the riotous comedian, he does it all with equal flair. With a lot being speculated about their work and personal lives, Sana Zehra sat these A-listers down for a casual chat.
IQRA AZIZ
We love your spunky sense of style. How do you plan your looks?
My looks are never planned, in fact it’s almost always a last minute decision for me. I’m always struggling to put together a good outfit, with an appropriate hairstyle, makeup and accessories. Things are pretty disorganised for me in the fashion department, but thankfully, I always manage to wing it.
What are some of the biggest fashion faux pas you’ve made in the past?
There have been quite a few to be honest. The one that I’ve repeated the most though is wearing ill-fitted clothes. They were always too oversized! I also faced a lot of criticism for a black, voluminous dress I wore to the second Hum Awards. I had never worn something like that before, so was pretty excited but faced a lot of backlash for my decision. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion though, so I didn’t take it to heart.
What’s the secret to your success?
Hard work and dedication. The passion I have for my work drives me to deliver the best I can, while my upbringing keeps me grounded enough to understand the responsibilities that come with fame. This is why I try to choose projects that have a strong message. To me, my professional standing is all due to the respect God blessed me with and I never want to take that for granted.
What’s the most absurd rumour you’ve heard about yourself?
That I’m engaged to be married to Affan Waheed! We were photographed while on set for a drama serial and when our co-star jokingly posted that image on her Instagram, everyone assumed we were a couple. Things really got blown out of proportion.
As a child, did you ever see yourself becoming an actor?
Not really. When I was younger the only two things I could picture myself doing in the future were either fashion design or banking. However, as soon as opportunities for acting arose, I was certain this was my true calling in life. I’m still pretty young though, so have time to explore different avenues. You never know what the future holds!
Which contemporaries of yours do you look up to?
I’m very fortunate to be surrounded by visionaries who are ambitious, encouraging and straightforward. Two people who top the list for me are my close friends, Hina Altaf and Yasir Hussain. Their drive and honesty inspires me every day. Both of them have stood by me as my pillars of support through all my struggles. It’s easy to connect with them because we all share the same belief system and path in life.
Would you ever accept a role in Bollywood? If yes, who would you like to work with?
If the script is good, then yes, definitely. I would love to work with Ranveer Singh.
You have a really fun Instagram with an ever growing following. How conscious are you about posting content responsibly?
I’m pretty conscious of the responsibility and have often wanted to address important issues. I do, however, think people need to be kinder and open to difference of opinion. It’s easy to sit behind a screen and ridicule others, but that’s not how constructive dialogue can ever develop.
Tell us about life at home.
My life at home is all about treasuring every moment spent with my mother and sister. I’ve grown up seeing these amazing, resilient women fight all odds to live a fulfilling life. They are the reason I am a strong individual who believes in dreaming big.
“NEPOTISM IS EVERYWHERE. NOT ONLY IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY, BUT EVERY OTHER INDUSTRY AS WELL. AM I BOTHERED BY IT? NOT AT ALL†—YASIR
How has stardom impacted your life?
I started acting at an extremely young age, so it’s hard to tell if the changes in my personality are due to stardom or just a natural result of growing up. Everyone evolves with age and so have I, but the fact that I struggled so much during these years may have made me more reserved than I would have been otherwise.
SHORT & SWEET
What’s one thing you’ve done that most people wouldn’t believe?
I recently tried camping for the first time and hardly anyone would believe I actually enjoyed it.
Which one trait do you admire most in people?
A good sense of humour
Least favourite thing to eat?
Prawns and lobster—I’ve started to hate seafood.
The one role that’s closest to your heart?
Tabeer. I found it very challenging to portray her, but believe doing so changed me as a person.
Last time you were in love?
Well, I’m in love right now
Do you follow a beauty regimen?
I wish I could say yes, but unfortunately, I don’t. The last thing I remember doing to take care of my skin was apply a black charcoal mask and it felt like I achieved the biggest feat possible.
If you had to choose, would you rather give up using social media or watching films/television?
Social media
Where do you see yourself 20 years from now?
It’s hard for me to predict what I’d be doing five years from now, planning 20 years ahead is just unthinkable!
There’s lots being said about your relationship with Yasir. How come you haven’t made any statement to clear the air? I’m still going to refrain from saying anything.
Yasir Hussain
The characters you choose are always beautifully complex. How do you manage to portray them so effortlessly?
I find it very boring to play onedimensional characters, so always add in something to make them more relatable and distinct. For example, in Lahore Se Aagey, my character, Moti, had a speech problem.
Do you think nepotism exists within our entertainment industry? If yes, does it bother you?
Nepotism is everywhere. Not only in the entertainment industry, but every other industry as well. Am I bothered by it? Not at all. Personally, I don’t find any harm in it. An actor’s son will be an actor if he wants to and there is nothing wrong with that. At the end of the day, only hard work and talent lead you to success.
“THE PASSION I HAVE FOR MY WORK DRIVES ME TO DELIVER THE BEST I CAN, WHILE MY UPBRINGING KEEPS ME GROUNDED ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THE RESPONSIBILITIES THAT COME WITH FAME†—IQRA
How does acting come so naturally to you? What is the process of delving into character like?
To be honest, I’m not sure. It just happens. I read the script, go over my lines and immediately understand the character. Method acting has never been my forte and I confess, I don’t spend time researching much either. The most I’ve ever done is to go meet someone I was portraying.
What are you most excited about in 2019?
I’m really looking forward to Anwar Maqsood’s play Naach Na Janey and my movie Anghan Terha.
SHORT & SWEET
What’s an “old person thing†you do?
Value time
What’s the most important thing to remember when going out on a date?
There are three things actually: You must always carry cash, just in case your card doesn’t work. You must have sufficient petrol in your car. You must make sure you go to a place your ex doesn’t know about.
Last person you yelled at?
Well, technically he’s not a person, but the only one I can think of is my puppy, Mogambo. Why? He bit my housekeeper, Nadeem.
Worst thing you ate out of politeness?
I was invited to the Sri Lankan Ambassador’s residence, along with a couple of friends and they served us undercooked eggs with papadum. It was awful!
“EVERYONE EVOLVES WITH AGE AND SO HAVE I, BUT THE FACT THAT I STRUGGLED SO MUCH DURING THESE YEARS MAY HAVE MADE ME MORE RESERVED THAN I WOULD HAVE BEEN OTHERWISE†— IQRA
What’s one thing about you that all your friends would vouch for?
That I always speak the truth
Which Pakistani actor do you think should portray you in your biopic?
Asad Siddiqui
If you weren’t an artist, what would you be doing?
I would have been a doctor
If you could switch wardrobes with a fictional character, who would you pick?
Mogambo, played by the late Amrish Puri in Mr. India
A project you’d like to star in opposite Iqra?
Laila Majnu
How sweet! Time to address the elephant in the room: are you and Iqra dating?
Who doesn’t want a peek into the lives of the rich and famous? This fortnight GT provides you with exclusive insider access to coveted TV anchor and actress Sana Bucha‘s personal space and style. Her modern aesthetic encapsulates the spirit of the chic and timeless elements in her wardrobe and around her home. Sana Zehra talks to her about her favourite pieces
Tell us about the pieces you love most in your wardrobe.
I love classic pieces, so you’ll find a lot of crisp white shirts and timeless blue denim in my wardrobe. This is always my go-to outfit. I enjoy adding pops of colour around my neck, so statement jewellery is another element that stands out amongst my collection. My Hermès boots and scarf are also two favourites that never fail me.
Which pieces in your home do you treasure most and why?
I love surrounding myself with art. It transcends time and adds character to your home like no other. Thus, the two pieces that I treasure most would have to be Italian sculptures titled “La Paloma†and “The Moses by Michelangelo.†I am drawn to history preserved through various forms of art and love that pieces like these allow us to be part of a story.
Since you’re an admirer of all things beautiful, self-care must be important to you. Do you have a favourite night cream? If yes, how did you discover it?
I swear by Laneige’s Water Sleeping Mask. It’s an absolutely wonderful product that hydrates and recharges fatigued skin overnight. How I discovered it is an interesting story. I once happened to notice how radiant the skin of an air hostess was and when I asked her the secret, she generously introduced me to this this gel mask.
Favourite scent?
Oud Ispahan. I like a fragrance that is unapologetic and makes a statement.
I notice a lot of pieces from Versace around your house. You must be a fan!
I do like how the design house crafts its furniture but the fact that you see so much of it around me wasn’t intentional. I just happened to walk into the store spontaneously and ended up buying a ton of pieces that caught my attention.
What do you think about when selecting a piece for your space?
There isn’t an elaborate thought process behind any purchase to be honest. I just buy whatever intrigues me and then try to fit it into my house. One thing that I’m obsesed with, though, are cushions in bold, beautiful colours. I love how they breathe life into an otherwise dull space.
Are there any beauty products or brands that you can’t let go of?
I’m a huge fan of the Zero Makeup palette by Nabila. Apart from that, I’m hooked to my Lancôme lip balm.
According to you, what are the essential wardrobe staples every woman must have?
A basic black or white shirt, blue jeans and pumps in a neutral colour. These are versatile pieces that are always in fashion and easy to style. You can dress them up or down depending on how formal the occasion is.
Is there a recent purchase you regret?
I hardly regret buying anything
Best buys so far?
My Hermès Berline. It’s been part of my life through thick and thin and stood the test of time like a true friend. Yes, bags can there for you!
What’s the most expensive item in your wardrobe?
My diamonds, of course. A close second are my bags but I’m going to refrain from naming them because if my father finds out, I may get into trouble!
You’re known to be a great hostess. With such a busy schedule, how do you manage to throw these fun gatherings?
I think it has more to do with the lovely friends and family who attend these gatherings and make them special. Also, I think the open space my house has makes for an ideal location for large celebrations, while the tiny spots allow room for more private ones. In that sense, its easy to host events of various scales.
Meet Renan Pacheco, an accomplished French model, actor and social media influencer. The handsome artist has been part of campaigns for high-end fashion labels including the likes of Tom Ford, Yves Saint Laurent and Prada. Find out more about him in his exclusive tête-à -tête with Haider Rifaat
“Diversity isn’t everything; diversity is the only thingâ€
How would you introduce yourself to the Pakistani audience?Â
I am an actor based in Paris, France, with varied interests in the arts. I’ve dabbled a lot in modelling, along with testing the waters as a social media influencer, but my first and true love will always be television and cinema.
How did your interest in modelling develop?
Acting and modelling are different forms of expressing the same concept: human emotion. Modelling is acting, but mute. You play with the camera and your environment, just as you would act with other performers on a movie set. As an actor, modelling has always fascinated me, particularly at the beginning of my career; it as an extension of what I was already doing. Even though I focus mostly on my acting, modelling gigs are a special outlet of self-expression.
Who discovered you as a model?Â
I posted many pictures on Facebook in my early teen years and as they went viral, people started contacting me with offers. I can’t recall a specific event or person, so I credit my breakthrough to the support from my followers. It was their messages and comments that made me believe in myself as well.
What are some of the biggest names in fashion that you have modelled for?
I have had the opportunity and good fortune to work with many. The fashion houses include but are not limited to Montblanc, Yves Saint Laurent, Bulgari, Tom Ford and Prada, to name a few. I am grateful for each production team I have worked with and the value they added to my career.
Do you have stage fright before walking the ramp? How do you overcome it?
I try to do something that scares me every day. When you face your fears, you realise that they are just smoke and that nothing is unattainable. I walked the runway for the first time when I was only thirteen years old and despite being scared, I pushed myself to walk with aplomb. Today, I no longer need that extra confidence, all thanks to the 13-year-old Renan who was determined to overcome his fear.
How has fashion evolved in France over the years?
France has always been the international centre for fashion. Under its influence and prestige, everything has stayed the same. I am very fortunate to call Paris my home.
“Plus-sized models are models, periodâ€
Is modelling an underpaid profession in France?
The modelling industry in France has a winner-takes-all approach. This means that five percent of the top models share 95 percent of the financial rewards. My advice to aspiring actors and models would be to prepare for initial low pay scales.
What are your greatest strengths and weaknesses as a model?Â
My greatest weakness as a model is the fact that I give preference to acting. Since I haven’t pursued modelling as a full-time job, I have to give up some great opportunities. However, it’s something I’ve chosen for myself. I’ve placed all my bets on acting. My greatest strength is the ability to recognise my greatest weakness.
What are your thoughts on plus-sized male models? Do you think they have a place in the fashion industry?Â
Of course they do. I don’t agree with referring to them as “plus-sized†though. Plus-sized models are models, period. It’s heartwarming to see people defend these professionals but the debate should never have started in the first place.
How do you keep fit for the job?Â
I have a personal trainer who follows my workouts and advises me on nutrition. Health and fitness have always been a big part of my life and I have kept it that way for years.
“I walked the runway for the first time when I was only thirteen years old and despite being frightful, I pushed myself to walk with poiseâ€
What are some of the current ventures you’re working on?
Due to extreme demand from my followers on social media, I’m currently working on a high-end jewellery brand. I think it’s important to pay close attention to what my community says and asks for. Almost all questions posed to me since 2017 have been queries about when I’m going to launch a luxury accessories brand. Well, they asked for it, so they’ll get it!
Who would you like to collaborate with in the coming years?
I find Pierre Niney’s body of work admirable. His ascension through the ranks of French cinema is highly inspiring. From comedy to drama, he always performs flawlessly. I feel our profiles are very complementary, so if we could share the screen one day, our audiences would enjoy that a lot.
How important is diversity in your field of work?
Without diversity, there is no self-expression. Diversity isn’t everything; diversity is the only thing.
 What are your interests other than fashion?Â
Fashion and acting take almost all of my time. However, when I’m not working, I like to be around my family. The fact that they’re spread between Brazil and France doesn’t help my schedule much though.
How do you combat uncomfortable situations?Â
A situation is only as uncomfortable as you think it is. As Shakespeare rightly said “Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so.†Everything is a stimulus and it is in your power to respond to it in a way that best suits your life. There is opportunity for growth through every experience; you just have to look for it.
Do you ever feel pressured while working outside of your country? Do communication barriers trouble you? Â
Despite cultural and linguistic differences, I pride myself in having great positive energy. I’m good to others, so they are good to me.
What are the biggest cultural shocks you’ve had while travelling for work?
I hope to experience cultural surprises when I visit Pakistan in 2019. Will you be my guide?
How do you bounce back after a professional setback?Â
In life, there are no setbacks, only lessons learnt. Frame your setbacks as opportunities and witness your surroundings blossom with new prospects.
Meher Hasan is on our radar for a number of reasons. Having started modelling only a short time ago, she has already scored high profile campaigns with the likes of Muse Luxe, Afsaneh, Rema Shehrbano, and Zaha to name a few. Not only is she beautiful, but is also a highly imaginative and dedicated writer of short stories and poetry. We love her buoyant personality and kitschy sense of style. Read more in her chit chat with Afshan Shafi
Name three things you love:
Roses, Clouds, Rain
Name three things you hate:
Morning alarms, Waiting, Bullies
What do you do in your free time?
I hardly get any free time anymore but when I do, I like to spend it with my loved ones or catch up on lost sleep.
describe your style:Â Boho-chic. Sometimes I like masculine cuts and take lots of inspiration from vintage glamour, especially for colour palettes and makeup looks.
Dream career:
Working at Vogue
Favourite holiday destination:
Paris
Best thing about modelling:
Being part of a creative vision
Worst thing about modelling:
Never having time!
Last dream:
I was standing in the garden of my old house when a strange reptilian creature tried to attack me. Fortunately, I managed to defend myself with a sharp sword. Basically, I’m a ninja in my dreams. And in real life
Favourite writers/books:
I’m the worst at answering questions like this. I can never decide a favourite book, but I can name writers I like to read again and again: Vladimir Nabokov, Mohammed Hanif, Arundhati Roy, Sandra Cisneros, Nadeem Aslam, Italo Calvino, Francis Scott Key Fitzgerald, Salman Rushdie, Jhumpa Lahiri, Toni Morrison and Miriam Toews, to name a few. There’s tons more but these are all I can think of for now.
People that inspire me:
Lady Gaga
Favourite designers:
Fiorucci, Raf Simons, Ali Xeeshan, Faraz Manan, Jean-Paul Gaultier, Alessandro Michele, Naeem Khan, Kamiar Rokni, Azzedine Alaïa, Faryal Aftab, Marc Jacobs, Miuccia Prada, Nomi Ansari, Phoebe Philo, Virgil Abloh, Sabyasachi Mukherjee, Alexander McQueen, Iris van Herpen, Misha Lakhani, Maheen Khan, the Mulleavy sisters and Elsa Schiaparelli
Beautiful, witty and never afraid to speak her mind, actress Ushna Shah has won a devoted fan following through her powerful performances and forthright demeanor. Born to a family of artists, her love for artistic expression is deep-rooted, but what makes her truly special is her admirable aplomb and integrity. Mehek Raza Rizvi meets her on a chilly afternoon in Lahore for an exclusive tête-à -tête
Rani, Bubbly, Nigaar… the recent roles you’ve portrayed have been of multi-layered strong women. Is this a conscious decision?
Yes. The status quo for a lead heroine is to play the docile girl in need of a man to save her and I have to admit I’ve accepted such roles many times. However, I now feel like I’ve paid my dues and can choose the characters I want to portray. With AAAI (Alif, Allah aur Insaan) I also think I set a precedent for myself. My audience wants to see me portray real women. Women are complex creatures with many layers. To box them in as one- dimensional characters is unfair to our gender. I’m glad the screen is changing and I’m humbled to be chosen to play such characters.
With the conversation on gender equality and feminism on the rise, how important is it for female actors to choose their roles carefully and avoid playing the damsel in distress?
We can’t completely avoid playing the damsel in distress because she is the quintessential fantasy heroine. It’s a treat for audiences to see their favourite faces play the fairytale princess they’ve grown up admiring. I think it is okay to indulge in that fantasy every now and then but the over-all ideology must change. We must never glorify abuse, which is what we did in my drama serial Bashar Momin. As much as I love that project of mine, I do feel guilty sometimes because that’s not the message I want to give young women. In Lashkara, my character is that of a beautiful daydreamer who is very much in love with her prince but when tragedy hits, it’s her own strength that perseveres, not that of a man. Drama serials, such as Lashkara, have been my way of rectifying the messages my submissive roles have sent.
As actors we have a lot of power over the message we send out and in today’s age, women have a responsibility to further the feminist movement. Female actors are certainly not exempt from that. It’s not my job to tell other actors which roles to select but, as I grow older, this responsibility becomes clearer to me.
“EVERY NOW AND THEN, ANOTHER ACTRESS IS
FAVOURED FOR A ROLE MEANT FOR YOU BECAUSE
SHE IS WILLING TO GIVE IN TO A MISOGYNIST
PRODUCER/DIRECTOR’S WHIMS”
How hard is it to detach yourself from the intense and complex characters you play? Does some part of them stay with you?
When on set, the traits of my on-screen characters definitely seep into my own personality. I became versions of myself I didn’t recognize during Rukhsaar and Piya Mann Bhaye. I found myself behaving very timidly during Bheegi Palkein, Shehre-Yaraan and Bashar Momin. Alif Allah took me through many emotional stages off and on camera, which certainly helped the evolution of Rani to Reena Begum but made me behave almost bi-polar. Lashkara was dark and I often found myself depressed and with Nigaar in Balaa, I would be very difficult sometimes (quickly realized my fault and apologized though).
Hence, you could say I’m definitely somewhat an unintentional method actor during shoot. Once camera packs, a quick getaway vacation is mandatory to get the character out of my system and become Ushna again.
Out of all the characters you’ve portrayed, which one do you relate to most and why?
My characters are an extension of myself and my experiences, so in a way they’re always a part of me. However, there isn’t any one character that’s completely like me. I’d feel too exposed to play something like that. There’s security and protection in playing something that’s not you. You can then bring yourself in that character without feeling vulnerable. That’s the beauty of expression through acting.
“IT IS NOT MY JOB TO TELL OTHER ACTORS WHICH ROLES TO
SELECT BUTÂ AS I GROWÂ OLDER, THISÂ RESPONSIBILITY
BECOMES CLEARER TO MEâ€
The fame and influence celebrities enjoy, puts immense responsibility on them to use it wisely. Do you ever feel burdened by the constant spotlight?
I always feel a responsibility to speak up for what I believe in and that almost always gets me in trouble. The platform celebrities have for their voice is a huge responsibility and it would be ungrateful not to use it. The spotlight is rather overwhelming, which is why I’ve backed away from a lot of the PR related social media posts and focused on acting and performance centric roles.
Apart from your strong screen presence, you’re also known for being very outspoken on social media. When a public figure sparks debate, backlash is inevitable. How do you deal with the difference of opinion and hostile voices in particular?
I’ve developed a fairly thick skin so I do what my contemporaries do, which is to ignore. Hostile voices are usually anonymous ones belonging to keyboard warriors who are extremely unsatisfied with their lives and feel the need to attack famous people for their own gratification; those voices aren’t worth responding to. Every now and then, however, I’ll respond, but that’s usually due to boredom or maybe a bad mood.
“WOMEN ARE COMPLEX CREATURES WITH MANY LAYERS. TO BOX THEM IN AS ONE-DIMENSIONAL CHARACTERS IS UNFAIR TO OUR GENDERâ€
As a woman, have you experienced any inherent prejudices in your line of work?
Absolutely! Ageism for one. The blatant sexism and objectification we are subjected to are a close second. Every now and then, another actress is favoured for a role meant for you because she is willing to give in to a misogynist producer/director’s whims.
When a male actor/ producer/director is firm, it is because he is professional and he is the boss, but when a woman behaves in a similar way, she is called an entitled diva. Women are expected to always have a smile on their faces and not show any signs of authority.
I’m glad to see this trend finally change but I’ve gone through a lot because of it in the past. It bothers me greatly.
As the ambassador of Todd’s Welfare Society (TWS), animal well-being and safety is a cause close to your heart. How do you wish to contribute to this objective?
“HOSTILE VOICES ARE USUALLY ANONYMOUS ONES BELONGING TO KEYBOARD WARRIORS WHO ARE EXTREMELY UNSATISFIED WITH THEIR LIVES AND FEEL THE NEED TO ATTACK FAMOUS PEOPLE FOR THEIR OWN GRATIFICATIONâ€
I do my best to raise my voice wherever I can. I believe there needs to be a movement in Pakistan in favour of animals, both domestic and wild.
Firstly, strict laws need to be passed and implemented against animal abuse. The hunting of wild animals, especially endangered bucks and snow leopards in the north, should be strictly banned. For domestic animals, there ought to be licenses and health checks to ensure they’re not overworked and are well fed. ACF (Ayesha Chundrigar Foundation) has come out with “humane harnesses†for donkeys, which I think should be mandatory for anyone using these animals for transport.
Culling of any kind should be strictly banned and instead a spaying and neutering campaign should be made to control the stray population in Pakistan. Animals meant for slaughter (such as chickens) should be kept in healthy environments.
Most importantly, the public should be educated on the importance of treating animals with compassion. To this end, public service ads should be issued and school curriculums should include courses on the importance of empathy towards animals.
We have a long way to go.
What is Ushna Shah like at home? Tell us about your childhood and family?
I grew up as the youngest of six children. My elder siblings and I have a huge age gap so it was more like having five extra parents instead of brothers and sisters. I guess in that way I was a bit spoiled but also very disciplined. My family is full of artists and performers and I am essentially an extension of them.
Theater, film or TV?
Theater
What irks you most about social media?
People getting insecure by the fake lives created by others.
Biggest pet peeve?
Slow drivers/walkers/ATM users, etc.
 Your biggest strength?
My uncompromisable integrity
 And biggest weakness?
Fries
 Favourite ‘90s jam?
Everybody by Backstreet Boys What was the last photo you took?
A selfie with my niece
 Your personal style in three
words?
Comfort Costume Swag
 Last impulsive buy?
A plane ticket
 Most prized possession?
Possessions shouldn’t be prized, people should be.
 What was the last lie you told?
“I’ll definitely try to make it!â€
 One habit you have that annoys your family?
Taking ages in the shower (I just asked my sister).
 Do you have a nickname?
Several: Ush, Ushi, Ushners, Uch, Uchi, Tush, Ushi-Baby and many other variations of Ushna. The rest are very personal and only for family so won’t share those.
 What’s one choice you really regret?
Any choice I’ve made that may have hurt someone else.
 What’s your favourite movie quote?
“Don’t tell me you’re innocent. Because it insults my intelligence and makes me very angry.â€
—The Godfather
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Interview: Mehek Raza Rizvi Photography: Mohsin Khawar Hair & Makeup: Zara Gul Location: Marina Home
Please tell us about your background as an artist and your education in this regard
In 2006, I did my Bachelor’s in Fine Arts, specializing in Indo-Persian Miniature Painting, and in 2012, I did my Master’s in Visual Arts (M.A honours) both from The National College of Arts, Lahore, Pakistan. Before this, I went to the Lahore Grammar School, Defence Branch, and The Convent of Jesus and Mary, Lahore.
Which artists, local or international, have influenced or informed your point of view the most?
Famous miniatures, poetry, and stories from such great masterpieces as Shahnama of Firdausi, especially under the patronage of Shah Tahmasp and Mohammad Juki, Hamzanama, Mirajnama, The Conference of the Birds by Farid ud din Attar, Maqamat or Sessions of Al-Hariri, Diwan of Hafez, The Khamsa of Nizami, and The Haft Awrang by Jami are some of my major literary and artistic inspirations. As far as the great painters of these manuscripts are concerned, undoubtedly painters such as Kamal ud-Din Behzad Heraw1, Mir Sayyid Ali, Reza I Abbasi, Sadiqi Beg, Khawaja Abdus Samad,and Agha Mirak who for the first time brought individualization, free manner of interpretation, of portraiture and nature in the World of Islamic Art as we see it now.
Sana Kazi’s work takes you on a sweeping journey of deftness and grace through the narratives of Sufi poets and thinkers. Both intellectual and mystic, there are no boundaries to what Kazi can accomplish with exhibitions both internationally as well as locally. Sana catches up with Afshan Shafi for an insightful interview
What has been a seminal, life changing experience in terms of your art?Â
A meeting with a group of professionals and intellectuals i.e. doctors, engineers, musicians, painters, lawyers, and writers from the Chishtia order in 2016 changed my views on art and literature, and nurtured my existing practice with a profound meaning and purpose. Frequent visits and sittings with these bright and talented individuals developed my understanding towards Beauty, and the Beautiful, or as is the Prophetic (SAW) saying, “Allah is Beautiful and loves Beauty.â€
The aspect of sublime beauty and its incorporation through image and its concept has been the most life changing experience for me.
Which of your creations are you most attached to and why? Â
Attachment to any given thing has never been a part of my art practice, in regard to painting or even its concept. I paint, the transitory, what is in transit and the passing of every single aspect of life, searching and yearning to be with the One and Only Constant, which is God.
Mount 8ft by 8ft Dry pigments on ash covered wasli, 2017
What themes do you find yourself drawn towards most often in your art?Â
The only theme of love, as Waris Shah explains in his poetry, is that all worship is based and is through the circle of love, not by fear or any law and ordinance. Work is worship and worship is nothing without love.
This “is the freest and the most accepting of times that the world has ever seenâ€
If you could travel back in time to an era in art history which period would you choose and why?Â
This time, this age, this era, I would rather be here than any other time ever. We may not broadly categorize any specific art movement at the moment, but it is the freest and the most accepting of times that the world has ever seen.
What is your dream project? Â
I am currently in process of two projects, which were my dream projects, and have come to reality, hoping for their completion in 2019. Those projects involve materials and concepts that no one in my knowledge has ever attempted before. So let’s see.
Which work of art do you wish you owned?
The complete Shahnama under the patronage of Shah Tahmasp.
Servant 8ft by 8ft Dry pigments on ash covered wasli, 2017
“A meeting with a group of professionals and intellectuals i.e. doctors, engineers, musicians, painters, lawyers, and writers from the Chishtia order in 2016 changed my views on art and literature, and nurtured my existing practice with a profound meaning and purposeâ€
Whose portrait would you love to make?
A portrait is in process a surprise that shall unravel itself in March 2019 in Karachi. It is a portrait of someone I had only dreamed I would make one day. So I am, and let’s see how it turns out. Its titled, Shaikha, meaning calling out to Shaikh, (teacher, murshid.)
Pendulam 8ft by 8ft Dry pigments with gold, & copper on ash covered wasli, 2017
Yearn 8ft by 8ft Dry pigments and gold on ash covered wasli, 2017
Which artists living or dead would you have loved to collaborate with?
Reza I Abassi
What are you working on as a future project?Â
Currently I am working on solo shows in Italy, France, Karachi and Lahore for 2019.
There is no stopping this duo. Farhan Saeed and Urwa Hocane are two stars that collided to form a supernova.
Sana Zehra catches up with this starry couple on the eve
of their second wedding anniversary
Farhan
What are some fun facts about you?
I love playing sports. Cricket is my favourite.
Which of your scars has the best story behind it?
Every scar is a memory, and every memory is special.
What annoys you the most about cliques?
Communication gap
You are strong on social media. Sometimes it’s a double edged sword. While it gives you a platform to get your message across but it also….
Makes your life open to public opinion. There’s a price for everything.
Apart from not trusting others what is one lesson you had to learn the hard way?
That not everyone wants good for others
What’s your style?
Comfort and expressing myself
What insults your intelligence
Computers (I’m a computer engineer.)
When do you agree to disagree
Whenever you’re working as a team, you have to agree to disagree.
What do you think people say behind your back?
I hope good things.
How would you end poverty?
By educating everyone
What’s a more challenging role? Husband, singer or actor?
None, if done properly
“Urwa and I are way too connected to each other for there to be room for any rumoursâ€
What should be the title of your biography?
Battler
What are the hot topics that turn into an argument for you?
Mostly political views
Do you think the best part of life is yet to happen or has it already happened?
Has already happened and is yet to happen too, again.
What do you spend too much on?
Clothes
How would like you people to remember you as?
A great human being
How did you guys meet?
The first time we met was at a get-together at a mutual friend’s place.
“We can’t get enough of each otherâ€
What was the first thing that attracted you towards each other?
The thing I love most about her is her straightforwardness and honesty. In a world full of people with so many faces, she’s really herself. Sometimes she gets in-your-face and people may not like that about her, but I love it.
In what way has life changed ever since marriage?
To be honest my life has changed entirely. I’m more focused, organized and disciplined. Great things have happened to me since we got married.
How do you define your relationship?
Friendship. To be together as a couple and to have to work it out, you are first and foremost friends. You are honest with each other, look out for each other and protect each other. That’s what friends do.
How has your relationship evolved over time?
We became the best of friends over time – luckily for us. And that is the key to a successful relationship. We can’t get enough of each other. We spend so much time together, watching movies, laughing at the same jokes, etc.
What are the keys to a successful relationship?
Like I said, firstly, be friends. Guide each other, understand each other, and love each other. If there’s something not right with your partner, call it out. Communicate. Talk.
Who is the typical life partner from both of you?
Neither. We are both far from being “typical†and I think we’re both unpredictable at times. It’s what makes us interesting to each other.
Who is more romantic or more expressive with feelings?
I like to think I’m the more romantic one. I don’t know what Urwa would have to say about that.
In what ways do you think you complement each other?
She complements me in each and every way. She gives me strength when I need it. Similarly, I complement her. Different people have different strengths and weaknesses. When two people come together, they’re supposed to complete each other.
How do you deal with rumours about each other?
Thankfully, we don’t have that problem. If we hear things, we laugh it off together. Urwa and I are way too connected to each other for there to be room for any rumours. Touch wood!
You have worked in Udari. How does working together bring out the best in each of you?
Udari was a great project to do together. Naturally, the chemistry between us in such projects is phenomenal. It wasn’t even acting. It was just the vibe between us. People were really rooting for us from that point on.
Are there any projects you are both working on currently or are such projects in the works?
Yes, there are a number of projects for which we’re both reading scripts, and if we find something interesting our fans will be the first to know.
How do you both spend your weekends?
Weekends are mostly spent watching Netflix. We love to watch movies together. I think it’s a healthy exercise. It helps build a common intellect or sense of humour. If not, find some other common ground.
How do you describe each other’s style?
We both try to keep it natural and whatever we are comfortable with. We don’t believe in having to go out of our skins to experiment. People should stick to what they feel comes naturally to them.
How has your style evolved since being together?
We take advice from each other and listen to the input each of us has to give. Honest advice really goes a long way.
Do you travel together? Where did you go for your honeymoon and how did it help you understand each other?
We went to Mauritius for our honeymoon. We love to travel together, for gigs, shoots, etc. We’ve been all over Europe together. Traveling together is a beautiful experience. They say there is no better way to get to know someone than to travel with them. So couples should definitely travel together as much as they can.
What is on your goal board for 2019, work wise and family wise?
We obviously want to do great things together. We share our goals and we want to achieve big things for ourselves and for our country. And family wise, we intend on staying just as we are right now, touch wood.
Urwa
What piece of entertainment do you wish you could erase from your mind so that you could experience it for the first time again with Farhan?
I would never want to remove anything that I have experienced. I still enjoy some of my favourite films like I am watching them for the first time.
If all jobs had the same pay and hours, what job would you like to have?
I’d still be an actor. I truly enjoy my work.
How different was your life one year ago?
Life is different every day. It will be very difficult to put that in words but I can definitely say it’s different in a good way today.
What quirks do you have?
Defining my cup of tea
“The first thing i noticed…is the humility in his body language Eventhough all the girls were drooling over him at the gt where we metâ€
Best way to start the day?
Stretching and yoga is the best way to start the day.
What fad or trend do you hope comes back?
Bell bottoms
Which city would you most like to live in?
Karachi
Which movie title best describes your life?
It’s a wonderful life
“Our fans love our chemistryâ€
Why did you decide to do the work you are doing now?
I never really decided to be an actor. I think the field chose me, and opportunities kept unfolding.
What’s the best way a person can spend their time?
By reading
Which website do you visit most often?
Integra
What one thing do you really want but can’t afford it?
A trip to the moon. Ha-ha!
Where do you usually go when you when you have time off?
I like spending time at home when I have time off. That’s the best way for me to unwind.
Where would you spend all your time if you could?
With my mother because she lives in Sydney. I miss her so much.
What is special about the place you grew up in?
Islamabad was the most beautiful place to spend my childhood. I think I will always remember it as a peaceful and clean city. I loved the abundance of nature there.
What age do you want to live to?
For as long as I am healthy, whatever age that might be.
When was the last time you changed your opinion/belief about something major?
I think I do that very often whenever I become convinced about something.
What was the best compliment you’ve received?
That I am a “people builderâ€Â and I am always there for everyone. Mawra calls me that.
If you were the only human left on Earth, what would you do?
That’s a very scary thought.
What is something you will NEVER do again?
I wish to never hurt or upset anyone again intentionally or unintentionally.
What do you spend the most time thinking about?
My loved ones; my family
What are some of the events in your life that made you who you are?
I think every experience has played a role so far.
What are three of the most significant numbers in your life?
I don’t believe in numerology.
What are three interesting facts about you?
I’m super organized.
I’m a morning person.
I don’t like shopping.
If you could make a 20 second phone call to yourself at any point in your life present or future, when would you call and what would you say?
I would tell myself to just believe in myself and keep going further and further with what I love doing.
Urwa, you got married at the peak of your career. Did it ever cross your mind that it could affect your professional growth as an actress?
I think this only added to my professional growth. I believe if you have the right partner who celebrates your career then you only perform better and better.
How did you guys meet?
The first time we met was at a get-together at a mutual friend’s place.
What was the first thing that attracted you towards each other?
The first thing I noticed and the one thing I love most about him is the humility in his body language even though all the girls were drooling over him at the gt where we met.
In what ways has your life changed since marriage?
Life has changed in a really good way.
How do you define your relationship?
Friendship. I second Farhan on this one.
How has your relationship evolved with time?
We became the best of friends over time. Also, we embrace the changes in each other and try to learn about each other as we are growing. We support each other’s individual growth.
What are the keys to a successful relationship?
Communication
Who is more romantic or more expressive with feelings?
I would say we both are our own kind of romantic. Can’t really tell who is more romantic.
In what ways do you think you complement each other?
He makes me feel intelligent, witty and beautiful every day, more than I think I am.
How do you deal with rumours about each other?
They are hilarious sometimes. We laugh it off together.
You have worked in Udari. How does working together bring out the best in each of you?
Udari was a great project to do together. I also really enjoyed working with him on two of his music videos Tu Thori Dayr and Saathiya. Our fans love our chemistry.
Any projects you are both working on currently or are such projects in the works?
Yes, we are. We shall announce them soon.
How do you spend your weekends?
We love spending a slow relaxed day on our days off. We love watching movies. Dining out is Farhan’s favourite, so we do that too sometimes.
How do you describe each other’s style?
We both have a minimal and comfortable style.
How has your style evolved since being together?
Like Farhan said, honest advice really goes a long way. We turn to each other for guidance when needed.
Do you travel together? Where did you go for your honeymoon and how has it helped you understand each other?
We went to Mauritius for our honeymoon. We love to travel together.
Photography by Adnan Qazi
Hair & make-up by Mehwish Almas
Assisted by Nas Din
Sonya Hussyn defies the criteria of beauty in Pakistan.
She walks in her truth and embraces the perfect version of herself.
The star of the highly anticipated period drama Aangan,
Sonya shares her story with Haider Rifaat
Describe yourself in a few words.
Intuitive, somewhat indecisive and a self-proclaimed fashionista!
What kind of household did you grow up in?
A very liberal household where open conversations and dreaming big were the norm and heavily encouraged. I grew up in a family that not only provided me with wings to fly, but also taught me how to fly.
Has your family been supportive of your career?
They always have. My mother was my first ever stylist. She was very particular about how I carried myself and was open to what I wanted out of life. The same goes for the rest of my family. Not only have they been by my side, they take immense pride in where I am today, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
Are you camera-shy? What was your initial response to seeing yourself on the screen?
I don’t think I was camera-shy but I was most certainly unaware of how the camera worked, and how brutal it can be. It was after I had seen myself on-reel that I realized I could do much better. I wouldn’t say I became more self-conscious but I was definitely better equipped to face the camera with much more assurance.
Are you a director’s actor or a spontaneous one?
I think I am a bit of both. I do walk in on a set hoping that I’ll be able to approach the character how I have perceived it over script readings. I am also a very keen listener and open to all kinds of ideas. The director is undoubtedly the captain of the ship, and he/she knows best. I cannot deny that some of my greatest performances have been with a director’s vision, someone who listens and directs.
“Embrace the lightâ€
Where can we see you next?
You will get to see me in Aangan on your TV screens very soon, and Sorry: A Love Story in the cinemas.
What role changed your life?
In and as Nazo.
Your response to people comparing you with Priyanka Chopra?
I don’t entirely find it bizarre, for Priyanka Chopra is truly very inspiring but I think we are very different from each other. I do admire how she has grown as a person and performer over the years.
sonya is said to resmeble Priyanka chopra
Why do women find the need to change their appearance in this and every other industry?
It has a lot to do with how women are required for projection. For centuries, beauty standards for women, particularly in showbiz, have been unreal and unacceptable. I enjoy dressing up and putting on makeup, but I do it for myself, and not to fit into what people expect of me. It’s about time we look beyond appearances. Do notice and appreciate people apart from their looks.
A message to your critics?
I truly value constructive criticism. It honestly helps me grow. However, I do believe in paying the devil no mind. Embrace the light.
Do you take television and film critics seriously?
I do if I know it is coming from a place that is constructive and will help me hone my craft. If there are other vendettas for criticism, I don’t bother pondering over it.
“I grew up in a family that not only provided me with wings to fly, but also taught me how to flyâ€
A motto you live by?
Be yourself with no pretense whatsoever
What’s your success mantra?
I think being able to trust my instincts with scripts that I end up choosing. It’s always a gamble. You never know how well a project may perform, one has to take a leap of faith.
Which colour defines your personality. Why?
White as it’s a spiritual colour
What gives you confidence?
My family and self-belief
This lovely starlet is still searching for her soulmate
What do you look for in a soul mate?
Somebody who can complete my sentences and who knows the person I am inside out; someone who I can live and celebrate my imperfections with. I know it is a struggle finding a soulmate, but I am not someone who gives up easily.
How do you keep fit?
Consistent and persistent workout and a healthy diet
Is casting couch an issue in Pakistan?
The casting coach is most definitely an issue in Pakistan. It’s not the predominant state of being otherwise people like myself wouldn’t have been able to survive in the fraternity. Nonetheless, I feel that both men and women are taken for a ride, in all professions and walks of life.
It is appalling and extremely unfortunate, but things are getting better with time. With recent movements and freedom of speech, we are all more equipped and I am glad that the perpetrators are being called out. It is about time we realize what fair and just work is.
Is free will real or an illusion?
Free will has been a reality for me. As long as I can remember, my family was very accepting and open to however I wanted to lead my life. I know it is not the case with most people in our country, or even across the globe, but I truly believe in the phrase, “to each, his own.â€
It comes from within — to believe that you are worth everything that is good in the world and you are at the top of your game. It is self-doubt that kills you!
What is art to you?
Self-expression
What gives you solace?
My family and the contentment that comes with being able to live my dream.
What would you like to say to your devoted fan base?
I am most grateful for the love my fans shower me with each time. They keep telling me how I need to work more and their support keeps me going.
Fresh entrant to Pakistani television, Anmol Baloch tip-toed into the entertainment industry with a slew of prominent commercials and TV series, but is best known for her role as the much beloved protagonist in Aik Larki Aam Si.
Grabbing all the attention she duly deserves, the model and actress has proved to be a lot more than just a pretty face with her strong screen presence and acting prowess. Sana Zehra meets her for a quick tête-à -tête
Has a disastrous start ever led to something great for you?
Fortunately, I can’t think of anything that didn’t start out well for me.
Which weird food combinations do you really enjoy?Â
French fries with chocolate
How would your country change if everyone, regardless of age, could vote?
With younger citizens being more socially aware through open dialogue and the use of social media, I think our nation could change for the better. By allowing the youth to vote, they will be able to help create a country they would like to grow up in and start families in at a future date. It would also create a greater sense of civic duty.
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What are some red flags to watch out for in daily life?
You can tell someone lacks sincerity when they’re only nice to you when you are surrounded by cameras. A tendency to be overly consumed by one’s phone with no value for interpersonal connections is also a major pet peeve.
If you were surprised with a three day paid leave from work, how would you spend your time?
I would take a quick trip somewhere I can shop till I drop or spend quality time with my cats and family.
Where do you get your news from?
Facebook and Instagram
What movie can you watch over and over without getting tired of?
DDLJ (Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge)
What’s wrong but sounds right?
Love
What’s the most epic way you’ve seen someone quit or be fired?
Someone I know quit their job fearlessly by simply handing out their resignation letter to their boss saying “Hasta la vista, baby.†(Goodbye)
What social stigma does society need to get over?
A lot of the stigmas women have to face on a daily basis. An independent woman is not “corrupt†nor is a woman obligated to bow down to her husband. It’s all about mutual respect, which society needs to acknowledge.
What’s the most creative use of emojis you’ve ever seen?
Narrating a full story through emojis, only making it sound funnier.
What’s something that will always be in fashion, no matter how much time passes?
Watches. I think people will never get over watches
Which actors or actresses play the same character in almost every movie or show they do?
Humayun Saeed and Mahira Khan; he always plays the charming protagonist and she is always seen as the damsel in distress.
In the past, people were buried with items they would need in the afterlife. What would you want buried with you?
My cell phone
What’s the best /worst practical joke that you’ve played on someone or that was played on you?
Prank calling Pizza Hut and asking them for advice to solve my problems.
Who do you go out of your way to be nice to?
I try to be nice to everyone I come across but mostly my family. I would take a bullet for them if I had to.
Which celebrity do you think is the most down to earth?
Mahira Khan
What would be the worst thing to hear while going under anesthesia before a surgery?
The doctor cracking a joke about the survival rate of that particular surgery. Bad timing doc!
Something you have you never eaten but would really like to try?
Sushi
What food is delicious but a pain to eat?
Pani puri. You’ve got to time your dunk and eat it super quickly so the whole thing doesn’t crumble in your hands. But I will gladly eat pani puri any day for as long as I live.
Who was your craziest/most interesting teacher?
My math teacher. He was known for telling the lamest jokes that only he found funny.
“An independent woman is not ‘corrupt’ nor is a woman obligated to bow down to her husband. It’s all about mutual respectâ€
What “old person†things do you do?
Stay home and sleep in on a Saturday night instead of partying.
Though Ramsha Khan’s debut movie Thora Jee Le never made it to the box office, she has risen like a phoenix from the ashes. Currently, the starlet is working alongside industry veterans on super hit dramas, like Wo Aik Pal, Daagh, Khudaparast, and Mah-e-Tamam, and has outdone herself regarding her histrionic abilities in Tumhari Mariam. Sana Zehra sits down with pretty Ramsha Khan for a heart to heart
With whom do you connect with most both on and off set?
I try connecting with the director and my co-actors on set so we can all sync with each other and jump into scenes easily. I’m not much of a good friend off set lol, as I have trouble keeping in touch.
What is your take on love? Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time?
I think love is about caring deeply for someone. And, no, I don’t believe in falling in love with two people at the same time. That’s not love then.
You think you have found your living right now?
Nope, not yet. I have a lot to discover.
You are working with so many people right now. What makes a fruitful collaboration?
I thrive to dig deeper into my craft so I can learn and experience more, and working with all these amazing actors gives me just that opportunity.
Is it harder to get started or to keep going? What was the particular thing that you had to conquer to do either?
For me sometimes it’s harder to keep going, I guess I was lucky I started off easily.
Ramsha thinks Mahira Khan can become a beauty pageant queen
What’s the one thing that’s happening in our industry right now that needs to stop?
I feel like there’s a lobby when it comes to films, it’s like there are a bunch of friends who make films and cast each other. There are so many talented actors in the drama industry who deserve to be seen on the big screen.
What is that one rumor that is not true?
I haven’t heard a signle rumor about me, so I don’t know, lol.
Who do you think could run for a pageant from our industry?
Mahira Khan — she’s both intelligent and beautiful.
What is one thing that men should know about women and vice versa?
We’re a lot stronger than you think, mentally especially.
Can body language be considered a language?
I guess I don’t understand body language. I know it’s wrong but I’m always slouching.
What do you think that tells people?
Lol
How would you start a conversation in a party if you wouldn’t know anyone?
I’m not a conversation starter; I’m socially awkward. Crowds make me anxious.
“Acting isn’t something that you can teach people. It just comes naturallyâ€
What promises have you never carried through for yourself?
That I will be regular with my yoga and diet, which stopped in 2012.
Have you ever expected love in return? Did you get it?
No, I don’t expect love in return. I already get it from my family, friends and fans of course!
If you could spend ten minutes with your “hero†alive or dead, what would you ask him?
Why did you get bored of being Batman? I thought he completed you!
A lot of people in our industry do not have the training or background in acting. Do you think you need one?
I don’t think so, I feel like anyone can act. Acting isn’t something that you can teach people. It just comes naturally. And, no, you don’t need an acting background to become an actor.
“I’ m not a conversation starter; I’m socially awkward. Crowds make me anxiousâ€
If you were in the decision committee to make the next 8th wonder of the world what would you pick?
As weird as it sounds, I’d make an underwater aquarium/gym.
Any crazy fan moment?
Wasn’t really a crazy fan moment, but just last week my friends and I were in a humongous queue for this concert, and one of the people from the security recognized me. It turned out that he and his sister are my fans. So he discreetly helped us cut the queue and get our tickets. It was super sweet of him. He saved the day because all of us had to go to the bathroom really badly.
If you could erase an event from your mind, which one would you choose?
I wouldn’t want to erase any events because then erasing an event would mean erasing an experience, which I obviously don’t want to lose.
Best story in one sentence?
The fool didn’t know it was impossible, so he did it.
Muniba Mazari is a 27-year-old artist, activist and motivational speaker. She runs her own brand called “Muniba’s Canvas” and works at a school for underprivileged children.Â
Who is Muniba Mazari?
The mother of a four-year-old boy, daughter, sister, artist, motivational speaker, TV host, dreamer and an optimist!
What’s a regular day in the life of Muniba Mazari?
My son wakes me up at 7:00am. So my day starts with Nael and his favourite ‘The Dinosaur Train’ cartoon series. After that, I leave for work, or I paint. I’m blessed to have a super busy life thanks to physiotherapy, art and motherhood.
What are some of the challenges you’ve faced being a wheelchair user in Pakistan?
Being a wheelchair user, life wasn’t easy initially. My biggest challenge, or fear, was facing people or a crowd. I fought an unseen battle against this fear for years and conquered it gradually. Today I speak in front of thousands of people. I feel so happy when people know me for who I am or what I’ve accomplished and not because of where I am sitting.
“When I see my scars I feel strengthened and more determined towards my goalsâ€
Tell us about your journey since the accident?
It’s been seven years now. The accident was an incident which made me realise my hidden potential. It made me what I am today. When I see my scars I feel strengthened and more determined towards my goals. The only dream I had was to tell the world that differently-abled people are not less than anybody. They exist, breathe, live. Most importantly, they dream big! The idea was to glamorise the image of a wheelchair user. I’ve worked hard for it and will keep doing it till my last breath. And I’m so glad that gradually the perception is changing. Now people see you for your abilities without judging you for your ‘disabilities’.
Does your accident reflect in your paintings in any way?
Art is the only medium which helps you to express your hidden pain, fear, joy, depression or hope without uttering a single word. I paint women with big eyes which depicts hope and the idea of dreaming. The accident made me a dreamer and my art is all about women who dream big.
Do you remember your first interaction with art? When did you decide you wanted to become an artist?
My childhood diaries are filled with sketches. But I never thought of being a professional artist. The first painting I made was in the hospital. There I realised that this is my real passion.
“The first painting I made was in the hospitalâ€
Tell us a little about your brand “Muniba’s Canvas” and the inspiration behind your art?
Muniba’s Canvas is all about women adorned with traditional ethnic jewels of our country. It’s about life, bright colours and women who are yearning for hope and freedom. The tag line of Muniba’s Canvas is “Let your walls wear Colours.” That says it all.
People usually ask me why I only paint women. I think being a woman, womanhood is the subject I know best!
You have a very gifted voice. Ever thought about pursuing a career in singing?
Music is food for the soul. I feel it’s my responsibility to revive Faiz Ahmed Faiz, Iqbal as well as beautiful national songs by other poets. I want my son to be able to sing Faiz. So if I ever pursue singing as career, my wish is to sing these legendary poets.
What advice would You give to the people reading this?
My story revolves around hope and determination. There’s no shortcut to success. The harder you work the luckier you get. We all have been sent to this world for a purpose. If you still don’t know what that purpose is, then remember, a life without purpose is pointless! Live, laugh, love and share. That’s the key to happiness.
Did you always want to be an actress?
No. I wanted to win a beauty pageant when I was younger. Growing up, though, I found out that Pakistani girls were not allowed to participate in these beauty pageants. So then I thought, “This is not going to happen.” I actually wanted to participate in the Miss World, Miss Universe contests. But I ended up acting and started my career with a feature film.
What are some of the challenges you’ve faced being a woman in the Pakistani film industry?
The biggest challenge is that we live in a hypocritical society where people form opinions without thinking; they go with the image that the other person is showing them. They don’t like confident, self-made women and I’ve always been one. But yes, it’s been very challenging being a girl who didn’t have a film industry background. But from the very first day I have been associated with the biggest brands. So, of course, when there are people praising you, there are always people trying to bring you down.I think this is the case with every girl. Why? Because I reached that level very soon. I started my career when I was 14, I started endorsing brands and I did my film when I was very young. I became huge because of “Bol.”And then being a Pakistani girl going to India and working there in a very commercial film: It’s not easy.
“My dream was to participate in the Miss World or Miss Universe contestâ€
How did Bol change you?
Bol changed me as a woman. I’ve become very patient, my will is very strong, I’ve become more sensible about the decisions I take. And the way my female fans now understand and approach me — that has changed too.
What was different about Dekh Magar Pyaar SAY that made you say yes?
I respect Asad a lot. He’s one of those directors whom an artist wants to trust. So when he came to me, his approach was very nice. He came to me and said “I’ve written this script for you.”
Tell us about your character in Dekh Magar Pyaar SAY
Why did I like the character? The thing about the character in Dekh Magar Pyaar Say is that she’s a feisty girl. She’s very spontaneous. She’s dramatic and larger than life. You can expect anything from her! Essentially, she’s unpredictable with a lot of different shades. I think it’s quite challenging to play roles like that. In my first film I played a mullah ki beti and in the second film I played a bar dancer. This is going to be my third film. So, yeah, it’s been different and adventurous.
Can you personally relate to the character?
Not really. I don’t think actors are always like the characters they play but we have to become like those characters. When people leave the cinema, I don’t want them to go home and forget about my character! Kay bhai popcorn kha liya, film dekh li, ab ghar chalo. No. I’ve always tried to stay in people’s minds. I liked it when people watched Bol they took Zainab along with them. For several days people kept talking about this girl.
How was the experience of shootingDekh Magar Pyaar SAY?
It was fantastic but very, very hectic. I’ve never done such a film before. Not a single scene was shot in a proper bungalow or a fancy air-conditioned set. We had to wake up really early in the morning. Asad would say, I want to shoot you in the
4 am sun. I want that shot. And we said okay boss, we’ve got to come. We completed the entire film in 45 days—a record, apparently, for the Pakistani film industry. So it was fantastic.
“Pakistani people don’t like confident, self-made women. I’ve always been oneâ€
How was Sikander Rizvi as a co-actor?
He’s fun. He’s quite chilled out. He’s a good learner; he’s always learning new things. And we wish him all the very best. He’ll definitely do something nice in the industry.
Describe him in one word
To me he’s Sikki, that’s it. He’s funny, he’s quite a bit of everything!
What was your chemistry like with Sikander?
Since it’s a romantic comedy, we had to make people fall in love with us, and for that we had to fall in love with each other first! We did that. We’ve tried our best as actors.
Tell us about a funny incident on set
Sikki used to mimic me a lot. And he’s superb at it! I think when we shot the first scene in the alley where you can see the church behind us, (when you see the film you’ll know), that scene was very memorable because it was Sikki’s first intense scene with me and he was very funny throughout!
“Not a single scene was shot in a proper bungalow or a fancy air-conditioned setâ€
Are you working on any upcoming projects?
In Pakistan? Not right now. But, yes I am working in India and Inshallah very soon things will be coming up. Who is your favorite Pakistani actor and actress?
I really like Shaan. Fawad is good too. Actresses? All the girls are working so well right now. I really liked Shehnaz Sheikh and Sania Saeed.
What advice would you give to young girls looking to become actresses?
Try and be yourself. Just try and explore yourself more and don’t try too hard. Acting is within you. Be patient.
